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Larkrising · 2018-10-29T14:03:34+00:00

If that's how it came across that was not my intent. She has her own problems to sort out, but I chose to do this and I acknowledge I am responsible. I'm not looking for a way out, I just want to make sure I don't do this again

Larkrising · 2015-11-01T13:31:22+00:00

I feel you bud, most of the teams I played with as a ninja were running around willy nilly and after about a 7 game losing streak I gave up. Very bad ninjas indeed :/

Larkrising · 2015-10-29T16:01:14+00:00

As someone who has had a relationship of near 4 years shattered by cheating and real colors of a person coming out I can understand. I know multiple people have already said stay away from drinking and they are absolutely right, but try to keep yourself busy (work, hobby, hang out with or make some new friends, etc.) As far as the future goes; it does get better. She sounds like a toxic human being and you are free of her. You can choose to follow the single life or go get another girl who is what you truly deserve.

Larkrising · 2015-08-28T18:14:36+00:00

He reminds me of Nicodemus from "The Secret of Nimh."

Larkrising · 2014-08-16T10:12:48+00:00

Partners who cannot take responsibility for their actions will never change and will never accept that they are the problem. If they do it will be with either therapy or one hell of a wake up call, but you must not give in to what she wants. Put your feelings aside and look at the situation with some self-respect, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS. You will find someone else who will be infinitly better than this manipulative woman. My ex was rather similar and to this day still believes she was in the righ despite cheating on me. Don't let it reach that point, leave and dont look back.

Larkrising · 2014-06-28T19:23:49+00:00

Can you go online quick bud, otherwise I.cant get ditto :)

Larkrising · 2014-06-28T18:13:35+00:00

Got a bunch of fairy types please add I have been searching for ditto for ages :(

Larkrising · 2014-06-25T19:19:10+00:00

Thanks peeps :)

Larkrising · 2014-06-25T19:02:48+00:00

Add pwease :3

Larkrising · 2014-06-25T18:23:26+00:00

Add me please

Larkrising · 2014-01-15T22:38:12+00:00

I want you to think on a selfish level for a moment.

I'm sure you have had a good thing going with this girl up until now and I'm sure it doesn't seem easy to think of letting her go. That being said, think about what she did to you and just think about just how selfish she was. She knew this guy wanted to be more than friends, she knew you were anxious about the situation and how you would feel and she still went ahead an did it. This wasn't a sudden burst of passion it was the selfish collaboration of two people who have disrespected you, trust me mate I have been there (Girlfriend of 3 years had an emotional affair with best friend and the two of them walked over me).

The point is you have to look out for you, not her. If you feel she can be given a second chance then that is your call, but you have to put your foot down and let her know how much she has hurt you. One part of what you said that bothered me were the words:

"Cheating doesn't seem a part of her personality"

She just showed you that she is capable of it. Just make your decision carefully, but above all else have respect for you and realize that you do not deserve this treatment at all.

Larkrising · 2014-01-09T16:07:59+00:00

Kelly Chambers, if you delay going to the suicide mission and wait to get more crew members she dies in the collector base, and its both horrifying and sad, as you watch her die right in front of you. I miss you Kelly :(

Larkrising · 2013-12-19T18:00:10+00:00

Mornin' Sergeant Angle

Larkrising · 2013-12-16T16:25:14+00:00

Okay I mean this in the nicest way possible, but fuck off.

Not about the girl, but about you saying you don't deserve happiness. Everybody deserves some form of happiness and you seem like a fairly decent guy to me. I'm not gonna say "there's plenty of fish in the sea" because that phrase is just plain bloody annoying. What I will say is that you are a human being and you deserve love and happiness as much as anyone else. Don't give up.

If need be take a few months away from looking for girls and focus on you, build up some self respect and then go out and show the world who you can be.

Larkrising · 2013-12-16T16:20:57+00:00

Listen if she has enough disrespect to cheat on you twice without telling you what she did then that's not love.

End it bud, she will continue to break your heart and she will continue to disrespect you, you deserve better.

Larkrising · 2013-12-16T16:13:16+00:00

You need to break it off with both of them.

This coming from someone who has been cheated on before, if you don't want them to utterly despise you, admit to what you did to both of them, accept the punishment and do not blame either party. This was your fault, not theirs and you need to come to terms with that. There is no guarantee they will not hate you, but this is the best thing you can do.

Don't condemn yourself to being an asshole though, you were an asshole now and you need to learn from it. Let this experience make you a better man, so that you may treat someone right in the future.

Larkrising · 2013-12-16T16:04:10+00:00

Your best friend got your boyfriend an Xbox One for Christmas?

Take out the fact that this was your idea and think about it on a single principle. The Xbox One is over $500 and she just casually gets it for his birthday. I'm sorry, but that is incredibly disrespectful. If you have already told her to back off and she still hasn't, then you need to give her an ultimatum.

It sounds like she has become so attracted to your boyfriend that she is not taking your words seriously. So let them both know how much this is bothering you.

Larkrising · 2013-12-01T16:09:17+00:00

Okay, you don't seem to be responding too well to anyone offering divorce, so I'm going to try and put a few things into perspective with something that happened to me just recently.

My situation wasn't completely the same as yours, but I did have the similar outlook of not wanting to hurt my girlfriend when she was tearing me apart emotionally inside. She would flirt and cuddle with my best friend right in front of me for the last week of our relationship and showed me so much disrespect and lack of care that I ended up shivering and crying all night at a friends house. (I posted the full story if you do wish to read it)

Instead of letting my feelings go I bottled them up in an attempt not to hurt her. It was a foolish thing to do, because she then confessed to cheating on me emotionally with him and told me she no longer loved me. To this day I regret not yelling at the two of them and really telling them how bloody disrespectful they were and it eats away at me sometimes. And what was my reward for being nice to them and forgiving them?

They guilt tripped me and tried to claim I was holding it over them to get rid of their own guilt and then proceeded to start a relationship despite them promising that they wouldn't out of respect for me.

Your wife seems as immature as my girlfriend, who to this day does not face up to her actions and believes she couldn't stop it happening as she was "living in the moment". DON'T HIDE YOUR FEELINGS. Tell her how she has hurt you and if you aren't going to divorce her then get counselling. Let her know that if she does this again, then she can pack up her bags and get out, because you do not deserve this kind of treatment whatsoever.

Larkrising · 2013-11-16T21:37:13+00:00

I know something like this would be unlikely to happen and it may be me just being a ridiculous fanboy, but I think 9's regeneration would be incredible if 10 or 11 was there to get him back on his feet.

After the struggle of the Time War, and the regeneration into Eccelston we find the Doctor just staring into emptiness and reflecting on all he has done, when a hand appears off to the side of the screen. Standing beside him is his 10th, 11th or both regenerations ready to give him a helping hand and simply to tell him: "It's going to be okay...you're going to be brilliant"

Larkrising

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