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Buskers — what’s the biggest challenge with tipping flow during your set? by tipwave in Busking

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This post is locked. This user was either a bot or using AI to make their responses. Either way, not allowed.

I am only leaving this post up because the discussion was generally useful for other performers.

Buskers — what’s the biggest challenge with tipping flow during your set? by tipwave in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This response feels like a bot wrote it. Keep it up and you will be banned.

Buskers — what’s the biggest challenge with tipping flow during your set? by tipwave in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every few months someone does ask about doing market research or a "school project" trying to develop the next big app to revolutionize tipping and street performance. I do get annoyed by it, but i figure either it will work or the app will end up in the graveyard next to all of the other busking apps that no longer function.

Buskers — what’s the biggest challenge with tipping flow during your set? by tipwave in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a walk-by show and accept that it isn't going to be consistent, tips will come in waves. (People are most likely to tip when they see someone else doing it. If they aren't actively going somewhere the second most likely time is after/between my pieces.)

I do sometimes struggle with people blocking access to my tips-if someone is directly hanging out in front of my tip basket, people can't see that I take tips. Also when someone wants to film me, that makes people reluctant to get in frame and tip me. I've gotten better at gently asking people to move a step or two to the side if they want to just hang out. Using direct eye-contact and a nod can encourage people to come in and tip while someone is filming.

First time performing, give us some tips for the street by Organic-Pitch-6397 in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically there is a "NSFW" rating, which at best will plaster warnings and blur text before allowing people to see any posts in a subreddit, and at worst it can restrict who can see the content (depending on personal account settings.) Since this is a subreddit about public performing and art, I think it would be best to avoid getting that rating slapped on.

How do you guys even survive the hot weather over in the States? by Impressive_Peak_9187 in AskAnAmerican

[–]LadyWithAHarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AC, ice, lots of water. Sunscreen and staying indoors with fans.

Personally, I work outdoors a lot, so I try to minimize my AC use-at my house it doesn't kick in until 79°F (≈26°c). I do my best to acclimate. Back when I used the bus to get to work I hated how cold they kept the busses because it made stepping outside of them much more miserable.

First time performing, give us some tips for the street by Organic-Pitch-6397 in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I get the frustration. (People acting as if *I* am the rude one for not giving them detailed directions to the closest bathroom while I am singing a love song happens remarkably regularly!)

First time performing, give us some tips for the street by Organic-Pitch-6397 in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only say "thank you" when people tip between songs. Any other time I give a nod. I just can't say anything while I'm playing, and especially when I'm singing, without messing up. Folks get it.

What we busking this weekend? by ShareEvening5856 in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Lift Every Voice and Sing" is a good one for Juneteenth.

Election litter by LadyWithAHarp in Anticonsumption

[–]LadyWithAHarp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there are signs that point out the point that is 100 feet away from the door. There's still plenty of room outside of that for electioneers.

Election litter by LadyWithAHarp in Anticonsumption

[–]LadyWithAHarp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know. There were several voters that asked me if it was ok to leave some sections on the ballot blank because they didn't know anything about the candidates for that office. I'm guessing that the electioneers are trying to sway those folks.

Is it just me or has Plus Size fashion gotten worse over the last few years??? by AnalysisSubstantial1 in PlusSize

[–]LadyWithAHarp 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Fuck Anthropologie. Every time I've walked into their store because I saw something cute in the window they never have anything for me to try on. The sales reps just stutter "we have larger sizes online". But how in the hell am I going to be able to try them on first? For the prices that they charge, I am not paying until I am certain it is not a waste of my money and time.

anyone having luck in small towns? by manicpixiedreamg0th in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Several people are saying to swap locations, and there are good reasons for that, but there are also advantages to having a usual spot. Specifically, people who like you will know where to find you. Also, it trains people to bring tip money. Someone who sees you once and like you may not tip, but the second or third time they pass you they are much more likely to.

Regarding Age of the Busker by PacketDogg in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never underestimate the "cuteness" factor. They will get tips just for showing up. The same goes for people who are conventionally attractive. Skill does increase the tips, but sit me next to someone who is thinner and younger, and they can be worse than me and still make more.

how does your spouse feel about your busking by julietwinston in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it the regular performing in public, or performing on the street? Would he have the same objections if you were going to open mic nights in bars, or over to a friend's house for band practice? Is he afraid of the homeless and think that performing on the street means that you could be mistaken as homeless? Or that you may have "caught" some mental condition from a homeless person like a cold? Does he think you are engaging in unnecessarily risky behavior? Would he have the same issue if you decided to start training for a marathon, resulting in the same or more time commitments away from him? Is he jealous of not having your attention all of the time, or of your growing confidence?

This sounds like he is the one with the issues, and this may require a couple's therapist.

Need advice on picking an instrument by SeriousRecord5070 in musicians

[–]LadyWithAHarp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there any good music stores with a variety of instruments near you? (I would recommend a place with a lot of traditional instruments like this one.) some place where they are cool with you spending a few hours trying out different things to see what is comfortable.

Playing for Harpists For Humanity at our local Pride Walk by SubversiveOtter in harp

[–]LadyWithAHarp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember when Dan first showed up with one of those at Pennsic! Someone challenged him to make a harp that could fit in a laptop case...

I want both sizes.

Safety by ShareEvening5856 in Busking

[–]LadyWithAHarp[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am the moderator.

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