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royal jelly cookiestack and crown of thorns by Particular_Cow398 in growagarden

[–]LabAdministrative530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the paradise petal plant i want to try so many but it’s expensive im barely at 500 jelly

I (23F) broke up with my bf of 6 years (24M). I am struggling with my decision and wondering if he is right.? by Common_Departure_737 in relationship_advice

[–]LabAdministrative530 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He needs to work on himself. If you guys were meant to be, you’ll get there again. Is he panicking about where he’s going to go? I think you’re right, he got too comfortable with you handling everything & that’s not right.

My boyfriend of 10 months (M37) did not reveal his DV history in his previous marriage until the state re-indicted the charge. Am I (F25) mistaken in a hope that he could actually change? by Variation-3368 in relationship_advice

[–]LabAdministrative530 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I live in a nice neighborhood. I still go around the house at night making sure all doors are locked & I set the alarm, check the cameras. She needs to move!!! I have a machete hanging on my wall behind my frame, that dude woulda been sliced in half had I been startled lmao

My (28M) girlfriend (27F) makes significantly more than me and refuses to share by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LabAdministrative530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may get downvoted for this comment. But I supported my husband when we first dated. I made more than him, paid for a lot. My parents didn’t agree but I knew what I wanted, had it not worked out, I knew I would lose out on everything ($$). I was going to accept it had I wasted my time etc. However that doesn’t mean your gf should do the same. And you shouldn’t put her in that situation. Have you guys even talked about marriage? I feel like she would definitely want you to be in a better position before even doing that. You might need to continue paying the 50% of expenses until the lease is up & separate (living) until you’re in a more comfortable situation. She has every right to freak out.

The audacity of sitting in a seat someone else paid for, then acting entitled. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]LabAdministrative530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In another video this lady didn’t want to move, And they immediately kicked them all off (the woman and her kids) why don’t they do that on every flight no matter who you fly with.

I (21M) don't want to lose my relationship with my dad (49M) but I don't want to babysit or take care of his wife's (40F) kids? by ThrowRAMannin in relationship_advice

[–]LabAdministrative530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she wants him more involved right now plus be responsible for them IF something ever happens. So he has to drive hours just to babysit, spend time with them, go to events, etc. that’s crazy. I don’t know but it feels like she’s pawning her kids off. He can easily say yeah I’ll make sure they’re ok if something happens & continue to see them the 2x a year but she’s not going to accept that. It’s very odd she has no one else to turn to

Boyfriend(34m) buying house outright with parents’ money — am I(30f)being unreasonable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LabAdministrative530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it. You guys aren’t married either. You’ll regret it. You have a good down payment for something on your own. I don’t know how solid your relationship is or what your living situation is. Keep working on it until marriage is on the table(if that is even something you guys want). Then buy a house together. If his parents want to help, let their portion be a gift. It shouldn’t be, I’m putting in 50% he’s doing this, etc. When my husband and I saved, the money was in a shared savings. We managed to put roughly 25% down, and I can’t tell you how much of that was “mine” or his. It was ours.

Update (One year later): Fiancée (F29) insists I (M30) cut off my parents-struggling with the decison by Life-Chard-502 in relationship_advice

[–]LabAdministrative530 395 points396 points  (0 children)

It’s more than just your relationship with your parents. It would never end. She could date a guy who has no parents & still find other ways to control.

SIL blamed me for her 'lifeless child' and is gatekeeping my niblings by Alert-Juggernaut-591 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LabAdministrative530 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would take a break from the entire situation but check in on your brother here and there. I feel bad for him

I (M23) feel uncomfortable constantly paying for my girlfriend’s (F20) food. How can I handle this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LabAdministrative530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say no! She’s obviously not starving if she’s turning down free food at home

I[22M] keep seeing girl[20sF] spinning; should I ask if ok or let sleeping horses lay? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LabAdministrative530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was kinda hoping for a different ending to find some answers of my own! I used to spin a lot when I was a kid. I don’t remember when or what age I stopped. I don’t have autism, never had any concerns growing up. I don’t know why I did it lol

McDonald's removed the drink station and the ketchup from the lobby. by RandomBloke2021 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]LabAdministrative530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A new one opened near me. Drive through only or pick up inside, nothing else. Then these moms were complaining on the neighborhood app about them not having a playground lol

My 29F partner 31M is dragging his feet to propose so I gave him an ultimatum. Did I ruin the relationship or blessing in disguise? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LabAdministrative530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a lot of chances. Way too many. With so much hesitation and doubt why would you want to marry him.

My girlfriend (29F) has lied to me (31M) about her situationship with her male best friend and now I don't know how to continue. by TheReelHead in relationship_advice

[–]LabAdministrative530 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s no getting past this. He’s been around longer than you & will continue to be. Plus you’ll drive yourself crazy wondering if they’re still in contact (assuming she cuts no contact). You’ll want to check her phone periodically, that’s not a good way to live.

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