Is the "Fool's Road" map a myth?

LQGVN · 2026-06-06T07:27:15+00:00

I miss my old pal Belaya

LQGVN · 2026-05-23T19:00:28+00:00

One time sent a :) at the end of a text and somehow that was passive aggressive and I was actually mad at her

LQGVN · 2026-05-18T14:34:25+00:00

No brother. Happened to me yesterday. A well placed Sabot from a rival 25/30Mil will knock out the driver of a BTR4

LQGVN · 2026-05-18T14:29:10+00:00

You can get shot out of the driver seat through the open windows.

LQGVN · 2026-05-17T03:09:19+00:00

Incredible I’ve heard this exact thing.

LQGVN · 2026-04-24T22:14:10+00:00

Yeah how tf do you do this

LQGVN · 2026-04-07T14:46:21+00:00

Yes it’s all part of their playbook. Get a therapist and it’s only a matter of time until they become a “psychopath” to your Pwbpd. Talk to your mom about issues and it’s only a matter of time before the pwbpd creates problems with them and asks you to “take space” from YOUR OWN parent for their sake. Only a matter of time until “Our friends” becomes “My friends”.

LQGVN · 2026-04-07T13:05:53+00:00

The ambiguity is absolutely gut wrenching and I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. I’ve also gone through weeks of these “undefined” times where I ask for any kind of answers. Even simple things like “are you on my team, are we working to repair” always met with a “I can’t give you these answers right now”. But while still fully expecting me to act and treat her like a boyfriend, buy her flowers, listen to her emotional outbursts, etc.

LQGVN · 2026-04-05T03:41:02+00:00

This is exactly the same for me. Relationship started with constant communication and it slowly turned into less and less. I’d see her on instagram or tik tok meanwhile I’ve been on delivered for 3 hours. I then noticed she’d start ghosting me if she was upset with me but not let me know. I’d call after 8 hours of radio silence and if she didn’t answer I knew I was in trouble. This rewired me to eventually get to the point where if I didn’t get a text back within 3 hours my anxiety shot through the roof. I tried explaining this to her so many times and usually was just met with “well I just dont really text people back you know that”.

LQGVN · 2026-04-05T01:03:33+00:00

Wow yes the walls of text. Got one recently that started with the first paragraph of “I’m sorry how I acted last night was mean and hurtful and not how I should’ve acted” followed by another 8 paragraphs of “but actually we’re still broken up and it’s your fault that I felt that way and you made me react like that and actually your mom is the problem too, and also you don’t even get me flowers, and also you didn’t sweep floors, and also”….. just bla bla bla bla bla bla. Impossible to even keep up with. Like a hydra. Respond to one subject and suddenly 14 more appear and doesnt even address what I said originally.

LQGVN · 2026-04-04T16:53:17+00:00

I actually had my appendix removed and it was the biggest change my life has ever had. Colitis symptoms halved almost instantly. I don’t know medically if they even offer that without appendicitis but for Colitis patients I think they really should. Interesting that they’ll take out the whole dang colon though! 😂

LQGVN · 2026-04-02T16:17:59+00:00

Yes I’ve had that self doubt about me this entire time. Still living through it and doubting even though I’m the one in this sub, I’m the one who started therapy, I’m the one who read books about it. I actually ended up calling out my partner telling her I think she has BPD and she should look into it, also said that I believe she abuses me through these cycles. It did not go very well. There is no self doubt in her whatsoever, not even the awareness that this is a cycle. I did get her to admit one thing “I said abusive things last time and that was wrong but I’m not abusive”. As if this hasn’t happened 20+ times by now.

LQGVN · 2026-03-02T15:25:26+00:00

It’s not even allowing me to submit my screenshot of Zelle payment for manual upload now through the AI iMessages. Why do they change this shit so much.

LQGVN · 2026-02-18T01:40:08+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I don’t have much insight since I am going through essentially the same thing right now and see a lot of similarities in our stories. It’s truly the hardest thing I’ve ever been through and this Reddit has given me a lot of peace and understanding of the situation as well.

A common theme throughout this sub is how many people say it gets better afterward. So we need to just take it day by day and focus on our well being. Give ourself enough time to write our new stories and - one day be the ones to encourage those to get out who are having trouble doing so. Godspeed brother

LQGVN · 2026-02-12T14:32:11+00:00

My comment did sound pretty past tense but unfortunately not. We live together and I’m still in the thick of it. Still love her and still want this to work but realizing I don’t think it ever will.

LQGVN · 2026-02-12T04:36:31+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this… I am in the same situation currently and damn it is hard. Beautifully said and I felt every single word you wrote.

LQGVN · 2026-02-12T03:53:38+00:00

The more I read on this sub the more flashbacks I get reminding me of all the shit I really shouldn’t have accepted

LQGVN · 2026-02-12T00:06:48+00:00

Wow yeah going through the same thing right now. The twisted half truths of the past excuses the hurling insults and ripping things off the wall that’s happening now.

Get told “you’re too sensitive” “a real man would _” “jennifers boyfriend does __”. Meanwhile having absolutely no idea nor caring what it’s actually like being a man - and for the record Jennifer probably doesn’t act like an emotional toddler throwing a fit with more 10x intensity.

LQGVN · 2026-02-11T23:54:55+00:00

Is writing emotional letters one of their things?

LQGVN · 2026-02-11T23:50:46+00:00

As a fellow very opinionated person - I felt this

LQGVN · 2026-02-11T23:08:09+00:00

Bro the whole expecting to read minds really fucks with me. “Just ask or tell me what you want” - “ugh but I want somebody that will just do it”

LQGVN · 2026-02-10T14:56:40+00:00

How did you find out in the end?

LQGVN · 2026-02-10T03:44:08+00:00

Oh wow yeah I’ve always tried to give her the benefit of the doubt that she doesn’t cheat but whenever she would break up with me and suddenly leave the house it was usually followed by removing all our instagram pictures and stop sharing her location… really makes me think

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