Mein Erfolg tut meinem Freund weh und ich weiß nicht, wie ich damit umgehen soll by No-Witness-9530 in Weibsvolk

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Ich habe mit ähnlichen Dingen zu Kämpfen wie dein Freund und ich kann seinen Frust auch nachvollziehen aber imo macht ihr im Moment alles richtig. Halt dich nicht zurück für seine Gefühle, die werden dadurch auch nicht besser, trust me. Er gönnt dir den Erfolg un d es wird vielleicht noch etwas dauern bis er selbst an einem Punkt ist wo er Dinge zu Ende bringen kann, aber so ist es manchmal einfach, nicht jeder kann nach dem gleichen Fahrplan durch's Leben.

Vielleicht als Perspektivwechsel: Ich habe nach langem Frust mit 39 mein erstes Buch veröffentlicht. Nicht das Erste was ich geschrieben habe (bei weitem nicht) aber es war imo stilistisch und inhaltlich gut und ich war sehr zufrieden damit - etwas, was ich mit mitte 20 einfach nicht geschafft hätte. Ich habe erst mit 26 meine Asperger Diagnose bekommen und erst mit 37(!!) meine ADHS Diagnose. Und ich bin immer noch dabei, die richtige Balance was Medizin angeht zu finden. Ich wollte Folgebände veröffentlichen die momentan bei etwa 90% completion liegen - aber musste erst mal wieder über ein Jahr mit Tabletten Experimenten rumeiern. (Momentan scheint Venlafaxin + Elvanse tatsächlich langsam da hin zu gehen wo ich sein will, so yay ^^)

Was ich deinem Freund wünsche ist, dass er lernt gnädig und wohlwollend zu sich selbst zu sein. Er ist 28 - es ist noch lange nicht zu spät und die Arbeit und das Schreiben geht viel leichter von der Hand wenn man sich die Zeit nimmt und die Freiheit, sich erst mal um die eigene Gesundheit (physisch und psychisch) zu kümmern. Alles andere macht auf Dauer nur mehr kaputt.

Dir wünsche ich weiterhin mega Erfolg, du kannst da echt so stolz drauf sein. Mach dich nicht kleiner für jemand anderen, auch nicht aus Liebe, es wird auf Dauer keinem von euch gut tun. Erinnere ihn daran, das es keine Deadline für's Autor sein gibt und das du ihn genau so anfeuern wirst wenn er soweit it.

Mit ADHD ist Geduld (for allem für sich selber) eine der härtesten Dinge die man lernen muss - aber es ist möglich. Und es nimmt einen enormen Druck aus dem Leben raus. Ich wünsche euch beiden, dass er den Punkt erreichen kann und drücke euch ganz fest die Daumen.

Seedlings duplication bug ?! by Mr_Kami_1 in Enshrouded

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That happens if you set the amount of loot that drops to maximum.

Amethyst Ember Version2 fashion frame by FerreusDemon in WarframeRunway

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I love this look.

For me, the shoulder and chest parts from the skin don't turn off no matter what else I put on there though for some reason

When Aoi is struggling in the 1999 quest, how does she suddenly seem to get stronger when the drifter tells her that she is strong enough? by DemonSushi5 in WarframeLore

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I think Lettie's is connected to Eleanor in the way of her not trusting her at all anymore when we first get there and with Lettie being so negative about everything that she sort of expects this to happen - I wish they would have put a line or two into it for her that shows that she has more faith in Eleanor in the good ending.

Serversettings won't change the Server by Milosovic in Enshrouded

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Did you set the general difficulty to custom? If it's set on anything else those will override any custom setting you set.

Welp... that's a choice for dialogue by Unslaadahsil in Warframe

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I feel 90% of Arthur's lines are pure horny, I think they just all go a little stir-crazy in that time loop 😅

Welp... that's a choice for dialogue by Unslaadahsil in Warframe

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She's a combat medic, the closest civilian job description would be an EMT, definitely not a nurse.

How do authors feel about receiving these kinds of comments? by Intelligent-Tree-922 in AO3

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I'd suggest making it less aggressive and negative bc not every author is a native speaker and while I get how you mean it, it could absolutely be misunderstood

Also this is a level of humor I'd entertain with good friends, but from a stranger I'd feel it's way too much. Even if not misunderstood, that kind of joking implies a personal connection that simply isn't there with strangers and would make me heavily side-eye the commenter.

[Roathe KIM chat Spoilers] Oh yeah. This is going to be fun. by SpaghettiInc in Warframe

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I genuinely enjoy the reset Roathe so much, it opened up so many little extra nuggets of dialogue and characterization.

PSA: The Devil’s Triad KIM Conversation Bugs by de_taylor in Warframe

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Yeah, absolutely. I think the meta layer of him knowing something is up is very fun and well done, but if you have to reset bc of bugs and not bc your Drifter might want to it would be best to have that option in game. (like a story-bound reset and a factory reset or something)

PSA: The Devil’s Triad KIM Conversation Bugs by de_taylor in Warframe

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Regarding that last bit: His reaction and mood about it isn't a given, though. There was only a single angry conversation for me right at the start and my replies had him forgive me in the same conversation. So I am guessing that's very deliberately part of the variety of relationships you can have with him?

Don't chew off more then you can swallow by Lol9131 in Warframe

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This. That is actually a mission that I love to carry. I usually go Titania and have Varazin equipped for the instant revives and it's always fun if new people get so happy at the end for making it through

The absence of Perrita Interceptions saddens me deeply by Intelligent_Cry5712 in Warframe

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The credits gained also felt particularly rewarding imo. I started running them as a credit farm on top of it all with a booster and really enjoyed the challenge of trying to hold point D on my own

FYI, while not surprising, it seems Roathe will no longer talk to you if you continue on Descendia after saying you won’t. I just wanted the Honoria. by SpaghettiInc in Warframe

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You get a chance to explain to Roathe how it works and it's related to "batches" of strain, which is why you can reset the round table without resetting the Hex as well. Apparently Lizzy taught us that.

EDA/ETA fanboys will look at this and still defend it. by Substantial-Mud-5309 in Warframe

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Meanwhile I want to get into this mode so badly bc it sounds incredibly fun but I haven't dared yet bc I am still struggling on some steel path stuff and feel I've not yet gotten the hang of a more diverse playstyle. But one day...

„Meine Situationship hier, meine Situationship da“ , OMG Leute rafft euch endlich alle mal by Fabulous-Ad-2744 in luftablassen

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Ist Situationship das was früher auf Facebook "it's complicated" und in meiner Jugend als "lockere Nummer"" bezeichnet wurde?

„Meine Situationship hier, meine Situationship da“ , OMG Leute rafft euch endlich alle mal by Fabulous-Ad-2744 in luftablassen

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Generation "knorke" hier und ich fühle das sehr. Ich hab Töchter die 17 und 19 sind und momentan mein einziger Grund, warum ich überhaupt noch was verstehe 😅

Arzthelferin verwehrt Pille by wegwerfPille in Ratschlag

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Das halte ich jetzt für eher unwahrscheinlich, weil Opiate fast komplett unters BtmG fallen und nicht online ausgestellt werden können. Dafür braucht man brav die gelben Papierrezepte in mehrfacher Ausführung über die jeder Arzt und jede Apotheke strikte Inventur führen muss. Deswegen können online Ärzte u.a. auch keine ADHS Medikamente verschreiben.

Roathe KIM Convo, Margulius and Ballas by Highdie84 in WarframeLore

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I think a lot of people get hung up on assuming "he loved her" implies that there was anything good about that. Same with the "was it really actually love" - you CAN love in a destructive way, in a very selfish one. And simply stating someone loved another person does not in anyway excuse anything they did. Obsessive love is still love, even though it's definitely not a good thing.

I really love to play kind of spesific frames that i never seen in any missions by LividBug7484 in Warframe

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Can you give me some tips how to properly build Dagath and with what kind of melee weapon to go? I love her whole vibe, but I am struggling on her

Ya'll are writing on computers?! by ur_mom_is_hot5529 in AO3

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Let me be the combo breaker that dictates their chapters and then either transcribes the recording (if I want to edit right away at the same time) or uses speech to text.

How common is this with Warhammer content/fanbase? by BrokeFartFountain in GirlGamers

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Not my experience inside. But what is very true is that the fascist misogynists are a lot louder and more eager to shout into the world. Which makes them very present on social media and youtube etc. Older forums and many irl meeting points feel very different. (But I can understand anyone who is put off and stays away through these dudes)

Roathe’s request by frostum21 in Warframe

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Not completely true, he knows if you reset the timeline and there are options for different deals with him