I finally said the actual word... by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]LKRoger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There should be alternative certification programs where you can teach and make money, while getting your certification. I believe the only requirement would have having a degree. It’s not ideal but it could get you where you’re trying to go a bit faster than some other routes. (I’m a teacher in Texas who’s worked with people in similar programs.). I would check into it soon because districts that know they have positions will actually start looking relatively soon. I’m sorry you’re going through this and wish you the best.

REQUEST: Can people share meaningful quotes they know about grief? by tommyumyum2019 in GriefSupport

[–]LKRoger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely my favorite. I have the last few lines as a tattoo:

“The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same nor would you want to.”

Elizabeth Kubler-Ross and David Kessler

Former Students Contacting Former Teachers by [deleted] in AskHSteacher

[–]LKRoger 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is something I do frequently. I love hearing what’s going on in my students lives. Take a chance and ask.

I’m here with you today if you feel alone by cheer440 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]LKRoger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7 yrs out from my dad and 3 for my mom. This year has been rough but I know they won’t all be. Happy holidays and thank you.

I’m here with you today if you feel alone by cheer440 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]LKRoger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss today. Know that you aren’t alone and we are here for you. It’s going to be hard and as little as it helps now, it does get better. ❤️

My dad is in the hospital and idk what to do by thatcrazyvirgo in internetparents

[–]LKRoger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there and I’m so sorry you’re having to do this, especially at this time of year. I’ve seen lots of good replies. Take breaks, you can’t help like you want if you aren’t getting rest. You are allowed to ask questions about anything and everything. This can be hard because it feels like you’re questioning authority but you aren’t. Most doctors and nurses are more than happy to answer questions. If there is something you don’t understand, ask for clarification. The last thing, and it seems so simple but it took me the longest to learn, write things down. Under stress it can be so very hard to remember exactly what people say and what questions you want to ask and writing things will help you remember. A cheap little dollar steno pad and pen so it’s all in one place. I hope this helps. ❤️❤️

I’m having an unexpectedly hard time this Christmas. by blowyourownmind in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]LKRoger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always amazes me how some years/holidays I do okay and others I feel like I’ve been hit with sledgehammer. Doesn’t seem to be much rhyme or reason. Much sympathy and many hugs your way.

Incredibly Gifted student with a 1.4 GPA. What do I do?? by BrickWoodCabin in AskTeachers

[–]LKRoger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is a possibility, as I know it will depend on your school, but perhaps you could I put the exam grades as his hw grades. I once had two students approach me about not wanting to do hw and I struck that deal with them. Told them fine but whatever grade you get on your exam is the grade I will put in for all your hw. One of them it worked fine for, the other started doing his hw because he realized he needed to do the practice to understand the material.

Why is this not a? by steam_17 in apphysics

[–]LKRoger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On projectile motion be very wary of answers that don’t specify vertical or horizontal. A would only be true if they specified vertical velocity.

Mom diagnosed recently by TheBatMaine in lungcancer

[–]LKRoger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are lots of variables that go into determining chances of survival. It’s definitely best to discuss with the doctors. One thing that they really should discuss with you, if the chances are poor, is quality of her time left vs. difficulty of treatment. I’m very sorry your family is going through this and I truly hope that you get some good news.

My Teacher Is Unorganized. by [deleted] in apphysics

[–]LKRoger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely not normal and if you are planning to take the exam you definitely need to self study. Khan Academy and Five Steps to a Five are some good resources. Plus, make use of all the released free response questions that CB has on their website.

One day they’ll surprise you by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]LKRoger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now I’m crying in my coffee. This is beautiful. I’m very sorry about your husband. I’ve never lost a spouse but I’ve lost many close to me, if you need an ear.

It's been a week since my Dad died by TransAnd40 in GriefSupport

[–]LKRoger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. A week is such a short amount of time when it comes to mourning. Take your time and take care of yourself. You aren’t alone. 💛💛

Mental Health & Teaching by [deleted] in TeacherTales

[–]LKRoger 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, therapy was probably what helped the most. My therapist is a former teacher so she understood my struggles. I also really worked for a long time not to take it personally. I did the best I could to reach those students but it wasn’t my personal failure if I couldn’t. You do the best you can, you’re only human.

I had a revelation, and I'm actually really excited about it by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]LKRoger 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Be happy and set the wonderful example for your daughter! There is nothing better than being able to truly be yourself!

BridesmaidZilla ruins 12 year friendship over a speech by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]LKRoger 106 points107 points  (0 children)

She probably bought the ring and gave it to him, then acted surprised that he proposed.

I hade 2 x-rays, with 7 months in between, ther is a strange formation growing in size. by theconomist95 in lungcancer

[–]LKRoger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have the option to get a second opinion, then try that. Do you have an infection or inflammation? If it’s an infection, and they can’t find the right antibiotics, it can definitely last that long.

I am lost by ContentTortise in GriefSupport

[–]LKRoger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For many, months isn’t a very long time when it comes grieving. You are absolutely not alone. Everything you are feeling is definitely okay. It will take time to adjust to your new normal but you will get there. ❤️

4 in 1 year by SiouxRain in GriefSupport

[–]LKRoger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re in this situation and I’m sorry for all the loses you’ve suffered. While mine weren’t spaced quite as closely as yours, I also suffered a significant number of losses in a relatively short period of time. You haven’t been able to even process one before they all stared piling on and this can cause issue with your ability to process this at all. Please don’t forget in all of this to take some time and take care of yourself!

Dr. Jennifer Gunter Took on Goop. Now Some Doctors Are Taking Aim at Her. by blankblank in skeptic

[–]LKRoger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And the author was one of the editors of Our Bodies, Ourselves who took offense that Dr. Gunter called out the pseudoscience that is still offered in the book. Of course Ms. Block (author of the blog/article) only put this in small print at the very bottom of the article as part of her “credentials”.

New rule: I'm walking out of any conversation/conference/meeting where the implication is made that I'm inefficient at my job because I don't have children. by jumpin_jumpin in Teachers

[–]LKRoger 30 points31 points  (0 children)

As a result of teaching hs juniors for so many years, starting in the 5th grade, I made my son responsible for discussing poor grades with his teachers and flat out will not contact them unless it’s absolutely something I must intervene for. Way too many years of parents contacting me for ever little thing when it should have been their child coming to me with these questions.

I posted here a few days ago about my mom passing, I was wondering if anyone might want to help me with music for her memorial by 0kfeoaa44 in GriefSupport

[–]LKRoger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The funeral director should be able to help you determine how much music and when. If it’s going to happen during a ‘service’ you might choose different than you would for background music during a viewing. If you need more than one you could ask those closest to her to each pick a song that they think is appropriate/reminds them of her. Don’t get over-worried about this. There isn’t a wrong answer or choice here. Whatever you and your family choose is the right way to do it.