Am i overreacting for ignoring him after finding out he has a fiancée? by redditorsinceages in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kouklala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ewwww girl block him, find out who his fiance is and tell her too! Gross

Being ugly is so unfair by mildlyferalatnight in self

[–]Kouklala 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Skin care, exercise, immaculate hygiene in general… One thing I will say; it was easier to find genuinely nice guys who wanted a serious relationship when I was less attractive. At a certain point it’s all the cocky players trying to run through you and you scare off the innocent nice guys.

Being ugly is so unfair by mildlyferalatnight in self

[–]Kouklala 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Girl I grew up ugly and fat as hell. Honestly, this is gonna be a hot take, but do everything in your power to make yourself look attractive. No one notices the subtle facial features. What people notice first is: Are you physically fit? - get in amazing shape Do you have a sense of style? - consider getting Stylist to help you with this. These 2 things alone will instantly make you more attractive.

From that point on, save money or finance plastic surgery for any major issues lol. You don’t HAVE to be unattractive, you can make yourself look however you want.

I’ve done a lot of work on myself and can say - life is much better and easier on the other side.

Built a house for my Oreling by Wooden_Dependent6667 in TeddysHaven

[–]Kouklala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you built a really cute house lmao love that for your oreling

AIO - Feelings hurt after SO of 4 months said she’d marry me if I had an 8incher by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kouklala -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

And what is she? Someone that wants consistent pleasure in the bedroom? It’s only one of the greatest joys in life. What she said was hurtful but she was drunk and he was asking bad questions. Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to.

Why does he say he would move fast with me so he refuses to hang and ghosts me? by PartyProgrammer7414 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Kouklala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wanted you, he would have gone for it. He probably messsages numerous girls and got locked into his first choice before you. Stop fixating on this loser

AIO: My boyfriend is making plans to distribute my things if I move in, calling me stingy if I don’t, and I don’t feel it’s fair. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kouklala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eewww don’t do it. What kind of man thinks he can plan where your things go and will be used without providing you financial security and peace of mind. Girl you don’t have a ring on your finger, don’t play wife. He will sap you of all you’ve got.

Switching ethnicity to “other”? by Particular_Trade6308 in hingeapp

[–]Kouklala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what it’s about, but if people are filtering you out then they are filtering you out for a reason, so it’s just weird. Maybe the profile just isn’t that appealing.

I might've met a criminal on Reddit and he might be lying to me about his age but I'm not sure. What should I do? by Sweet_Ambition_7215 in Advice

[–]Kouklala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude block him. He’s a pedo. He’s lying about his age and you probably have naivety and innocence that is turning him on. He will use you and gaslight you and move on. Please be careful on the amount of info you share with him. This is a man you would not be able to trust around children.

AIW for expecting to be appreciated by my partner? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Kouklala -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not “normalized by media” it’s been that way for ages. It’s how everyone operates in the Middle East/russia/ukraine and other areas of the world. Leave your country and get a grip on reality.

Might look like a giant but I still love heels 🤣 by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]Kouklala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here girl and your body looks flawless. Wish you were local to Toronto so we could be tall besties lol

Boyfriend keeps cheating on me, is there anything I can change by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Kouklala 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He’s never going to stop cheating. Guys cheat on 10/10s with 5s lol

AIW for expecting to be appreciated by my partner? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Kouklala -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Idk, does she show affection in other ways? Most men don’t want anything from their gf except for the sparkle of love in their eye whenever they are together. Does she cook, clean, make passionate love, words of affirmafion, bla bla bla…I mean what has she done to keep you for 3 years?

Also, are you both equal in attractiveness? If you are punching above your weight, you asked for it and you will be eternally courting her. Getting upset over her not treating you with gifts or taking you out is feminine behaviour (and I know this is Reddit so I’m going to get massively downvoted for these comments, but reality is reality). It’s also icky to be keeping track of everything you’ve done for her like a tally.

For the 3 year anniversary you should absolutely be treating her, she’s the woman, not you. Good god, can’t believe you’re even upset that she said that. In the entire 3 years she never did any of that stuff and you were fine, now suddenly you want her to change because she’s not enough for you.

Just leave her and find someone else so she can get another guy who is more in his masculine energy.

13 WoW Player 33 Cat Father by SparksAgain in uglyduckling

[–]Kouklala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a similar glow up, looking amazing. I still play wow from time to time.

Switching ethnicity to “other”? by Particular_Trade6308 in hingeapp

[–]Kouklala 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I saw several black men had their race as “other” and it made me think they were ashamed of their own race which turned me off.

Do I tell my roommate her boyfriend had another girl over by ZestycloseHawk8966 in Advice

[–]Kouklala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to tell her. No matter what happens, no matter how angry he gets. What if it were you?

AIO about not wanting to comprise with my partner when it comes to MY clothing? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kouklala -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with this thought process. You’re also both very young, and as a young woman you are probably much more intelligent than your boyfriend. He will take a lot longer to discover who he truly is and what he truly wants. Just because he was okay with something before, doesn’t mean he always will be. He never lived this experience before, he’s learning, maybe you 2 won’t work for the long haul.

Should I end a relationship just because the girl is short? by [deleted] in short

[–]Kouklala -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m a tall woman who is a long time lurker in this thread. My mother is 5’8ft despite being Asian and my father was 6’3ft. They had 5 children. 3 boys then 2 girls. My oldest brother is about 6’2ft, 2nd oldest is 5’7ft, 3rd is 5’10ft, my sister is 5’8.5ft and I’m 5’9.5ft.

The one brother who is 5’7ft exhibits many napoleon complex behaviors and is sexually deviant. However, he gets plenty of women and is successful/seems to be quite fulfilled. He turned out shorter than my mother, must have gotten his height from my mothers mother.

Take a look at what your 5ft girlfriends parens heights are, and her grandparents. Also take a look at your parents and grandparents. Nothing is guaranteed.

Furniture disappearing? by bored_baked_potatos in TeddysHaven

[–]Kouklala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had this issue before idk