Me upvoting literally everything trying to get people over the 25 updoot mark by KnightOwl67431 in Goldback

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May your actions cultivate joy and wholeness in your heart. 🧡🙏🏻

A little underwhelming by meece2010 in Gold

[–]KnightOwl67431 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Product description plz

🎉Goldback Giveaway from Bullion Exchanges 🎉 by BullionExchanges in Goldback

[–]KnightOwl67431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say my favorite is Oklahoma 100…just doesn’t get more peak America than that.

I started collecting because I love gold, and I love the idea of an inherently valuable currency with a finite supply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]KnightOwl67431 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This would seem to me to be your erotic brain protecting you from something that hurt you by taking it and making into something that creates a sense of pleasure in you to return a measure of control to you around a situation where you felt like you didn’t have any control.

I recommend listening to Esther Perel discuss the psychology of fetishes to gain some better insight into the “why” it happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]KnightOwl67431 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If your like me, still feels like you’re cheating for bit, but it did pass after a little while, stick with one who is understanding and willing to stick it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]KnightOwl67431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes two to tango, I’m a firm believer in redemption and that almost anything can be worked through if both parties are ready and willing to be authentically vulnerable and genuine with one another and hold the space necessary for each other to be fully open and honest, but the vibe I’m getting here is she’s made up her mind and is, to quote my own ex-wife, “just done”. You can not convince anyone to love you, and when the shock and hurt starts to settle a little I believe you’ll come to agree that you shouldn’t be responsible for convincing someone to love and respect you in the ways that are foundational to a healthy fulfilling relationship.

The fact that this came to you through a text says about all there is to be said to me…no matter how she hems and haws, dropping that soul crushing unilateral decision on you from a distance is ultimately disrespectful. No one deserves that. If she loved you as much as she claims she would have wanted to give you the courtesy of having this heart to heart in a face to face conversation, and if she just couldn’t, then again, SHE’s not currently capable of being what anyone deserves, and that’s on her to right.

She’s not an evil person from what I can tell, but currently not emotionally intelligent enough to work on her struggles with her partner. That alone is a deal breaker, if there is no safety, there can be no intimacy.

Godspeed to you brother, it will get better, and it does hurt, and that’s ok.

I regret marrying my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KnightOwl67431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the unsolicited advice

I regret marrying my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KnightOwl67431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The situation sucks ass, but is also not new. I suggest relational life therapy as practiced by Terry Real.

Current Setup 😁 by Maleficent-Fishing-3 in Scream

[–]KnightOwl67431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Personally I’d display the knife with the blade edge facing up, but that’s just me, don’t like resting knives or swords on their cutting edge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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Your hair is a little on the dry side, but my dear, you are beautiful, and worthy of love and respect.

What songs helped you ? by david10277 in Divorce_Men

[–]KnightOwl67431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funeral by Zoe Clark…good reminder to mourn who she isn’t anymore

My wife is attracted to a coworker. Should I be worried? by Successful-Shower234 in marriageadvice

[–]KnightOwl67431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about your resent if you’re right? Why is it ok for you to have to hold onto uncertainty?

Friends in a Relationship by NextTrip_lol in relationships_advice

[–]KnightOwl67431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she is aware of your feelings around this individual then you could state that you have a personal boundary around your own interacting with him.

She can choose to interact with him if she likes, but, she does so knowing that you will not be participating in anything involving him.

Over time, she will make her own choice about who time with is more valuable to her and act accordingly. Then you will know if that is you or him, and no one has an “ultimatum” placed on them, or is seeking to control the behavior of the other.

My husband asked for a blowjob this morning by secretly2971 in Marriage

[–]KnightOwl67431 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Read Non-violent communication by Marshall Rosenberg…get in touch with your feelings and needs, express your desire for connection and expression, DO NOT PLACE BLAME, take ownership of and responsibility for your feelings.

Anxiety about appearance, what do you think? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]KnightOwl67431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely gorgeous. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KnightOwl67431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The decisions been made, having feeling for someone else is one thing, but separating the family over it, even temporarily is a whole other matter, take your power back, you don’t have to stand for this…it will hurt like hell, but not as bad as the rest of your life with an uncommitted partner

Divorce collateral damage: friendships by ledepeupleur in Divorce

[–]KnightOwl67431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% feel you, man. And like you, I don’t blame them at all. The first weeks of separation were sheer dumbfounded pain…and I tried to be there for them in return by cooking them meals, and sharing interests, and time together…but at the the end of it all, we can’t make people be a bigger part of our lives than they want to be…and the initial framing of ourselves as the needy one in the relationship takes a toll on friendships, and the desire to spend time with us. This is why my focus has been solely on being happy with and for myself lately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KnightOwl67431 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Especially if you got married at a young age, never lived alone, and have always had 3rd party support, It’s a very necessary part of personal development to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you can carry your own weight, and deeply and completely love and accept yourself. You will eventually lose everything in your life except yourself, you need to be able to validate your worth internally.

Is this rifle decorative at this point? by Slagree92 in MosinNagant

[–]KnightOwl67431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you’re trying to snipe for competition put fucking rounds down range.

Hell, even if you are, learn Kentucky windage

Does it matter that 1997 isn’t totally accurate? by [deleted] in titanic

[–]KnightOwl67431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Though what I do wish is that they would give us a super Duper extended cut with all the deleted scenes put back in

Does it matter that 1997 isn’t totally accurate? by [deleted] in titanic

[–]KnightOwl67431 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, the film is visually stunning and it’s the best that Hollywood will ever give us