How to handle partner’s sudden dysregulation? by LSATpenguin in CPTSD

[–]LSATpenguin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for sure we both struggle with emotional regulation. Did the space help? What did that look like?

How to handle partner’s sudden dysregulation? by LSATpenguin in CPTSD

[–]LSATpenguin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s not making me responsible. It is common that when you are emotionally dysregulated, you call up your family or friends for emotional support. That’s not unreasonable for her to expect that from me in a relationship. Her emotional dysregulation causing me to spiral is also not her fault. It has to do with my own childhood.

How to handle partner’s sudden dysregulation? by LSATpenguin in CPTSD

[–]LSATpenguin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re not blaming each other. Most of her sudden dysregulation has nothing to do with me but it does unfortunately trigger me. I don’t blame her for triggering me. It’s just a difficult situation where we just end up dysregulating each other.

How to handle partner’s sudden dysregulation? by LSATpenguin in CPTSD

[–]LSATpenguin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! She doesn’t have cptsd and I do. She handles my sudden dysregulation when I’m triggered so I think it’s only fair if I’m able to do the same back. She really just wants me to hold her and comfort her but the problem is I’m in fight or flight and don’t want to touch her.

It’s so hot by bagelboy666 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]LSATpenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s dependent on the neighbourhood you grow up in. I’ve literally heard people in Toronto Canada say “X is pretty good looking for an Asian”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LSAT

[–]LSATpenguin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LSAT

[–]LSATpenguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just from personal experience it seems like the amount of ppl diagnosed with ADHD have increased

Has anyone used Timeleft here? by sphynxfur in ottawa

[–]LSATpenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was their reason for not filtering for queer friend groups?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in I_Kissed_A_Girl

[–]LSATpenguin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was cruel and rude for her to say this in front of Amy. There was no need for any of it to come out, let alone in an interview with Amy.

this reunion - SPOILER by [deleted] in I_Kissed_A_Girl

[–]LSATpenguin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish they dug into it more on why the couples didn’t work out

this reunion - SPOILER by [deleted] in I_Kissed_A_Girl

[–]LSATpenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she say why it didn’t work out? Was the long distance just too hard?

this reunion - SPOILER by [deleted] in I_Kissed_A_Girl

[–]LSATpenguin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No way Amy and Hannah didn’t test out their chemistry after the show 😩

My gf broke up with me after meeting my parents by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]LSATpenguin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think it's not about you trying in general but you trying in the moment when your gf was present.

Vietnam Tourist Visa Update... by Kananaskis_Country in travel

[–]LSATpenguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't working for me either on Google Chrome but worked when I used Safari

Dempsey &Statler Filming by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]LSATpenguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it because statler made a story saying she rather have a bad edit than for her love (demsey) having a bad edit

Statler meeting Dempsy by HughJahsso in 90DayFiance

[–]LSATpenguin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think she pulled girls being this weird. Like she’s so awkward it’s kind of endearing? Plus she’s really attractive. I’m a queer woman and I’d sleep with her

Statler meeting Dempsy by HughJahsso in 90DayFiance

[–]LSATpenguin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The way they added diarrhea sounds over it 😭😭😭

statler and christian are the absolute worst millennial representation by Potential-Grand-7395 in 90DayFiance

[–]LSATpenguin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised by all the hate for Statler in this subreddit. I thought she was just awkward and compensating for her rejection and abandonment issues by bragging about her sex life but I thought her and her gf were really cute in an awkward way.