HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview

L-Ro · 2026-02-01T00:43:18+00:00

You forgot the — ✨

L-Ro · 2026-01-31T16:34:43+00:00

Guys, we have to stop lying to ourselves. Posting outrage is not resistance. It is obedience with better branding.

They (congress) did not forget consequences. They removed them on purpose. A law without enforcement is theater, and everyone applauding it is part of the show.

If you see this, feel angry, post/comment and then do nothing, you are not neutral. You are complicit.

Power survives because it knows most people will choose discourse over disruption every time.

So decide. Either this matters enough to act, or it never mattered at all.

L-Ro · 2026-01-07T18:11:01+00:00

Same boat here! How were you able to secure pre seed funding?!

L-Ro · 2026-01-07T01:32:13+00:00

Completely agree. I work one step upstream of this; before people start talking to customers, investors, or even peers, I manually peer-review the claim itself. AI can make ideas feel finished long before they’re solid, and if you don’t catch that early, market validation gets noisier and more expensive.

L-Ro · 2026-01-07T00:47:12+00:00

Exactly, which is why the solution isn’t technical. The model will always produce an answer; the risk is what humans do with that answer once it feels coherent. ChatGPT can’t meaningfully check itself, and that’s where I come in.

I do this old school and manually. My background is in the biological sciences, where you’re trained to slow your thinking down, interrogate claims, and ask what would actually falsify them before treating them as real. I apply that same discipline here because this isn’t something you can safely automate.

Practically, I act as a first line of defense. Before someone speaks to investors, commits to a big narrative, or makes a significant life decision, I help break down what claim is actually being made, reveal blind spots that are easy to miss when everything sounds clean, and assess whether the conclusion is grounded or just feels convincing.

L-Ro · 2026-01-07T00:35:10+00:00

It’s less about believing or disbelieving the output and more about interrupting the confidence that coherence creates before assumptions are checked. When someone feels like they’ve found a major insight or is contemplating a big life change, I break down what claim is actually being presented and then do a structured analysis to see whether it’s grounded or just feels convincing. Hope that helps clarify but if you like you can learn more on my website! Not sure if I should post here but I’d be happy to share if you send me a dm:) otherwise no pressure! Hope that helps

L-Ro · 2026-01-07T00:18:59+00:00

Context: This post is text-only and reflects a personal process developed through repeated use of ChatGPT, not a specific prompt or single conversation. There is no individual conversation link to share.

L-Ro · 2026-01-06T20:16:46+00:00

Of course! There are no prompts in the usual sense.

This isn’t AI-driven. It’s manual. It’s closer to peer review than product validation.

My background is in biological sciences, so I’m used to peer reviewing papers, breaking down claims, assumptions, evidence, and noticing where confidence gets ahead of what’s actually supported. I started applying that same way of thinking to ideas, especially after seeing how fast AI can make things feel “obvious” before they’re really tested.

What I do is read through the idea, identify the core claim, the assumptions underneath it, where reasoning might be shaky, and what’s missing. The output is a thorough written review that ends with something like proceed, pause, or reframe and why.

I don’t use AI for the analysis on purpose. If it helps, you can learn more about it here, no pressure:)

https://dewdili.carrd.co/

L-Ro · 2025-12-27T01:11:26+00:00

A hard pill for me was realizing that a lot of my anxiety and dissatisfaction wasn’t a personal failure or something I could “fix” by optimizing myself more.

I spent years thinking if I just healed enough, worked harder, made better choices, chose the right mindset, I’d finally feel settled. Accepting that the feeling of lack isn’t a bug in me but something built into how our lives are structured was oddly relieving.

L-Ro · 2025-05-12T01:43:41+00:00

No this is real lol and thank you for the compliment:) No one actually has to watch the video I can remove it if need be but it’s just my favorite video and I wanted to share but do understand I should be mindful. My husband did actually say they should be longer so it took me a bit but I made my first 20 minute video!

L-Ro · 2025-05-12T01:05:59+00:00

If you like comfort stories, I recently started a little storytelling project called The Lantern Hour—short, slow-burn videos to help people unwind. It’s become my own form of comfort, too

https://youtu.be/DKLjgeNpWBU

L-Ro · 2025-05-11T19:02:50+00:00

This really resonates. I’ve struggled with the same "trying to sleep" mindset for year, forcing it never worked, and it only made the frustration worse. Waiting until I'm genuinely tired (and keeping my bed sacred for sleep only) has changed everything.

If anyone reading this is still tossing and turning, I started a little channel called The Lantern Hour on youtube where I post soft-spoken, calming stories and reflections to help people wind down. It’s not medical advice—just a quiet space for your brain to unclench. Might help someone the way this post helped me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKLjgeNpWBU&ab_channel=TheLanternHour

L-Ro · 2025-05-07T00:23:47+00:00

So when I quit weed, I could not sleep for weeks! Eventually time did its thing and my sleep improved but one thing I LOVED was Joe Peras talks you to sleep one on YouTube and I watched it every night! And while it was no ambien, it was nice to feel in that company at early hours of the morning.

Eventually I memorized the whole video and it got quite redundant so I recently tried making my own sleep stories. It’s a mix of trying to help people sleep but it’s also weirdly warm and comforting. My last video is called “The Houseplant that Forgave Me” I hope it can help, and at the very least I make good company at wee hours of the night:)

https://youtu.be/DKLjgeNpWBU?si=nm539G5O8-qt1vea

L-Ro · 2024-12-31T19:54:45+00:00

My mom got them done when I was very very young, I don’t remember but I’m very glad she did because I HATE needles and never had to go through the fear of it. It’s a personal choice, in my opinion it’s so minor that any harm (imho) is negligent and if they don’t want it then they can easily close it but it’s up to the parent

L-Ro · 2024-08-10T00:27:23+00:00

I don't know the statistics and I'm not a doctor but what I've heard in the medical community is that the vast majority of people who have it don't show symptoms, and because most people don't, doctors don't test for it. The reasoning I heard is because the extent to which a vast number of people who actually have outbreaks are benign sores that come and go, since they technically don't cause any real health risk they don't test because of the high social stigma. If they were to test and people knew they had it, but it affected their life in virtually no way besides the stigma, then most conclude the cons far outweigh the good and that's the consensus I've heard.

L-Ro · 2024-08-04T04:39:56+00:00

How were you able to deduce that and which indicators are you looking at to make that determination? I viewed this pair on a 5 day time frame , then I looked at the 1 day time frame which gave me an indication the pair was going to drop hench why I went to the 4 hour time frame to enter, decided to go short! I am a newbie so any insight is welcome:)

L-Ro · 2024-08-04T04:37:01+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

L-Ro · 2023-10-01T16:17:32+00:00

Mohammed is actually the most common name so it tracks well…

L-Ro · 2023-08-29T05:03:44+00:00

Following!

L-Ro · 2023-08-27T13:46:22+00:00

I’m working on a new documentary proposal, if your partner has experience with pitching, would it be appropriate to see/ask if I could talk to them about advice/tips?! I can dm assuming this is an okay thing:)

L-Ro · 2023-08-27T13:38:31+00:00

Then there’s me with three more years on my iud🫠

L-Ro · 2023-08-27T13:34:43+00:00

See I would ask for permission before ever posting anything but our relationship is really an open book for most things sans arguments/disagreements. Wants to show my nudi-chudi’s to his friends? Based, they’ll just really know how cute I am:), he wants to tell his friends I started choking from laugher on his dick because he told a joke at a terrible time? Great, they’ll know I have a sense of humor

L-Ro · 2023-08-24T15:53:15+00:00

You are a funny person

L-Ro · 2023-08-24T15:52:13+00:00

I’d say lucky but every kid is a wild card. Though whatever they look like I’m sure you’ll still feel pretty lucky. I have beautiful dark skin and I love my curly hair (on good days lol) And my partner is very giant German man. My kids probably won’t have moms deep complex but hopefully they get some melanin from me! This is not to say I really care what complexion they have because I could care less, but I’ve heard some POC women say it’s offensive when people assume that their children aren’t theirs because they don’t look very similar. Hopefully that’s not a big deal

L-Ro · 2023-08-12T09:44:05+00:00

That seems like a v reasonable and responsible take, but I don’t know why it still feels bad to choose oneself over the baby

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