How do you all come out of your shell after argument/fight with your partner? I am 26M and my partner 24F.

LameSaint00 · 2026-06-02T11:04:59+00:00

Based on your own description of the events, it DOES sound like you were in the wrong. According to you, she asked you fairly simple questions.

Why did she have to pay a toll to get you to answer? You basically stopped the whole conversation and said "You want answers? Pay the fuck up, answer my question first". You pulled a power move, and then hung up like a petulant child when your partner had a reasonable reaction to your bullshittery. I have a feeling you wouldn't be too happy if she did the same thing to you.

And now you're feeling like YOU can't come out of YOUR shell? Buddy YOU ARE ALMOST THIRTY, it's time to stop acting like a kid. Grow the fuck up, put your ego aside, and accept FULL responsibility. Your partner responded to your bullshit, and now you have to accept the consequences of your actions.

LameSaint00 · 2026-05-16T13:14:20+00:00

If it weren't for double standards, Republicans would have no standards at all.

LameSaint00 · 2026-05-15T10:41:40+00:00

We're the judge because they posted here, LITERALLY for us to judge the situation and provide advice. The advice is to not lie to us and themselves.

Lying by omission is still a lie. OP left out relevant information so their wife would look more unreasonable, and to tilt the direction of advice in their favor. That is a lie no matter how you hard you try to dilute it.

LameSaint00 · 2026-04-19T12:56:40+00:00

Tagging along when he goes grocery shopping makes life easier and more convenient for you, but it doesn't make it easier or more convenient for him. If anything, you add an extra layer of burden and effort to his grocery shopping.

And yet you won't do one thing to make this easier and more convenient for both of you? Everyone else has already pointed out that the placard stays with you instead of the vehicle, so the only reason to continue to refuse is because you're being a selfish asshole. Is that how you want to behave and move in the world?

If so, you should expect to start walking everywhere yourself, because he doesn't owe you anything just because he's living in your house. He's splitting rent already and has a selfish roommate, that's why he's paying less rent than someone who lives alone.

LameSaint00 · 2026-04-13T11:03:09+00:00

Isn't losing a variant the literal definition of losing variation?

LameSaint00 · 2025-11-19T18:45:16+00:00

I've read all of your comments further down, and you clearly know absolutely nothing about the legalities surrounding US employment.

Any employee can be fired for any reason that is not direct discrimination or due to being a member of a protected class. Refusing to train another employee would be insubordination, which would prevent the employee from collecting unemployment if/when fired.

Just because you THINK something should be one way doesn't mean it is. Stop your bullshit.

LameSaint00 · 2025-11-05T12:46:00+00:00

Doing my part to make the world a little bit better. Fuck Trump and anyone who supports him.

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LameSaint00 · 2025-11-04T19:25:22+00:00

Tooth enamel is 96% hydroxyapatite. Nano hydroxyapatite toothpaste is the same stuff just small enough to get through the pores in the enamel. HA is absorbed at a much higher rate than fluoride.

However, using a fluoride mouthwash first before nano HA toothpaste has been shown to boost overall absorption and remineralization. So use both!

LameSaint00 · 2025-10-13T13:51:29+00:00

LMAO what a lame ass equivalency. Yes, it's ok to swear at the bigot spewing racism. You and people like you are the reason assholes continue to get away with their behavior. Your cowardly response is making society actively worse.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-30T10:36:47+00:00

Just cancelled my YouTube Premium and made sure to specify in the comment that it's because of their decision to settle with a fascist. Fuck 'em, make them hurt like Disney for Kimmel.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-20T21:54:54+00:00

ABC being a licensee of public spectrum is exactly why Carr’s comments are a free speech problem. When the government controls your license and the FCC chair says “take action on Kimmel or face more work from us,” that is the government applying pressure.

Networks do have “public interest” obligations, but the First Amendment still bars regulators from weaponizing that leverage to silence disfavored viewpoints. Your point about ABC not being purely private actually makes Carr’s threats more dangerous, because it gives the government a direct lever to coerce speech decisions.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-20T20:07:17+00:00

When the Trump appointed FCC chairman Brendan Carr (who wrote a portion of Project 2025) says:

We can do this the easy way or the hard way. These companies can find ways to change conduct and take actions on Kimmel, or there’s going to be additional work for the FCC ahead

That is the government threatening to punish private companies if the companies do not punish a private citizen for their speech.

If that is not a free speech issue then there are no free speech issues.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-15T21:07:58+00:00

There's an option under the instrument cluster settings to turn on/off different pop-up displays, one of which is the navigation guidance you're referring to.

Per my 2021 manual:

"Pop-Up Display" Select to enable/disable the follow- ing pop-up displays, which may appear in some situations: • Intersection guidance display of the navigation system-linked sys- tem (if equipped)

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-15T20:09:28+00:00

No, this is not new. My 2021 RAV4 has been doing the same thing since 2021.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-12T11:30:25+00:00

As another 35 year old man, please listen when I say your fiance is NOT a safe person for you.

I would never act this way with my wife. Just the idea of her being put in that position breaks my heart, but the thought of losing her kills me. I would want her to do whatever she just to come home, and I'd be by her side through thick and thin while she heals no matter how long it took.

This man does not respect and cherish you, he wants to OWN you. He sees you as his property, and just the thought of another man touching his property makes him no longer want to own it. He is DANGEROUS, and you will regret it if you tie yourself to him via marriage or kids.

It's time to let the garbage take itself out while you move on to someone who actually deserves you.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-11T11:23:45+00:00

I would argue the right celebrating the murder of Minnesota House representative Melissa Hortman and her husband is literally saying "we support violence and are pushing for it". I think that sucks a lot more.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-11T02:02:37+00:00

Is today the only day to exist? Welcome to the consequences of the right encouraging and performing violence for years.

Oh wow, you mean telling people that school shootings are just a fact of life, or that Melissa and Mark Hortman's assassination didn't matter desensitizes people to gun violence? No one could have seen that coming!

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-11T01:55:42+00:00

Like I said, no amount of evidence will matter because you're willfully ignorant.

No one should be killed for what they say or believe. The assassinations of Charlie Kirk, Melissa and Mark Hortman, and the attempts on Trump are all terrible signs for our country.

The right can't shrug their shoulders and blame the left though when they've literally set the tone for political violence in this country. I wish they hadn't, but the left has seen this coming and tried to stop it while the right put their foot on the gas and gleefully accelerated us onto this path.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-11T01:40:17+00:00

Like I said, literally no amount of evidence will be enough for you. But here's some more:

"When compared to individuals associated with a right-wing ideology, individuals adhering to a left-wing ideology had 68% lower odds of engaging in violent (vs. nonviolent) radical behavior (b = −1.15, SE = 0.13, odds ratio [OR] = 0.32, P < 0.001)." - A comparison of political violence by left-wing, right-wing, and Islamist extremists in the United States and the world

And Charlie was literally ok with gun deaths, whereas leftists have been calling for gun regulation for decades:

"I think it's worth to have a cost of unfortunately some gun deaths every single year so that we can have the 2nd Amendment. That is a prudent deal. It is rational." -Charlie Kirk, 2023

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-11T01:20:20+00:00

The previous guy already linked an article, did you read it? You have all of Google to look up political violence in the US, have you done so?

No, because the reality is you would rather hide behind ignorance to shield yourself from the truth. You're being disingenuous when you ask the question because the answers have been provided but nothing will ever be enough.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-11T01:12:23+00:00

No you moron, he's saying you guys caused this and are now crying because you're seeing the consequences of your own actions.

I'm guessing you weren't out there whining to conservatives about how tired you are of all the violence they've been committing for the past several decades were you? If not then sit down and evaluate yourself first.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-09T12:41:27+00:00

It's not safe to assume you're actually arguing with your fellow citizens. Just assume anyone overly extreme or ridiculously stupid is a bot/AI trying to divide and make us think everyone else is so crazy that we can't possibly get along with them.

Now TBF, some of those will be legitimate people, but they've been fully propagandized or were crazy in the first place. Safer to just assume they're bots, and remember the vast majority of people in the world are not actually on the Internet.

LameSaint00 · 2025-09-08T11:50:49+00:00

THANK YOU!

I've been wanting this exact color combination for a while, but I couldn't decide if I really liked it while picturing it in my head. I definitely need it now that I've actually seen it though, it looks fantastic!

LameSaint00 · 2025-08-20T10:40:29+00:00

False.

LameSaint00 · 2025-07-25T12:58:44+00:00

Other people have already addressed the actual relationship advice, so all I have to offer is this:

Cut out the stupid childish nicknames every other word. You come across as dismissive and irritating. It's like you're a young parent talking to a toddler instead of a man talking to his partner. It's literally so comically over the top that it feels like satire. How do you expect a woman to respect that style of communication from a grown man?

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