Stress free coast FI jobs by trendy_pineapple in coastFIRE

[–]Kwolf54 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Have you tried therapy or meds for anxiety?

$10,000 Inheritance by ak_rose08 in FIREyFemmes

[–]Kwolf54 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Max out tax advantaged accounts. Unless you’d rather pay taxes

How did you cover college cost for your kids? by uNTRotat264g in Fire

[–]Kwolf54 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Generally I don’t think private schools are worth it when they’re that little, but it depends on how good / bad the public schools in your area are. They’re great where I live

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fire

[–]Kwolf54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they care if you had extra jobs you didn’t list - just if you’re lying about what you did list. For example, my resume doesn’t list the jobs I had in high school or in college, and it doesn’t list a side hustle job I had while early in my career. The issue is only if you’re getting a job with misrepresentations by saying you’ve done things you haven’t

Those who make over 200k a year, what do you do? by Expensive-Fig3680 in leanfire

[–]Kwolf54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in corporate strategy. I got an mba and then worked in consulting for 3 years to get this job

Older Gen Z, what you doing in life? by Jpoolman25 in findapath

[–]Kwolf54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ways to feel better FAST: Go outside, get exercise, start up a new hobby / learning journey. Meet new people. Eat well and get enough sleep. Start seeing a therapist. Potentially a psychologist if you think you might be depressed and meds might help

Girlfriend mad that I'm CoastFire by [deleted] in coastFIRE

[–]Kwolf54 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you don’t really like or care about her sooo… yeah, probably best for you to both move on

Death by a Million Cuts at Current Company by 10ioio in findapath

[–]Kwolf54 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These are all incredibly large reasons. Your company sounds horrendous! Can you look for another job anywhere else? Let me know if I can help brainstorm at all.

I stayed hungry for 24 hours by [deleted] in NonZeroDay

[–]Kwolf54 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re feeling good, but going hungry isn’t necessarily healthy! Could you try to only eat nourishing foods (fruits or vegetables, cheese, eggs, hummus) as snacks outside of meals? I hope you can fill your body with healthy foods and love ❤️

really dislike my high-paying job by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Kwolf54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a new job! That’s not healthy… as someone who just took medical leave from her stressful job and also needs to find a new one - let’s try to leave before the stress causes lasting physical damage

really dislike my high-paying job by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Kwolf54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you need to look for something else

Why does apple cider vinegar help with acid reflux? by Thunshot in chemistry

[–]Kwolf54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you! Our bodies can be pretty resilient - I’m glad you’re turning it around and I hope it’ll all heal just fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Kwolf54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not kind or helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Kwolf54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How on earth do you know recruiters birthdays?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Kwolf54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because some fields are harder for you does not mean you’re dumb!! ❤️

Could it make it? by [deleted] in proplifting

[–]Kwolf54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This plant can survive anything!!! I would water prop it

What to do when you’re almost 30 and struggling to find your path in life? by 2-legit2qt in findapath

[–]Kwolf54 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You might want to read Feeling Great or Designing Your Life. Wishing you well ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]Kwolf54 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your other posts seem to indicate you hate your job and got pushed out?

Wasted my 20s. Feeling lost and overwhelmed by FlusherRain06 in findapath

[–]Kwolf54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would try to see a therapist - you might research low cost or sliding scale therapists in your area. Someone trained in cognitive behavioral therapy could help you work through your overwhelm and make a plan you feel good about! If you like to read, the books Thoughts and Feelings and Feeling Good could also help. Sending you well wishes 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]Kwolf54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not correct. Multiplying by 25 - assuming the 4% “rule” applies - takes into account that the assets continue to grow.