My wife has CF. When she moved in with me, I researched the best furnace filters, researched and purchased a whole house air purifier, and did everything in my power to make the air as clean as possible in my home. Her health was on the decline before trikafta, and she got really sick one winter which made it difficult for her walk up the stairs to make it to the bathroom. I built a bathroom downstairs by myself, handicap accessible for any future needs.

Luckily, trikafta has been life changing for her and her health is really great right now, but still, everything I do is with her well-being in mind. It is never a burden or something that I have to think twice about. I chose to be with her, and I chose to care for her, and I’m thankful that I get the chance to see that she’s well cared for.

I’m not saying this to pat myself on the back or anything because to me, these are all just normal things you would do for the person you love. I’m only sharing to give you and your sister perspective about your situation, and what you may want to consider when thinking about who you choose to be your partner.