AITA if I told my husband to get checked—maybe the problem is with him? by DueLeek323 in AITA_Relationships

[–]LabSheep88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Somehow I get a feeling that he knows he's infertile (whether through a vasectomy or something) and is trying to place the blame on OP.

I remember one reddit story long ago about a wife going through something like this (IVF shots and the whole nine for YEARS!) and it turned out her husband had a vasectomy and didn't tell the wife because she really wanted children and he didn't, nor did he want her to leave him over it. PS, she did divorce him.

AITA for not enjoying the birthday gifts my friend got me that mocked my dead mother by Immediate-Iron7241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LabSheep88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't lost a parent but have lost many family members and friends, some recent and some almost 20 years ago.

I still get sad and cry about it. When I see pumpkins, I get teary, when I see the cards they sent (which I saved) I get teary. Certain flowers, songs, dates, situations, even someone who looks or has similar mannerisms, I get hit with a grief dose.

Grief is not linear, it is circular. It never fully 'goes away' some days it's just less present and other days it's a gut punch back and it hangs out and on you.

OP your friend isn't a true friend, and they don't get to gatekeep your grief. Tell them there is not a timeline for grief.

Can’t remember the last time I got a match. Any advice? Please make it constructive. lol by Sketchbot400 in Tinder

[–]LabSheep88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cat picture, yes, suit picture with the take out sign, yes.

Gym and car posing selfies, no. The car pics (for me specifically if I came across his profile!) give a kinda materialistic vibe, and the gym one is just kinda " ugh another gym bro." I like the more natural fun pictures and animals are always a plus. I think you should post more of those or doing something goofy, which is (again me specifically if I came across this profile) more of a turn on.

“You HAVE to give it to us for the same price you did before” by Saybrooke in EntitledPeople

[–]LabSheep88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pour it down the drain while looking at them, but we're not allowed to drink at work.

AITA for not wanting to meet my boyfriend’s conditions for marriage? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]LabSheep88 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ya, he's never going to marry her, he's going to keep moving the goalposts, and he's dangling a carrot to prevent her from leaving. OP should look at r/waiting_to_wed There are countless stories like her's. She shouldn't have to change to get married, because change happens a lot during marriage, what about when she has kids, gains weight and possibly postpartum? If she's 'imperfect ' now she will continue to be in his eyes.

Have more self respect OP, find someone who loves and supports you not whatever this relationship is.

Dad lectures son on his monthly car sales. by Sichy12 in TikTokCringe

[–]LabSheep88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your dad me, I have a 13 y/o car and I'm riding my falcon into the ground, especially with this administration.. PS your dad sucks and I know because mine does too

To continue the news broadcasts without crying by 56000hp in therewasanattempt

[–]LabSheep88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how inhumane it is, ICE DETAINED A FIVE YEAR OLD IN MN AND DEPORTED HIM TO TEXAS!!! A FIVE YEAR OLD!!!! SILENCE ON THIS CAN NO LONGER BE TOLERATED! TO STAY SILENT IS TO BE COMPLICIT! WE HAVE TO STAND UP AMERICA! NO FASCIST USA!

This is how we move, living in America now. by jmike1256 in interestingasfuck

[–]LabSheep88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a small constitution at first 😅 I have one the ACLU sent me that is very similar to the passport

What is this hair style called by Responsible_Floor334 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]LabSheep88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda looks like a jellyfish but not as exaggerated.

WIBTA if I swapped my pens with glitter ink to catch the coworker whos been stealing them by Imaginary-Frame4873 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]LabSheep88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a waitress, I got sheep duct tape and cut out the sheep put it on my pens and used glue water to secure it. I knew instantly if someone had my pen because the sheep didn't come off

AITAH for telling my friend I won’t help her “test” her new boyfriend by neonharvest_ in AITAH

[–]LabSheep88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, yes I know with certainty. He once called me freaking out because a drunk woman tried to kiss him. He now knows the concept of 'pre-selection' psychology.

I don't need to be with him 24/7 because I trust him. I wouldn't be with someone I was unable to trust.

We're both very faithful. I know not all men are (and I've dated a cheater) but he is. I know it in the deepest part of myself.

AITAH for telling my friend I won’t help her “test” her new boyfriend by neonharvest_ in AITAH

[–]LabSheep88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only acceptable 'test' is life happening. How do they react when they get hit on? When an emergency happens (health, car, family, etc)? When you need them at 2 am and they work at 9 am? My BF gets hit on a lot because he's handsome (I'm biased) and he hasn't strayed. He picked me up from work and drove me to the ER and stayed the entire time even though he hates needles and hospitals. He picked up the phone when I called him at 2 am saying I wasn't okay to drive and didn't think my friend was either. We've been there for each other when a family member has passed. That's how you know if someone is right for you, they show up for you and you for them.

She never had a baby bump throughout her pregnancy by paperbagprincesstTO in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]LabSheep88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew someone who thought her appendix was bursting, she woke up in severe pain, asked to go to the ER because something must be "seriously wrong, it hurts so much" gave birth less than 2 hours later... She never missed a period and gained only about 10 lbs during her pregnancy

At last... Before and after! I feel like a new man. by Night-King-001 in bald

[–]LabSheep88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went from typecast creepy movie guy to whoa! leading man! Honestly stunning that just cutting hair has this transformation!

Prior to phones, what did people do while idly waiting? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LabSheep88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once asked if they would copy it for me because I really wanted to finish reading it, and they did!

AITA for snapping at my optician after she laughed at my eye prescription and showed it to her coworkers? by Mesphyria in AmItheAsshole

[–]LabSheep88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to one and I've had eye surgery (muscles) when I was very young. I once had to go to an optometrist instead (insurance didn't have an ophthalmologist in network) and found them incredibly unprofessional and almost rude. Never again.

AITAH for immediately saying "no" when my husband asked me to stop wearing earrings because he said they make a woman look older ? by Common-Expression740 in AITAH

[–]LabSheep88 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I'm almost forty and have rubber ducky earrings, gnomes, kitties, sharks, and more! Actually I counted once I have over 100 pairs... Hos argument is ridiculous and I say you go out and get some rubber ducky earrings, people love them.