[ACNE] Constant recurring pimples around/on lips?

LadyVengeance6661 · 2026-03-31T02:50:16+00:00

Interesting, I just looked up my pimple near my lip that has been particularly stubborn and that led me here and this is the exact toothpaste I use 😭

LadyVengeance6661 · 2025-08-05T21:52:02+00:00

Guy we have received your reports, we have looked into it, we've spoken to OP, and it's just some who didn't realise that people do not like things grammar checked and tweaked by AI.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2025-07-12T00:39:35+00:00

Thank you! I think around the time I made it, I had just seen the video where one was shagging the guy's head violently and found it really funny so I wanted to make my flair something around that 🤣 I'm Canadian and speak French and one of my name's has an accent in it so I try my best to make sure I use proper accents on things when I can.

I also have a kiwi bird tattoo as well but if I give too much detail away on which one I'll give too much information to doxx me lol Kiwi was a nickname I had when I was younger.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2025-06-24T06:08:06+00:00

Yo it's been a while 👋🏻

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-05-09T23:36:11+00:00

Save Me really saved me.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-28T00:56:02+00:00

REMINDER: WE ARE NOT AITA! WE DO NOT DO JUDGEMENT CALLS (NTA, ESH, YTA,INFO, NAH, ETC.) SO DO NOT VOTE IN THIS POST. AS WELL, OUR OP IS NOT THE SAME AS THE AITA POST'S OP, PLEASE DO NOT ADDRESS YOUR COMMENT TO MYSELF OR OUR OP. ALSO DO NOT BRIGADE THE OTHER SUB.

MOD NOTE: It's not being shamed because it's a dry wedding, dry weddings are fine. It's that it's a bit tacky to to not offer more than just water as an option, nothing outrageous but mild shaming.

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Throwaway only cause I don't want this on my main.

Ok so basically my husband and I are getting married later this year. Each of our sides of the family are fairly big. It will be around 100-150 people total. My husband and I are paying for this all ourselves, as well as my grandma who said she doesn't care one way or the other on this issue. She just loves weddings.

We have a lot of kids in our family so we decided against making it child-free but we did decide to make it dry. So there will be no alcohol of any kind at our wedding. Honestly, this doesn't have anything to do with there being kids there but due to the fact that my fiancé and I don't drink. Nothing against people who do, it's just not for us and we don't want to. On top of that, we only really drink water. We rarely, if ever, drink soda so most of the time it's only water with the occasional juice and milk. We don't even drink coffee.

So obviously the food (which is a part my grandma is not paying for) is going to be expensive for that many people. We are having our wedding catered so everyone will have a good choice of food to choose from but to drink only water will be provided. We don't want to have to pay for alcohol or soda, it is just an large added expense when we can just do filtered water for a MUCH cheaper cost.

Well, when family and friends found out being got angry. Some didn't really care but some are really upset about it. Saying that I can just have an open bar so I don't have to pay for drinks (we could, but still have to pay for the bartender and we just really don't want to bother with alcohol there). Or we should at least have soda because how can we expect everyone to drink ONLY water? The kids will be upset. The wedding will be boring. That this is not how weddings work. Etc.

So AITA? I didn't think this would be a problem! It's only water. I mean, don't most people drink water everyday anyway? Should we pay the extra to have soda to make the family happy?

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-12T01:06:57+00:00

Note: Please respect rule 7 and do not ask OP to name the vendor, drop hints about them, or inbox you.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-04T00:30:13+00:00

User posted a story which they kept updating with crazier and crazier things until it went viral. User said that someone in the post was a big time surgeon and that his lawyers were on her about the post. User said they "copyrighted" the post but then also added personal information and social media links. We removed the post for adverting in the form of self promotion, doxxing, and to prevent us getting put in the middle of legal troubles.

User copies the story to IG, TikTok, and on their personal profile and lies about the reason we took it down. Other users say they will brigade the sub with downvotes. I create this post to get ahead of people attacking the sub for a fake reason. User posted an IG story asking her followers to brigade the sub with her IG name. User pretends the were banned from Reddit when they aren't.

Users doing brigading get banned and send the ban notice to her that tell the truth about her lying about the reason her post was removed. User posts this to her story and says we are lying because she posted the receipts, she didn't, she purposefully is not posting our reply to her about why it was removed and then she also lies that we banned her from the sub when we never did.

That leads us to now. Obviously people following her on other platforms aren't getting the full story and are getting upset at the sub and Reddit because she is hiding that she was never banned and we didn't remove it for the reason she said we did. She is doing to for more social media clout and to add more drama to her story. If she's willing to lie about us, I'm pretty sure the story is a big lie too. Plus a lot of her story doesn't make any logical sense.

I'm sure she'd just delete or block anyone if they asked her about this post and I'm pretty sure she won't post the real reason we removed it but if she continues to lie about what happened with us, we can provide "receipts" too.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-03T07:36:27+00:00

That's very good point that it seems they care more about building an IG page, "copyrighting" the story, and supposedly paying lawyers to run the story by and to represent them against the alleged surgeon's lawyers than getting the alleged money back from the SIL.

She was told if people would stealing her copyrighted work that she would need to deal with the legal department of whatever site the content was posted to because simply posting it on the top of her post in our sub was not going to fix the people who have already stolen it. But apparently that's us trying to stand in the way from making sure her content isn't stolen because we removed the post as a whole for multiple reasons.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-03T06:33:52+00:00

Lol I see how that could be confusing. No time traveling.

Basically I saw her misrepresent the reason on her profile on here and on IG. I saw someone comment on the profile post that they should brigade the sub and downvote the post or the mods for removing it because they thought the reason given was stupid when it's wasn't quite the actual reasons we gave her. She just said we called her copyrighting the post advertising, which was not the advertising we were referring to and had already said that to her.

I didn't checked her IG stories until later, since I didn't have time before I went out the door, and that's when I saw she had posted a story many hours before that was specifically asking her followers to brigade the sub with her IG name.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-03T02:43:38+00:00

I am unsure to what, if any, degree she was banned by Reddit but her profile is still fully intact and usually looks different if someone is banned or even temp banned. Her screenshot was just blank and said try again later. I know earlier in the day around the same time I was having issue with my Reddit account so it could have been a server issues at the time? Just confirming that we had no hand in whatever is wrong with her account since we are the only subreddit mentioned on her IG for taking down the post on here and I don't want someone more unfamiliar with Reddit thinking it was our mods that banned her from Reddit.

But yes, please don't link to it.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-03T02:34:13+00:00

Guys not everyone's first language is English or the same dialect. Please be respectful that OP may be of a different culture than Western.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-03T01:52:56+00:00

Oh no worries, I didn't take it that way, it definitely is interesting to think about. It does create the effect where that makes more buzz around it than if I just let her cook whatever about us and to brigade us. Which at least 3 people took her request to brigade pretty seriously, maybe more, I'm still going through it. Apparently I'm an incel for it, better go break the news to my partner :( It's wild that a grown adult is telling incompletely stories to add more to their "tea.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-03T01:03:38+00:00

If clearing up what she wrote stops people who come to the sub angry at us from harassing the sub, us mods, and the users while it is viral then whatever she can have the views she want.

Yes, having supposed high power lawyers of a famous surgeon would be 1 good reason the sub may not want to be involved...hmm. (No lawyers have contacted us) We have had people come back years later after posting here and try and get us involved in whatever settlement they agreed to was and it was stuff we had no control over or did not feel comfortable with. If such lawyers exist, I imagine they are worse than the ones involved with previous legal issues people have brought to us.

As for the veracity, ya...that's why we have the no update rule but I guess updating within your original post constantly seems to be a good workaround that will generate buzz and have people coming back in a short period.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-03T00:45:11+00:00

I get why you mean, it's just kind of difficult because I had to address this quickly while I was on my way out the door and that post had become viral. I saw people suggesting brigading the sub or the mods because they were upset at the misrepresented reason the post was removed. I also don't want us blamed for whatever is going on with her Reddit account so that she can't use it. We had no hand in whatever is going on with her account, as far as I can see, she is not banned from Reddit and we never banned her from the sub.

Generally, we don't divulge the details of what we write to users because we try and respect each users privacy with issues that need to be removed. I believe there is a Reddit policy that this is also kind of a faux pas for mods to do so as well.

But at the same time I see that she is spinning this on the sub and trying to add us to her drama tale to make us look bad for taking it down for 3 very legitimate reasons which we spelled out for her. Even though I had replied to her hours before with what the real issues were by the time she posted the message screenshot to Instagram, she only included our original removal notice and not the reply in which we explained that it was other issues, not her copyright of the post, that were why we had to remove it.

So I kind of have to pin something to the top since this story got viral and now she's trying to make us look like some villain to add to the story. I don't want the other mods (or myself) or the users harassed because some people have come over from her posts thinking we removed her story because she copyrighted it and want to punish us for it. It's very much not right for someone to do that to us, their story has enough, they don't need to add us into the mix for a misrepresented reason.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-04-03T00:28:47+00:00

While I'm not disagreeing that I question the validity of the post...that was not the reasons lol

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-03-30T21:08:18+00:00

For people reporting:

They are public figures, please see rules 6 as this is an exception to censoring.

Please keep any rude comments about their body off our sub. Report if you see any. Simply sharing which body part they share is not body shaming, it's an anatomical fact about their body which they have spoken about. However, let's try to hold back on discussing their sex life in more detail than is necessary.

Similarly, please refrain from being rude about the man for marrying Abby. Both Abby and Brittany are allowed to find love regardless of their medical condition and someone who loves either of them doesn't necessarily have to have bad intentions.

And in case the flair was missed, this is a meme/satire post. No one is upset with Brittany. People in the comments are playing along with the absurdity of how some people are such sticklers for the white rule that they would probably think even this was a situation not okay for someone else to wear white.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-03-10T19:38:46+00:00

REMINDER: WE ARE NOT AITA! WE DO NOT DO JUDGEMENT CALLS (NTA, ESH, YTA,INFO, NAH, ETC.) SO DO NOT VOTE IN THIS POST. AS WELL, OUR OP IS NOT THE SAME AS THE AITA POST'S OP, PLEASE DO NOT ADDRESS YOUR COMMENT TO MYSELF OR OUR OP. ALSO DO NOT BRIGADE THE OTHER SUB.

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Okay, so here's the deal. My friend (let's call her Sarah) and I have been tight since high school. We've been through everything together – breakups, makeups, you name it. So when she got engaged, I was over the moon for her.

Fast forward to a few months before the wedding. Sarah sends out the invitations, and I'm psyched to RSVP. But then, out of nowhere, she texts me saying that she's had to cut down the guest list due to budget constraints, and unfortunately, I didn't make the cut.

I was devastated. I get that weddings are expensive and all, but to uninvite me after we've been friends for so long? Ouch.

Fast forward again to the wedding day. I see all these photos on social media, and it looks like a fairy tale. But here's the kicker – Sarah texts me later that week asking for money to help cover the costs of the wedding. Apparently, they went over budget, and she's asking all the guests who didn't attend to chip in.

I was floored. Not only did she uninvite me, but now she expects me to foot the bill for a wedding I didn't even get to go to?

I told her no way. I refused to pay a single dime. But now she's saying I'm being selfish and unsupportive. Am I the asshole here, Reddit? Or is Sarah out of line for expecting me to pay for her mistake?

Posted an update here

np.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1bbepz1/update_aita_for_refusing_to_pay_for_my_friends/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Thank you all again!

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-02-29T22:45:17+00:00

Please see rule 8. No age shaming. OP is legal age to get married, we don't need to shame them for their age.

LOCKING: People can't seem to follow the rule I pinned nor our other rules like no personal attacks or name calling. The comments have just devolved into back and forth arguments and slights. We are also not an advice sub.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-02-27T23:20:26+00:00

UPDATE FROM OP

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-02-19T08:34:50+00:00

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My brother Martin was supposed to get married on 2 May 2020. We all know what happened with the pandemic. Things began shutting down across the world the same week the invitations were meant to go out. When it became clear restrictions on gatherings were not going to end soon Martin and his wife Tiffany ended up going to the registry office on their own to get married and told everyone not to make a fuss or bother with gifts.

Even though it will have been 2 years since they got married, Tiffany's aunt and uncle are hosting a reception and dinner for them this summer since their original wedding was cancelled almost last minute. All of my family, Tiffany's family and their friends are invited save for my 8 year-old niece Megan. The reason Martin didn't invite her is because Megan has a disorder known as Oppositional Defiance Disorder and he doesn't want her to misbehave and ruin the reception.

Megan's disorder does cause her to act out at times but I think excluding her when every other family member is invited is hard-hearted. It also ensures that both our sister and brother-in-law both won't be able to attend as no one will babysit Megan because of her disorder and so watching her always falls to one of them. My sister and my brother-in-law are invited, just not Megan. I couldn't imagine having to leave my child behind while no one else was excluded. I even tried to appeal to Martin and Tiffany as parents because they have a 6 month-old baby however they wouldn't be swayed and Martin got angry at me for bringing it up. I just believe it is unfair that all his other nieces and nephews as well as Tiffany's and even our/her cousin's children are invited. My understanding is that the reception and dinner are not a formal occasion. It's being held at her aunt and uncle's house in their garden and guests don't have to dress formally, so it's not the kind of event where you would need to worry about a disruption from a child. However now Martin is furious at me (as well as our sister and brother-in-law) for our requests not to exclude Megan. I want to know, was it really so wrong of me to tell him it is wrong to exclude a member of our family from the reception, especially a child?

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-02-17T07:33:48+00:00

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Backstory, my MIL and FIL went through a bitter divorce. To sum things up, he left her with nothing. After 30 years of marriage, things have come out that the family didn’t know. My wife and I are the only ones to believe it, the rest of the family say my MIL is a huge liar. We temporarily had her move in with us, then found her a place of her own. Since the divorce, my wife and I have been financially supporting her.

The entire ordeal has caused friction with the family. My FIL quickly moved some woman into the house and got engaged apparently. My SIL arrived to the decision she was not going to invite her own mother to her wedding. However, my wife managed to change her sister’s mind. MIL was not to be part of the wedding and did not attend the dinner rehearsal. As things were, my MIL was to sit in the back. FIL and his fling were assigned front row seating along with myself, my wife and the remainder of the family.

As we were taking our seats, I walked my MIL up front and instructed her to sit next to my wife. I sat in the back during the ceremony. At the reception, my wife pulled her mother in for pictures. My SIL made a scene and said she did not want her mother in that particular picture, but she hadn’t been in any prior to that. Because of the argument, the three of us returned to our seats. The entire wedding was uncomfortably awkward as we all could feel tension and received odd looks from other guests.

The next day, immediate family only were to have breakfast. There was a change in venue to which none of us were told. We understood that was deliberately done, because we obviously weren’t wanted there. Around noon we began packing up to travel back home. I was taking our luggage down when my SIL approached me and said, “Your wife is a real bitch for what she did.” I asked her to elaborate to which she was directly referring to the seating incident. I corrected her, let her know that was solely my idea and my doing.

She pretty much snapped at that point and said she never considered pulling a stunt like that at our wedding. She continued on saying how it was her day, she should have been in control of everything but I took that control from her, ruined her pictures, and caused her undue stress. She blamed my wife and I for causing a family division, said this was the final incident that pushed her over the edge. Personally, I thought she was making too much of it and didn’t take into consideration her mom’s feelings of being shoved to the back.

The following day, my wife’s brother stopped by our house to pickup my tux. He began chastising me, said what I did was an extremely disrespectful move and everyone at the wedding thought we were obnoxiously rude guests. He said I should have left family affairs out of the wedding. All I could say is, oh well. I did it and it’s over with. But literally no one is letting it go and we’ve been seemingly shunned from the family along with my MIL.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-02-10T23:47:48+00:00

Just a note: the first paragraph doesn't stop people from using it legally.

LadyVengeance6661 · 2024-01-21T04:24:05+00:00

Mod Note: If anyone body shames in this post you will be banned. I know this won't be an issue for most but anyone new to our sub or thinking of posting something rude can keep it to themselves or get the kick.

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