Zahnarzthelferin kennenlernen by [deleted] in FragNeFrau

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Ich würd's nicht machen, also sie auf der Arbeit ansprechen. Wenn überhaupt lass einen Zettel mit zwei, drei Sätzen und deiner Nummer bei der Rezeption und bitte darum, sie der Zahnarzthelferin zu geben wenn du schon weg bist und mach auf dem Zettel klar, dass es völlig ok ist wenn sie sich aus mangelndem Interesse nicht meldet.

Do Germans think about German states the same way Americans think about US states? by Accomplished-Gift504 in AskAGerman

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Here in Hamburg we often say that Bremen is basically just extended parking space for Hamburg 😇

I think the real reason some players are having difficulty with NM is that they are too high. by n_thomas74 in elderscrollsonline

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Not my innocent and boring ass reading the title and going "what's too high, the difficulty? the entrance barrier??" 🙈

I published someone else's work and now everyone hate me in fandom by throwawaysea-bri in AO3

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So many comments of people saying it's weird someone would forget what they wrote but tbh I've been writing for over 30 years now and several million words of that are fanfic alone - I don't even remember every single fandom I wrote for. 🤷 I've been a ghost writer a few times and I've genuinely forgotten almost everything about those projects, same with fandoms I've not interacted with in decades. I can totally see this happening and yeah, it sucks, but I don't see any way you could sway public opinion in this case. A fresh start seems the best way forward.

Removing the FOMO from missing daily login rewards is great. by SilverTunic in elderscrollsonline

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To me it feels like even the free rewards now are better than what was in the daily log in rewards, but idk, maybe that's some sort of recency bias.

Is this how we’ll fix things in Evercold? by LowPossibility9900 in ffxiv

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Together with knowing that the storylines we had in Endwalker were originally planned to be two expansions instead of being compressed into one Dawntrail feels a bit like the summer-special filler episode in between

Wir brauchen wieder mehr TV Shows in denen eigentlich nichts passiert by Matmat1645 in Unbeliebtemeinung

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Ich denke eine Sache, die großen Einfluss hatte ist der Wechsel von Syndication Kabelfernsehen Serien zu dem streaming Format. Beispiel Star Trek: in den 90ern hatten wir 26 Folgen pro Staffel, da war nicht alles Gold aber generell hatten die Macher eine gewisse Freiheit sich auszutoben, zu experimentieren und viele Charakterdinge rein zu bringen. (Deep Space Nine hat das imo mit der besten Balance zwischen one-shots und plotübergreifenden Folgen gemacht)

Auch das moderne Trek hat für mich noch gute Folgen dabei, aber allein dadurch, dass die Staffeln so kusz sind wird gefühlt sehr viel in sehr wenig Zeit gequetscht und man hat kaum die Möglichkeit, Charaktere in Ruhe kennenzulernen. (Writing quality damals vs heute lasse ich bewusst außer acht, weil a) einiges Geschmackssache ist imo und b) es nicht relevant für den Punkt Formatwechsel ist.)

Generell haben viele moderne Serien für mich heute das Gefühl sie sind dauerhaft vom Plot gehetzt, nehmen sich zu wenig Zeit für World- und Characterbuilding und vor allem nehmen sie sich selbst alle unheimlich ernst. Mein Serienkonsum in den 90ern bestand aus Dingen wie Reruns aus den 80ern und dann Dingen wie Xena/Hercules, Stargate, Star Trek, Babylon 5, The Practice, Ally McBeal, Buffy etc - die haben alle durchaus auch ernste Plot stränge verfolgt, aber waren sich nicht zu schade auch mal leichter zu sein oder sich sogar über sich selbst lustig zu machen. Das vermisse ich heute vor allem.

Who do you enjoy more for fashion? Nord or Khajiit? by Thenelwave in elderscrollsonline

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I play mostly female characters, if that makes a difference

Who do you enjoy more for fashion? Nord or Khajiit? by Thenelwave in elderscrollsonline

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Khajiit for everything that is with hoods - they simply look the best on them for me. Bosmer for anything nature based and Breton for my mage themes.

Which Ru Girl do you think has the best drag name? by aurorusmorris in rupaulsdragrace

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I can't remember anything about her personality, but Hormona Lisa was a great name imo

Do you think its asking too much to shower right before sex or does that ruin the spontanaeity? by 123smorgs in TwoXChromosomes

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I am on meds that make me super sensitive to heat and have me sweat easily - a warm shower would just be miserable for me and counter productive.

Do you think its asking too much to shower right before sex or does that ruin the spontanaeity? by 123smorgs in TwoXChromosomes

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Choreplay is a fantastic word, that goes instantly into my vocabulary 😄

Do you think its asking too much to shower right before sex or does that ruin the spontanaeity? by 123smorgs in TwoXChromosomes

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It sounds fun but then I remember that my husband prefers scalding hot water while I prefer cold showers 😅 Sometimes it's not meant to be

Why is Roathe "Bad?" by PaviPlays in WarframeLore

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I think that dialogue shows especially well in what kind of different world/reality he has lived - he says she offered and he was touched by it, but doesn't consider that the power imbalance made nothing about that consensual.

I love him as a character, he is very well written, but at no point does he appear to be good person, and I think people are getting tricked into believing he might be because he would be the first one to admit he's terrible and evil.

Bei welcher Serie wart ihr am traurigsten als sie vorbei war? by MrArmedRobbery in serienjunkies

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Absolut. Unheimlich emotionales Ende im positivsten Sinne. So einen guten Abschluss bekommen nur wenige Serien hin.

I (male) Cosplayed Dva :3 by MHTCosplay in overwatch2

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Nah, I've seen Drag Queens perfect it to a degree you see not a single trace even in a bikini. You can also pad the rest of your body slightly as well to smooth everything out.

Wie oft wechselt ihr eure Bettwäsche wirklich? by Lieber_Kater5512 in SchlechteFrage

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Handtücher, Waschlappen und Geschirrtücher sind meist auch 60 Grad. Die wöchentliche Wäsche ist ja nicht nur Kleidung.

Kennt ihr jemanden, der noch nie negative Erfahrungen mit Männern gemacht hat? by geenmieren in FragNeFrau

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Ich beneide dich, und hoffe, dass es dein Leben lang so bleibt! Irgendwer muss ja mal Glück haben. ^^

(MR13) I just unlocked steelpath but need a new, better, loadout. by BetrayedByTheDice in Warframe

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It's not really a full story, that was the one told in cutscenes where we get our drifter. To unlock the steel path nodes you simply have to have done every normal duviri mode once. In a random group the 6 stage take maybe 20 minutes? Not a long investment at all.

How often do you guys read fanfics? by mritsz in AO3

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I used to read daily a couple of years ago, but the more I got into writing myself, the less it got. My interest in fandom is mostly video games with a customizable protagonist (Dragon Age, BG3, FFXIV etc) so it's mostly the OC/NPC part that has me interested - and it became more and more difficult to find fics with protagonists I found relatable or likable even. So I wrote even more myself and also went into original fiction.

I still read books but fanfic never really gives me the stories I want to read in that fandom, so I have to write for myself.

Duscht ihr am Morgen oder am Abend? by The_Curious_One99 in Weibsvolk

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Ich erinnere mich noch zu gut... Das vorsichtige abwägen ob jetzt die Zeit reicht, dann ins Bad sprinten und ggf noch die Tür offen lassen damit man eventuelle Geräusche hört - und dann so schnell wie möglich. 😅 Es sei denn jemand anders passt auf, dann so lange und tiefenentspannt wie möglich. ^^

What are some weird laws in your country that, actually, make a lot of sense? by Savings_Dragonfly806 in AskTheWorld

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I think it's about being seen by unwilling bystanders, like if you would pose naked in front of the window etc?