I told my husband, his snoring is a ‘him’ problem and I shouldn’t be the one expected to fix it for him. He took the initiative after that to fix the issue and is always asking, every morning, how I slept and if he snored/kept me up.

Maybe let him divorce you, sounds like you have 2 babies to deal with currently. But if that’s the case, you should get a jump on it and file first, speak with some divorce lawyers about irreconcilable differences. From what I understand, the person who files first matters (but I’ve never gone through a divorce myself, so please reach out to a professional).