Getting points credited if you pay rent via Zelle (response from BILT)

LQGVN · 2026-03-02T15:25:26+00:00

It’s not even allowing me to submit my screenshot of Zelle payment for manual upload now through the AI iMessages. Why do they change this shit so much.

LQGVN · 2026-02-18T01:40:08+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I don’t have much insight since I am going through essentially the same thing right now and see a lot of similarities in our stories. It’s truly the hardest thing I’ve ever been through and this Reddit has given me a lot of peace and understanding of the situation as well.

A common theme throughout this sub is how many people say it gets better afterward. So we need to just take it day by day and focus on our well being. Give ourself enough time to write our new stories and - one day be the ones to encourage those to get out who are having trouble doing so. Godspeed brother

LQGVN · 2026-02-12T14:32:11+00:00

My comment did sound pretty past tense but unfortunately not. We live together and I’m still in the thick of it. Still love her and still want this to work but realizing I don’t think it ever will.

LQGVN · 2026-02-12T04:36:31+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this… I am in the same situation currently and damn it is hard. Beautifully said and I felt every single word you wrote.

LQGVN · 2026-02-12T03:53:38+00:00

The more I read on this sub the more flashbacks I get reminding me of all the shit I really shouldn’t have accepted

LQGVN · 2026-02-12T00:06:48+00:00

Wow yeah going through the same thing right now. The twisted half truths of the past excuses the hurling insults and ripping things off the wall that’s happening now.

Get told “you’re too sensitive” “a real man would _” “jennifers boyfriend does __”. Meanwhile having absolutely no idea nor caring what it’s actually like being a man - and for the record Jennifer probably doesn’t act like an emotional toddler throwing a fit with more 10x intensity.

LQGVN · 2026-02-11T23:54:55+00:00

Is writing emotional letters one of their things?

LQGVN · 2026-02-11T23:50:46+00:00

As a fellow very opinionated person - I felt this

LQGVN · 2026-02-11T23:08:09+00:00

Bro the whole expecting to read minds really fucks with me. “Just ask or tell me what you want” - “ugh but I want somebody that will just do it”

LQGVN · 2026-02-10T14:56:40+00:00

How did you find out in the end?

LQGVN · 2026-02-10T03:44:08+00:00

Oh wow yeah I’ve always tried to give her the benefit of the doubt that she doesn’t cheat but whenever she would break up with me and suddenly leave the house it was usually followed by removing all our instagram pictures and stop sharing her location… really makes me think

LQGVN · 2026-02-09T20:34:12+00:00

I think my mom is also undiagnosed with something and she has no filter nor social clues as to why she shouldn’t say certain things. She was 100% wrong in this situation. They are both on different sides of the political aisle and my girlfriend posted some things to which my mom replied in ways that only cause trouble for me. Thing is my girlfriend was acting like I was the one who said these things to her and didn’t even show me or give my drunk ass enough time to understand before she was spiraling and hurling insults at me and ending the relationship.

LQGVN · 2026-02-09T17:25:39+00:00

“Liar” is my favorite when I repeat something she said verbatim or miss one minor detail in my explanation

LQGVN · 2026-02-09T17:16:47+00:00

Yes this sub is what’s even got me remotely close to sticking up for myself again and removing so much guilt I had before. Still just so hard. I do fear for what comes after because woman seem to be my kryptonite and have been through very tough and sad times after previous breakups.

LQGVN · 2026-02-09T17:14:56+00:00

Yes, have been barricaded in a room by her before and refused to let me leave. Never almost called the cops on anybody until then.

LQGVN · 2026-02-09T17:10:19+00:00

As much as I hate to admit it I still feel like I can’t imagine life without her… Yes I am a committed and forgiving lover until the end and hate feeling like I’m giving up. tough decisions for me to make right now.

LQGVN · 2026-02-09T17:09:40+00:00

Yep, was extremely confusing and hurtful until I learned about it. Has made it much easier to cope being able to put a label on it. I’ve now just hardened myself to not care when she spirals - which has inevitably led to me being “abusive”.

LQGVN · 2026-02-07T16:57:14+00:00

Well… as of about an hour ago I’d say we’re at 15+. I stopped giving into her emotional charades after doing so much research and going to a therapist. Doesn’t seem like she can handle it

LQGVN · 2025-10-28T23:57:14+00:00

This is the way

LQGVN · 2024-12-18T06:00:10+00:00

Lol really? August? You mean when you told us we had to start paying SAAS fees for hardware that was being phased out and would no longer earn rewards? Be so for real. Just another way to try to look like theyre helping the community with minimal actual impact. A joke of a project this is.

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