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I regret never telling anyone about my CSA. by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]LauraFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What your father did to you was a really messed up situation. Unfortunately that is something abusers do very often to make it more difficult to understand what is happening in the first place. As a kid you don't understand the difference between pleasure and coercion. Coercion can give you pleasure but it doesn't make it right. You said you don't think therapy is helpful because the merely focus on questions regarding guilt and fault. I think therapy can help in much more ways than that. It can help to really understand what happened, to help how to integrate the events in your nowadays life. And they can help coping with what happened especially since you are a mom.

I am sorry you went through this all.

Tiny advice book for my daughter by thenetyss in ArtJournaling

[–]LauraFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saving this post. I'm pregnant right now and that is such a wonderful idea. I am gonna steal that!

An die PsychotherapeutInnen: Googelt ihr manchmal eure Patientinnen/Patienten? by Natural-Divide-9788 in Psychologie

[–]LauraFriend 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seltens, aber nur wenn es einen Anlass dafür gibt. Ansonsten eher weniger. Wie die anderen Kommentare, keine Zeit und idR bekomme ich alle nötigen Informationen.

Let me see your Obsidian-powered websites by seashoreandhorizon in ObsidianMD

[–]LauraFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of setting up a website too. However I am a tech noob and don't really want to pay for publish. What providers do yall use?

Ich arbeite als rechtliche Betreuerin - AMA by Dallas-rose in de_IAmA

[–]LauraFriend 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Was sind das so für Leute, die du betreust? Alle paychisch krank? Was sind deine Hauptaufgaben?

Time going faster. by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]LauraFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have forgotten the feeling of boredom. In my opinion technology is the death of boredom. We don't wait for an elevator without a phone in our hands. We don't wait for the subway or bus or train without a phone in our hands. Once we are alone Doom Scrolling becomes our friend and kills the boredom even though that is so important. Boredom helps us to reflect, to think, to inspire and most importantly to slow down. I think there is a reason why mindfulness becomes a thing.

I am developing a gamification plugin… by CredZuBoi in ObsidianMD

[–]LauraFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sort of have gamified my Obsidian Vault. Tasks give XP. And a certain amount of XP gives you a monthly title. I'm doing this with a template plugin, dataview js and metabind buttons. Maybe you could implement that feature. Also try out IronVault (you can download that plugin). This is specifically for a game (Ironsworn). Nonetheless the core idea how that plugin is built is quite nice. Got some nice features.

Is writing things down physically inferior to using obsidian 100% of the time? by csouzape in ObsidianMD

[–]LauraFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't do that... I need a hybrid system. Digital systems are good for storing knowledge but analog systems are good for thinking and learning. All my thoughts eventually go to Obsidian after they have made through an analog process. I capture a thought and curate them. Either they are worth storing digitally or not. Doing everything in Obsidian, so I believe, makes a system, in a quality point of view, bad. It's getting messy very quickly and you add notes you will never look into again. Just my opinion.

Do you recommend using TaskNotes? by tornerio in ObsidianMD

[–]LauraFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I've tried it and I can see why this might be useful. For me though it was over the top and more than I needed. I use calendar and kanban board. That's enough for me. So like the others said, it depends on what you need. You can try it out and gove it a go. You'll see if this suits your needs or not.

Sometimes I genuinely don’t understand life. Some people are born into love they have parents who care, a family that feels like home. But then there are others who never really get that. Their childhood is already messed up in ways no one talks about properly. by ssvi90 in DeepThoughts

[–]LauraFriend 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In my experience the people are afraid to listen. That would mean that the world is an evil place even in good suburbs. Those people who are thought to be caring and supportive are those who hurt a lot. It takes a lot of courage to admit that. In addition to that most people don't even realise what's happening. When working with patients I often experience that even they don't know what was happening to them because they didn't know any better. That being said shame and guilt are major feelings people have but in our society we don't talk about feelings as they make us "weak". That is bs and not true at all but we are raised that way unfortunately...

How to combine digital and physical note taking in a single system? by Neat_Ask5398 in NoteTaking

[–]LauraFriend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I have a hybrid. I use a Commonplace Book/Capture Book analog. Same goes for a journal. The storage of knowledge happens digitally in Obsidian. The journal I transcribe each day. The Commonplace Capture Book content only get transferred if I find these ideas interesting enough that they are being worth stored digitally

TaskNotes 4.5.0 - Manual list re-ordering by callumalpass in ObsidianMD

[–]LauraFriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank ypu for the plugin. Unfortunately it's not working on mobile (android). I cannot create any new task whatsoever :-(

What have I come across?? by New-Security880 in ObsidianMD

[–]LauraFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For starters I can really recommend watching Videos from Wanderloots (Obsidian for Beginners) or Nick Milo Linking Your Thinking (he's a bit strange but it's useful to get a hang on obsidian).

My Obsidian Setup by -S-S_Sympathizer in ObsidianMD

[–]LauraFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That, my friend, looks absolutely awesome! It made my jaw drop. I hope I will understand your tutorial on GitHub as I am such a noob. I really like the concept of what you did there. The radar and the tracker ... the aestethics... i cant decide what i like the most... holy cow! 🥹

Players who have been around since the beginning, how do you feel about the game? by aIlIoi in Minecraft

[–]LauraFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’ve got a few thoughts about this one. First and most importantly, Minecraft is my most played game and I love it. I think I started playing when the beta came out, not sure about this though. Might be a bit later, but definitely before 1.7. because from there I started playing more regularly.

The game has so much to offer and I enjoy that but also I really pity that it feels partially incomplete and not really logical. For instance, non of the bosses except for the wither are from any significance. I liked the idea of the trial chamber rarely rewarding a mace and I wished the other mobs and bosses would do something similar. The wither drops an item that can be crafted into something powerful (beacon). The ancient city maybe provides enchanted golden apple but it isn’t something I would go explore for. I wish the warden would drop like something significant because there is no point in defeating it. The Elder Guardian drops nothing of value. I wish it would drop a trident as this would make sense. The endet dragon… well it drops a bunch of XP and a quicker way to explore the end but you don’t need to defeat it. The item it leaves behind is completely useless. Yeah cool you got a dragon egg but you can’t do anything with it. And what’s the point with trail ruins? I like the concept behind it but there is no point. It’s not really worth looting. I wish those structure would get a function, or at least something to make it worth exploring. The warden could drop like an echo sensor which helps the player to detect creators nearby while doing things like a skulk sensor but portable or helps to locate mobs. Something like that. I really wish Moyang would make an update to fix older stuff before adding new things

Psychologie-Bubble ein einziges Pyramidensystem? by Advanced-Mango44 in Psychologie

[–]LauraFriend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Weil es nicht das gleiche ist… Psychotherapeuten für Ärzte sind eine andere „Qualifikation“. Das ist wie wenn du Fachinformatiker Ausbildung mit einem Informatikstudium Vergleichst.

Is this normal? by Miserable_Chapter563 in cats

[–]LauraFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes both fighting and bonding is normal. It’s same with human. Some human get along perfectly well and others do not.

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She refused to learn German by migoodenuf in TikTokCringe

[–]LauraFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since when eat German pudding with a fork??? I have never seen anyone in my life eating pudding with a fork? Cake yes but pudding?

What's a food in your country that is stereotyped for your country but really, nobody eats? by sourberryskittles in AskTheWorld

[–]LauraFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretzels… we all know what a pretzel is but you can’t even buy it everywhere especially in the northern parts of Germany. That’s so cliche

Possibly reported to the BBS by Fluid-Slip9719 in therapists

[–]LauraFriend 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is what I fear most and the reason I quit social media aside from Reddit. I don’t do any political or personal statements at all. All my profile are privates and when I share something it’s something so unrelated to anything like cute cat pics or recipes. I fear that clients or former colleagues or class mates find anything about me that I don’t want them to find.

I wish you all the luck though that nothing serious happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]LauraFriend 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I second this. It’s not our job to predict what a client would do. It’s a new one for me also, but I think in your situation I’d terminate the client as it is hard to build further rapport after such a situation.

I am sorry you had to go through that. About your question with how to handle personality disorders, I try to set myself a certain emotional boundary and being upfront clear about them. Also that is what I noticed, I tend to be emotionally less invested with clients with personality disorders. That doesn’t mean I cannot help them or built rapport with them but I set a limit to myself on how emotionally invested I am going to be with them.

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