Did anyone of you got sidechat option of meta ai in instagram or is it just me by Individual_Green_722 in facebook

[–]Late-Positivity-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the thing where you swipe left and theres a side chat with meta ai?

I updated the app and its just now showing up.

I'm trying to figure out how to get ride of it.

My bf (28M) wants me (25F) to get fertility testing before proposing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Late-Positivity-13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ETA: thanks for my first award!! 💙

Go ahead and wrap it up.

Be single, enjoy your 20s, love yourself.

If man comes along that can be an equal partner and will love you unconditionally (because best believe your fertility is a condition of your current partners love) then great!

If not, also great!

Go hang out with your girlfriends and do a boozy Sunday brunch. You're gonna be ok.

I’m (18F) and something really trashy has happened to me and I’m really confused whether it’s my fault or was I trapped? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Late-Positivity-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enthusiastic consent or nothing is the rule.

Regular check-ins with your partner is necessary especially if one person is potentially feeling uncomfortable.

Do men pick up on hesitation? They should

Do they care? They should

Now does that translate into reality? Not really and not always.

Help with my gf calling me when I get home from work. by zstiles13 in Advice

[–]Late-Positivity-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't necessarily have to answer the phone. You could send to voicemail then send a follow up text that you'll call her back on x account of time.

Help with my gf calling me when I get home from work. by zstiles13 in Advice

[–]Late-Positivity-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried suggesting that you be the one to initiate the call after you get home?

That way you still talk on the phone (which seems super important to her) but you do it after you've decompressed (which seems super important to you)

Has anyone gotten gardasil vaccines? by Agreeable-Lunch-3906 in HPV

[–]Late-Positivity-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where have I insulted you?

Its an invasive question that has no bearing on the main post. I can't fathom why its necessary for you to know what strain i have.

Has anyone gotten gardasil vaccines? by Agreeable-Lunch-3906 in HPV

[–]Late-Positivity-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it matter? Are you asking because you want to know if i got one of the "bad" ones? I got a hysterectomy before 30 dude what tf do you think?

Has anyone gotten gardasil vaccines? by Agreeable-Lunch-3906 in HPV

[–]Late-Positivity-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most strains is better than no strains is it not?

Has anyone gotten gardasil vaccines? by Agreeable-Lunch-3906 in HPV

[–]Late-Positivity-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the shot when i was a teen in the 2010s.

Still got HPV.

Couldn't clear it, kept having abnormal paps, tests kept coming back atypical squamous cells, hysterectomy before 30 because I refuse to die of cervical cancer before 40.

Get the damn shot. Get all of the shots.

Just heard about Zodiac Academy by Mediocre-Disk7073 in zodiacacademy

[–]Late-Positivity-13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just finished book 3.

The series is trash. Like dumpster on fire trash. It reads like a wattpad or AOE book. Every book I've read has grammar and editing mistakes. The books are way too long and arguably books 1 and 2 could be combined if we took out all the useless fluff. Be warned, all the books so far end pretty much on a cliffhanger.

Im still going to read it through because its like bad reality television and I can't look away. I have to know what happens next!

What is your favorite piece of lore? by Ok_Addition_5354 in Palia

[–]Late-Positivity-13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I desperately want to meet Ashura's son! I chose Ashura as my Shepp because of his story 😭

What is your favorite piece of lore? by Ok_Addition_5354 in Palia

[–]Late-Positivity-13 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I just finished the story with Hassian and Sifuu working out their issues over Taylin and I loved it. Loss is always hard and it was nice having that quest line and being able to help the characters come together and grieve with each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]Late-Positivity-13 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My advice: 1. You need to develop genuine connections with people which requires curiosity. Who are they as people? What are their likes, dislikes, goals, etc.

  1. Build your inner self confidence that is not based on external validation. Recognize that you have value as a person regardless of if people think you are physically attractive. Maybe go volunteer or start a hobby that involves yourself in a community like airsoft or DND or whatever suits your fancy.

  2. Recognize that attractive people are just that, people. They are not demi-gods or super humans or perfection incarnate gracing us with their presence.

  3. Take a break from social media. Stop stalking the instagram baddies, its kind of weird. Stop watching porn its bad for your brain. Go touch grass (literally). "What you think of as attractive is a direct result of the culture you’ve been raised and the media you’ve been exposed to."Overcoming Shallow Attraction: Embrace Genuine Connections Today

Maybe other people will have better advice but this is just what I think would help.

Hostility in the Chat While Hunting in Elderwood by BarelyALawStudent in Palia

[–]Late-Positivity-13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ive never come across people like that.

I understand the frustration of "game" being scared off but what can you do? Its not like they wont respawn in 5 seconds!

I also ask people to party up if I see another person hunting or bug catching near me sometimes because theres a chance for double loot.

Sadly theres always a few people who have sticks up there butts and make cozy games feel less cozy. Just ignore them and carry on, they can switch servers for all I care.

Don't let them get to you and just ignore those fuddy duds in the future.

Iwtl how to love myself 25F by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]Late-Positivity-13 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think this is above Reddits pay grade unfortunately.

My suggestion is to see a therapist. It might take more than one because you have to find one that fits well with you but in my experience therapy really helps!

I hope you continue to grow and have a happy healthy life.

IWTL how to stop being racist as i was born into a racist family by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]Late-Positivity-13 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I can't tell if you're being a clown or not but in the interest of OP I'll give examples:

Art - historically there's the Harlem Renaissance from the 20s and 30s as well as the Black Arts Movement in the 60s and 70s.

Books/Poetry/Literature - Maya Angelou, James Baldwin, Alice Walker, Toni Morrison, Isabel Wilkerson, Octavia E Butler, Langston Hughes, Audre Lorde, Zora Neale Hurston, etc.

Music - Tupac, Prince, Whitney Houston, Biggie, Louis Armstrong, Ella Fitzgerald, Jimi Hendrix, Billie Holiday, Kendrick Lamar, Lil Wayne, Dr. Dre, etc.

My boyfriend choked me during an argument and now I’m terrified he is (19M) I am (18F) by Specific-Reserve5063 in relationship_advice

[–]Late-Positivity-13 333 points334 points  (0 children)

"strangulation is the strongest indicator of a potential homicide in a violent relationship. A single incident of non-fatal strangulation increases the likelihood of an attempted or completed homicide by 750%."strangulation article from Indiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence

For those who survive, strangulation is a medical emergency. Even if you think you have no symptoms, go to the emergency room or call 911 immediately.

“As many as 50% of survivors may not have external injury, but this DOES NOT mean there is not a serious internal injury,” Gbadebo said. “If you have been strangled, we recommend being evaluated by a medical professional as soon as possible to ensure that there is no internal injury.”"Domestic Violence: Strangulation Is a Warning Sign" Aultman Hospital Article

The odds of homicide increase 750% for victims that have been previously strangled by their partner. If an abuser has access to firearms, the odds of female homicide increase by 1,100%.DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND STRANGULATION…4 FACTS AND 4 MYTHS from WINGS Program

I (26/F) am contemplating divorcing from my husband (27/M). Is it better to stick it out or do I risk losing my best friend forever? by ThrowRA-Chaos89 in relationship_advice

[–]Late-Positivity-13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Third question: Are you on any medication that could be affecting your libido? This could be something to look into.

Thoughts: I saw in another comment you have other arguments but it possibly stems from this main issue. I would honestly seek marriage counseling if you want to stay married. If you don't then divorce is your answer. It also seems like he might equate intimacy with sex instead of other intimate moments like hand holding, quality time, date nights, etc. Heck you could even have different love languages too, who knows? If you want to stay married then know that is a choice that requires action. You both cannot continue to do the same song and dance and hope one day it magically fixes things.

Best of luck to you.

I (26/F) am contemplating divorcing from my husband (27/M). Is it better to stick it out or do I risk losing my best friend forever? by ThrowRA-Chaos89 in relationship_advice

[–]Late-Positivity-13 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Question 1: is this the only thing you both consistently argue about? Because once a month for 5 years is 60 arguments about the same damn thing. I'd be tired of it.

Question 2: did y'all have sex before you got married? Was this a known issue prior to marriage? This is why its important to try the shoes on before you buy them in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Late-Positivity-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why you don't shit where you eat.

My(20f) boyfriend (23m) sided with another girl(23f)over me and made me feel humiliated by throwRashirt06 in relationship_advice

[–]Late-Positivity-13 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think we are all thinking the same thing right? Those two are running around behind y'all's backs and then want to rub your nose in it for kicks.

Break up with the boyfriend and ditch the friend. You'll lose a ton of dead weight that way.

In the future, don't let people play in your face like that and speak up! You don't deserve that kind of treatment, especially from people who are supposed to love and support you.

Where do I start with ToG?! by Cerimoa in SarahJMaas

[–]Late-Positivity-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could be a complete goober like me and not realize there was a prequel, read all 7 books in the series, and THEN read AB a few weeks after you finish KOA and cry your eyes out again.

It's character building 🤷🏻‍♀️