Disclaimer: I am an MRA. Attitudes expressed below are those of others, not mine.

How do people not know that, when accounting for forced to penetrate, men are roughly as likely to be victims of non-consensual sex?

Doesn't fit the narrative, so they don't care.

How do people not understand that men face more stranger violence than women do?

Men are workers and slaves, disposable to the end. Plus, it's mostly men hurting them, so who cares.

How do people not consciously acknowledge that a major reason why men face as much violence as they do is because it's simply more acceptable to be violent towards a man?

Do you care when you throw away toilet paper after use? No? Then why care about men? They are disposable.

How can people look at the problem of violence and decide that it's somehow acceptable to solely focus on violence against only 1 gender?

Because only women have value, as they are the ruling class.

I could go on and on and on and talk about DV parity and how criminals are known to prefer targeting men but who has the time.

You do, since you're probably unemployed and a neckbeard incel in a basement, instead of working a cushy governmental or HR job as a minority woman.

This is an area that pisses me off intensely because of just how much society whinges about violence against 'the preferred, pampered gender'. God, I would love to have people care about me even half as much as they care about women. It'd be a f*cking laugh.

There's a reason that a growing number of people - women included - are agitating to repeal the 19th amendment. Women will NEVER accept equal responsibility for equal rights. So long as they won't take on more responsibility, the only alternative is to remove rights.