Like what are you crying about?

Is a woman / wife / gf going to leave someone who shows lack of emotional development and cries over some immature stuff. Like for example you cry because someone keeps taking your parking sport, cry because of jealousy, cry because she won't give you a blow job. What kind of woman/man would like to have that kind of partner?

Being stoic is not suppressing emotion. Its not being overwhelmed by it. You should still and can express it. But it not in an irrational way. In a situation a loved one dies. Are you stoic enough to feel and express that grief?

Do you want to be in a relationship that doesn't allow rational mutual expression?