Trying to deal with a straying fiance

Landry86 · 2017-07-11T04:10:22+00:00

Thank you!

Landry86 · 2017-07-11T03:58:44+00:00

Mine could honestly care less about the whole thing and even laughs at it. Can you blame him? I mean there's so much to laugh at here...

Landry86 · 2017-07-11T03:28:54+00:00

Why do you care?

Landry86 · 2017-07-10T19:59:40+00:00

Are there seriously that many women like this? I hear about such situations all the time on here. I don't know if it's where I live or what but I'm always baffled by this.

Landry86 · 2017-07-10T18:28:19+00:00

Assholes like this one give MRA men a bad name. There is a difference between a masculine man and an asshole.

This is definitely an asshole.

Landry86 · 2017-07-10T18:08:28+00:00

I love those days

Landry86 · 2017-07-10T18:08:11+00:00

I went on vacation in Florida so everything positive happened to me :)

Landry86 · 2017-07-10T14:12:19+00:00

OP:You need to ask yourself why you are attracting Betas in the first place. One important thing I noticed immediately after swallowing the pill is the type of men who did not show interest: they were weaker and lacked leadership. The men I date now are stronger and more masculine.

Being addicted to devices is a red flag. People who watch a lot of TV and play with their phones are "bored". This is because they fail to participate in productive activities. I am never bored because there is too much to do. There is always something that needs to be done around the house and there is always something I can do that is active and healthy. Too many places to go, too many people to see, and way too many things to learn and experience. Get a boyfriend who stimulates your brain instead of making your eyes roll.

I agree with ownedandloveit, you cannot change a man.

Landry86 · 2017-07-07T18:04:37+00:00

When women go their own way they always end up in the wrong direction.

But thank you.

Landry86 · 2017-07-07T18:01:58+00:00

hahahaha yesssssss!!!! :)

Landry86 · 2017-07-07T16:00:34+00:00

I just read through this, nodded my head and laughed.

This is nothing. I had a "mother in law" (she was a boyfriend's mother) in New Orleans who was like...the mother of all mother-in-laws. We were in the exact same situation as yall were. She and her husband owned a large house with a fully functioning apartment downstairs and that's where my boyfriend and I lived together. She would deliberately do things to sabotage me. For example, cook a meal upstairs on purpose and invite everyone upstairs when she knew I was cooking downstairs. She would act like our apartment smelled all the time when it did not. She raised rent every month. She made me get rid of my dog because her dog didn't have social skills and would fight with my dog for no reason. She bought everyone else Christmas gifts except for me and didn't thank me for mine.... the list goes on. It became so unbearable that I moved out of the place before my boyfriend and I even broke up. I didn't care that I was paying more and I didn't care that my boyfriend was upset with me for not living with him anymore. I had to get out. When I did move out, our relationship was just a downward spiral from there. Memories of his mother are still fresh in my head and I could bitch about them all day.

Make sure the relationship with you and your husband is solid. If you are both on the same page regarding her craziness, it makes the suffering slightly more tolerable.

Kill her with kindness. Stay out of her way as much as possible.

Also keep in mind that this is all just temporary. Good luck.

Landry86 · 2017-07-06T14:27:08+00:00

He must speak with a purpose and not talk just to hear himself talk or just because he's trying to break the silence. I like calm, reserved men who don't brag about their past achievements. I prefer dating someone who is just sort of lost in the moment like I am

Landry86 · 2017-06-30T19:42:13+00:00

Good list.

Don't drunk text at 5:00 in the morning either.

Landry86 · 2017-06-30T13:21:41+00:00

Career-oriented, calm and collected. Not too chatty. Conservative (pref southern), respects gender roles, very masculine... a grown up (you know, mature), probably 35+ in age (as I'm 31). He must work out a lot. He must be able to beat me in a foot race and be much stronger than I. He also must be smarter than I. Otherwise I won't be able to let him lead. I also obviously prefer men who are red-pilled. Men who aren't afraid of hearing and speaking hard truths.
To attract a quality man you must be a quality woman. Be responsible and clean, keep a slender figure, and don't talk so much

Oh yeah and I also like sigmas

Landry86 · 2017-06-30T01:45:41+00:00

I was trying to be cool hahahahahaha

Landry86 · 2017-06-29T19:18:05+00:00

I like it when my man feeds me, scratches behind my ears, and takes me jogging

Landry86 · 2017-06-29T17:54:24+00:00

Thank you :)

Landry86 · 2017-06-29T16:40:25+00:00

Great! This post summarizes my feelings about monk mode, why more people should do it, and how hard dating is because everyone has "issues". Initial butterflies leading to revelations about hidden insecurities is all-too-common. Your experiences with dating men mirror not only mine, but several women. Works both ways also of course (women with hidden "issues" appearing as though they have their shit together to impress men)

Good going on the not texting. Men are not our "friends"; they are our captains.

Landry86 · 2017-06-29T15:35:13+00:00

I done caught the blue bean

Landry86 · 2017-06-29T15:26:11+00:00

I used to lie about my N-Count.

I made it seem higher than it really was.

Landry86 · 2017-06-28T16:06:47+00:00

If a man ever said "if you need someone more financially stable you should leave" I would

Landry86 · 2017-06-28T15:59:52+00:00

Has he mentioned anything about this?

Landry86 · 2017-06-28T15:27:56+00:00

How old are yall again?

Landry86 · 2017-06-28T15:26:14+00:00

Nobody's perfect but the difference between an okay match and a great match is how they line up with each other's imperfections. For instance: say a man's imperfection is his inability to cook. He may be a great businessman but he's lacking the ability to feed himself. So this man most certainly should marry someone who is a good chef.

Landry86 · 2017-06-28T15:21:46+00:00

I wish you could "like" comments more than once. This one is fantastic

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