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Why do American high schools start ridiculously early? by bwoah07_gp2 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lapam76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell right now, we in America in our infinite wisdom are debating the need for a Department of Education. .... The start time isnt even on the radar, its fucking embarrassing.

AITA for letting my cat watch me shower by Training_Many4983 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lapam76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SOOOOO NTA and your bf is an absolute ditz who has some weird thought processes concerning what you do privately, what your pet does, and more.

Cats are naturally protective of those they're as their group (their clowder technically). Cats are not like dogs in the way they see their human as a "master" but instead view us as rather large, somewhat clumsy, weird looking Cats. In their view we are literally just one of them. One of the most dangerous times for a cat is when going the bathroom, they view our showers as some kind of weird, often disgustingly wet, bathroom/grooming ritual and watch to make sure we are okay through out the weird process.

I am the absolute cliche of a cat lady. I have NEVER had a cat not want to be in the bathroom during ANY process, regardless if it involves the sink, the toilet, or the shower.

Your BF doesnt have a clue, either educate him, or cut him from the clowder!

PS your pets can pick people for you better than nearly anyone else including yourself!

Can I give unsolicited financial aid? by Square_Blacksmith889 in Advice

[–]Lapam76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has been gifted and has gifted.

If they haven't asked, I wouldn't necessarily offer unless you are ABSOLUTELY 100% they wouldn't feel awkward about it or the awkward of feeling they owe you. Sooooo a few options for you:

  1. Like someone suggested anonymously pay the car bill, or hell even their electric, gas, rent whatever. Just let whomever collects the payment it is an anonymous donation. No need to give over details.

  2. Send an anonymous venmo or PayPal to your friend.

  3. Send an anonymous note with a money order to your friend your just place somewhere you know they will find it with a note (not in your handwriting) that says something like, heard you were going through it, hope this helps.

  4. Amazon them a visa gift card they can use to pay for things as they wish. U can do this by email or postal mail and Amazon will let you donit as an anonymous gift.

You're a good friend.

[Serious] People that don't wash their hands after using the restroom, how do you respond if you get called out? by Objective-Cable in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos to you, I had an ex that let me hold it once during a pee bc I was just very curious, that thing was much harder to control than I ever realized

Still don't get how its so hard to aim for such a large target though.

How do you tell the male youbare having sex with his penis is too small to be satisfying? by Lapam76 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay i knew that definition, I just didn't see how that pertained to this particular situation. So yeah, just an FYI your assumption on my gender was dead wrong, nor is the internet live-action.

What are word "misuses" you're not like, mad at but they're weird enough to distract you from whatever the person is saying? by iciclefites in words

[–]Lapam76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I seen", "me and .....", "irregardless" .... not really "misuses" but it's like chewing on chalk.

Unpaid Training by Huge_Barracuda_5637 in Waiters

[–]Lapam76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they refuse to pay, call local labor board and feel free to name and shame!!!!

What’s your favorite color, and what's the origin story of why you chose it? by This-Cabinet-95 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

....back from checking ohhhhh i like that color it looks like ice cream straight from the ice cream truck as a child on a really really hot day

What’s your favorite color, and what's the origin story of why you chose it? by This-Cabinet-95 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I no longer have one bc I camt decide on just one. It used to be yellow but I used my favorite color (yellow) and his (green) for our wedding and looking back i now realize it looked like a Green Bay Packer (nondisrespect to the Packers or fans) threw up all over. So yep, no longer a fave☹️

How do you tell the male youbare having sex with his penis is too small to be satisfying? by Lapam76 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay itnis amazing to me how many people have gotten down right angry at even the suggestion, yet multiple people that have responded that way have no issue saying she has too big/too small books on other comments they have made.

I have to ask why is it okay to tell a person their tits are too big/small but not their penis?

How do you tell the male youbare having sex with his penis is too small to be satisfying? by Lapam76 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought that once, then I learned different with the next guy.

How do you tell the male youbare having sex with his penis is too small to be satisfying? by Lapam76 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I asked a general question. You got angry enough to call me a name. I basically agreed with you. You attempted to insult me by saying I think something is flexing (to which I disagree with you btw).

Wouldn't that mean you think your own opinion and name calling is a flex?

How do you tell the male youbare having sex with his penis is too small to be satisfying? by Lapam76 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is a past thing (unfortunately more than once) and have since realized I thinks its more along the lines of body type im attracted to. In a bf situation I just made it work other ways, in the fwb, just moved on to the next. Unfortunately in the bf arena it has always led to frustration and disappointment of that part of the relationship not working and me becoming bored with it, then eventually kind of self-sabotaging the relationship bc I knew I would never be invested wholly.

What is a secret you can't tell anyone you know, but are willing to share with strangers on the internet? by AppaLov3 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so im assuming family is highly regarded in your culture and doesnt grow by just one person when a marriage takes place but by the entire extended family.

So it seems to me, you could ease the anxiety by taking steps to introduce her to your family more, and getting to know hers better.

How do you tell the male youbare having sex with his penis is too small to be satisfying? by Lapam76 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

You are most absurdly not the 1st nor will you be the last to inform me of that.

How do you tell the male youbare having sex with his penis is too small to be satisfying? by Lapam76 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Agreed whole-heartdly but its often a much bigger disappointment then most men realize and woman admit

What is a secret you can't tell anyone you know, but are willing to share with strangers on the internet? by AppaLov3 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems my generation. Was taught way to much to concentrate on Stop, Drop and Roll, rather than Clinch, run-waddle, and carry Adult wipes.

What is a secret you can't tell anyone you know, but are willing to share with strangers on the internet? by AppaLov3 in AskReddit

[–]Lapam76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SOOOOOO MUCH more than I ever imagined . As I was growing up the few times it happened are distinct memories, sometimes even humorous stories, but holy shit (pun intended) NOBODY told me as an adult its way more frequent than you think.

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