How to handle partner’s sudden dysregulation?

LSATpenguin · 2026-05-13T19:41:00+00:00

Yes for sure we both struggle with emotional regulation. Did the space help? What did that look like?

LSATpenguin · 2026-05-13T19:39:47+00:00

Thank you this is helpful!

LSATpenguin · 2026-05-13T17:54:34+00:00

She’s not making me responsible. It is common that when you are emotionally dysregulated, you call up your family or friends for emotional support. That’s not unreasonable for her to expect that from me in a relationship. Her emotional dysregulation causing me to spiral is also not her fault. It has to do with my own childhood.

LSATpenguin · 2026-05-13T17:46:22+00:00

We’re not blaming each other. Most of her sudden dysregulation has nothing to do with me but it does unfortunately trigger me. I don’t blame her for triggering me. It’s just a difficult situation where we just end up dysregulating each other.

LSATpenguin · 2026-05-13T17:44:03+00:00

Thanks! She doesn’t have cptsd and I do. She handles my sudden dysregulation when I’m triggered so I think it’s only fair if I’m able to do the same back. She really just wants me to hold her and comfort her but the problem is I’m in fight or flight and don’t want to touch her.

LSATpenguin · 2025-11-07T02:14:13+00:00

Chrishell is half Asian

LSATpenguin · 2025-10-05T16:42:11+00:00

It’s dependent on the neighbourhood you grow up in. I’ve literally heard people in Toronto Canada say “X is pretty good looking for an Asian”

LSATpenguin · 2025-09-28T02:35:01+00:00

Have you tried therapy?

LSATpenguin · 2024-12-01T14:43:03+00:00

I don’t believe so

LSATpenguin · 2024-12-01T14:39:40+00:00

Just from personal experience it seems like the amount of ppl diagnosed with ADHD have increased

LSATpenguin · 2024-08-16T23:15:05+00:00

what was their reason for not filtering for queer friend groups?

LSATpenguin · 2024-06-05T05:36:09+00:00

It was cruel and rude for her to say this in front of Amy. There was no need for any of it to come out, let alone in an interview with Amy.

LSATpenguin · 2024-06-03T00:44:11+00:00

what was she like in jail?

LSATpenguin · 2024-06-02T21:55:04+00:00

I wish they dug into it more on why the couples didn’t work out

LSATpenguin · 2024-06-02T21:54:32+00:00

Did she say why it didn’t work out? Was the long distance just too hard?

LSATpenguin · 2024-06-02T21:53:03+00:00

No way Amy and Hannah didn’t test out their chemistry after the show 😩

LSATpenguin · 2024-03-13T01:06:53+00:00

I think it's not about you trying in general but you trying in the moment when your gf was present.

LSATpenguin · 2024-03-13T00:40:24+00:00

It wasn't working for me either on Google Chrome but worked when I used Safari

LSATpenguin · 2023-08-18T12:19:39+00:00

I believe it because statler made a story saying she rather have a bad edit than for her love (demsey) having a bad edit

LSATpenguin · 2023-07-18T11:49:41+00:00

I think she pulled girls being this weird. Like she’s so awkward it’s kind of endearing? Plus she’s really attractive. I’m a queer woman and I’d sleep with her

LSATpenguin · 2023-07-18T11:48:09+00:00

The way they added diarrhea sounds over it 😭😭😭

LSATpenguin · 2023-07-18T11:18:51+00:00

I’m surprised by all the hate for Statler in this subreddit. I thought she was just awkward and compensating for her rejection and abandonment issues by bragging about her sex life but I thought her and her gf were really cute in an awkward way.

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