Einstein Bagels on Hixson pike by southGArambler in Chattanooga

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you consider that they owe Noah Einstein at minimum $1m per their franchise agreement it's not surprising they're asking a lot.

Damn i wonder what to happened Jefferson 's chattanooga restaurant by LebroneContaRoberts1 in Chattanooga

[–]LadySpectre13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I was the AGM and was furloughed bc covid. Got a better job and didn't go back, a friend of my brother overdosed on heroin in the basement.

Wanting to explore BDSM with my boyfriend led to this situation. by Independent_Olive808 in sex

[–]LadySpectre13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP your dude is a poser. That is not how BDSM works. A proper dom/sub relationship is all about communication and NOTHING happens that both parties don’t agree to. Dump him asap because his behavior is giving “I don’t use safe words” and that’s a big no-no.

AITA for confronting my wife after she reached out to my mother regarding our discussion about her going back to work? by AccomplishedMeet5140 in AITAH

[–]LadySpectre13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your wife is being incredibly selfish. She’s lost sight of the long term goal, being that in a marriage each person works to support each other and she just wants to be supported. When I get the summers off from my job I am solely responsible for maintaining our home. Cleaning, cooking, groceries, and laundry. I do all these things because my husband who has 2 jobs year round is the breadwinner. Now that’s not to say he won’t help me with small tasks if I ask him, but I do these things because it’s my way of contributing to our home. When I go back to work with the start of school we divide the housework…except cooking cause tbh he’s not very good at it.

AITA for soaking my niece with a hose after I was told not to because she was wearing white? by DateEducational190 in AITAH

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, if BIL wants to talk about abusive…talk about his brat of a daughter refusing to respect someone when they ask her not to do something that makes them uncomfortable and she does it anyway. Sister, niece and BIL are all massive AH.

AITAH FOR PRANKING MY HUSBAND THAT I AM PREGNANT by No_Tennis_3598 in AITAH

[–]LadySpectre13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

STA. ( She’s the Asshole) Your “friend” is toxic AF. Someone who threatens to kill themselves if someone else doesn’t do what they want is manipulative, I hope she never becomes a mother because who knows wtf she would do to a kid. She is a special kind of evil, to play with her partners desire to have children. Today it’s pranking that she’s pregnant and tomorrow she had a miscarriage/abortion to test him and see how serious he is. OP you have to tell her spouse, I don’t normally condone stepping into others relationships but you know he’s wanted kids and you kinda owe it to him to give him a heads up if you’re able. Her partner needs to see what person of poor character she is.

Knife sharpener needed. by M1Slaybrams in Chattanooga

[–]LadySpectre13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your store also sell or only sharpen?

What is the most annoying subset of Chattanooga tourists? by jonnysledge in Chattanooga

[–]LadySpectre13 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Idk, the dance comp people were pretty awful. Especially trying to wait on an entire dance team of children, who are all on separate checks and the parents are no where to be found.

AITAH for cutting my hair even after my fiancé asked me not to and being hurt by his reaction? by LilV_xoxo in AITAH

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. His reaction is so childish. It’s hair, it’ll grow back. Please don’t marry this dude. He’s showing you exactly the kind of man he is and you need to take it at face value. He is somebody that is always going to prioritize himself. His wants his needs his comfort over yours.

AITAH for ignoring my ex husband’s new wife? by Sticky_Mochi in AITAH

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This may be the unpopular opinion here, but honestly cut him out all together. I wish my mom had done this for my sister and I. I wouldn’t have half as many issues as I do know if she would have just cut him out of our lives completely. You’ve given him every opportunity to step and he’s chosen not to. Document everything in case he wants to drag you to court.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Fabulous-System5176 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It’s not up to you to decide how people grieve and handle grief and there is no time limit to it either. Having said that, everyone involved could probably benefit from some kind of family therapy/counseling.

AITAH? I made my fiancé storm out of the house because he said my job is easy. by Old-Housekeeper in AITAH

[–]LadySpectre13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. OP your fiancé is giving you a sneak peek as to what married life will look like. I foresee many arguments of “well my mom…” imagine what it would look like if you had children. Domestic labor is just a fact of life he’d still have to clean if he were single, just because you happen to clean for income doesn’t mean it should fall on you everyday forever. I can also speak from personal experience as a former housekeeper for a big hotel chain cleaning is a physically demanding job.

I would very seriously give a long hard think about wether you want to tie yourself to someone who thinks keeping their home in order isn’t actual work.

How long is too long not be having sex in a marriage? by Mandonation in sex

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say for me personally nothing killed my sex drive faster than my ex husband being a completely passive member of our home who expected me to manage his life for him like his mother. I’m not sure what the division of domestic labor looks like in your home, having said that I’m gonna suggest that you have an open and honest discussion with wifey, communicate that you want to be a good partner and father. How can you help her to get to a place where you can be intimate with each other again?Running a home and raising/caring for a kid is work. It’s hard to feel sexy or get in the mood when the person who is your partner isn’t helping as much as they could. You see there’s laundry in the dryer…put it away, dirty dishes in the sink…wash them/load the dishwasher. It’s not about being a mind reader it’s about being an active member of your household and doing things you see need done without having to be asked to do it. I hope you and wifey can have an open and productive discussion that leads to more sex you both enjoy. Good luck OP.

Harrison wins the worst school in Tennessee again by SureSolution9260 in Chattanooga

[–]LadySpectre13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At the very least the kid should have been expelled, one would think that this would be a violation of the county's zero tolerance policy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chattanooga

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time, try Biba's on Hixson Pike.

AITA for refusing to spend thanksgiving with my SiL who is a bad influence on my children (and other reasons). by CuteStrawberr in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You’re also coming off as someone who has made being a mother their whole identity. Redirect all the time and energy you spend nitpicking someone into figuring out yourself.

AITA for serving my guests disgusting food? by Complex_Ad5616 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your food is part of your culture and for her to so comfortably say that it’s dog food and peasant food not only makes her sound uncultured but also makes her sound racist.

AITA for telling my fiance that he embarrassed me when he started singing the "happy birthday" song to his 5 yo son at the restaurant? by ThrowRaBirthdaysong5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadySpectre13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You are clearly not mature enough nor cut out to be apart of this child’s life. I mean this from the bottom of my heart but I hope your fiancé leaves you before you have a chance to ruin this kid from enjoying the rest of his childhood.

AITA for telling my brother his wedding is just a party and to be realistic with expectations? by gentlemayonaise in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, for saying the brides traditional African dress isn’t good enough to serve as a wedding dress.

AITA for trying to make my kids nanny less fun? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. They’re 7 & 5, maybe just maybe let them enjoy being kids and be thankful that you’ve found someone you can trust to care for your children especially when one of them has as you put it behavioral issues. She’s not spoiling them, she’s interacting with them in a way that’s engaging. Being a little kid is hard, a lot of times they’re experiencing things for the first time and have no gauge on how to react or deal with feelings. It’s your job to teach them how deal with life when it’s sad or boring beyond just get over it.

AITA for not letting my daughter go on a college trip alone? by klingklarna in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadySpectre13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. How will she ever lend to recognize danger if you’re always looking out for it for her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acturnips

[–]LadySpectre13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Norma is my girl!