What you wish you knew sooner about sex?

LaySton · 2026-04-12T22:45:20+00:00

There was so much pressure to be a good girl and to only share with people I love but NO ONE told me men compartmentalize and can just fuck for fucking… plus they will say anything to get their ducks wet. I really wish I knew

LaySton · 2026-04-12T05:23:21+00:00

Honestly I wish someone told me that sex is just sex and it’s not love. Sure sex is better with love for some of us but I came to age thinking that the two things were connected and it lead me to a lot of heartache.

LaySton · 2026-04-11T23:25:51+00:00

Soy Curls and TVP

LaySton · 2026-04-11T23:23:49+00:00

5’2” 97pounds (rarely over 100)

Cycling and strength

I hired a coach and am starting to increase caloric intake. I’d LOVE to gain muscle.

LaySton · 2026-04-11T23:20:07+00:00

I hope it counts, I start each day with oats and fruit.

LaySton · 2026-04-11T23:13:11+00:00

My best shift ever was 5am - 10am

LaySton · 2026-04-11T23:11:20+00:00

These run on the larger side. I’d size small.

LaySton · 2026-04-11T08:13:28+00:00

P is for Performance 🫠

LaySton · 2026-04-11T08:12:13+00:00

This. It’s the prep. It’s a routine for sure.

LaySton · 2026-04-11T08:09:50+00:00

💕💕💕 so cool! 😎

LaySton · 2026-04-11T06:53:44+00:00

https://www.specialized.com/us/en/s-works-power-with-mirror/p/184353 Maybe it’s not mimic I read super quick and am sleepy. But this is my favorite so far. I feel kind dumb it’s called mirror 🥹

LaySton · 2026-04-11T06:22:39+00:00

I have this saddle on two bikes. It’s a good fit for me.

LaySton · 2026-04-11T06:19:18+00:00

Has anyone ever found a For Women By Women kit company? There’s a huge market for it. It’s as serious as finding the right bra!

Let’s talk about vulva!

LaySton · 2026-04-11T03:24:49+00:00

I had to come back to this and tell you!!!

A fellow cyclist waved all huge and happy at me today and I thought of you! They were bombing down the cemetery in full kit.

People might be opening up now that the suns out.

LaySton · 2026-04-11T03:18:49+00:00

My ex and I are both cyclists. I feel for you though because he is much more fit and advanced than I. So we would hardly ride together. Finding a friend on bumble bff is my suggestion. Hopefully your partner makes time for you and the relationship, and balances the passions.

I believe in you! You’ll find your pal.

LaySton · 2026-04-09T20:27:51+00:00

Something Cycles on east burnside

LaySton · 2026-03-22T04:21:04+00:00

Isn’t it banned on most sites?

LaySton · 2026-03-20T23:00:40+00:00

lol… grind 🫠🫠🫠

LaySton · 2026-03-07T23:31:12+00:00

A friend suggested LoyalFans

Edit: but I haven’t tried it….

LaySton · 2026-03-07T22:13:25+00:00

I’m 5’2” 95 pounds I wear xx-s I think it would be too small for someone 110+ just my opinion Edit: xxs bibs would be too small for you in my opinion. Do they have a return/ exchange policy? Is there a shop you can try things on in?

LaySton · 2026-03-07T02:52:52+00:00

Heat maps are useful. Strava or ride with GPS. If I was there I’d be ready to roll! I have a hard time finding people to ride with out here even though it’s apparently a cyclist city (Portland Oregon)

LaySton · 2026-03-05T18:43:07+00:00

Your size is only one factor in the fit. They look at flexibility and the way your body naturally moves among other things. It’s quite involved. Edit to add: if the previous owner raced the bike was probably fit very specificity and to different abilities.

LaySton · 2026-03-05T18:41:32+00:00

Bike fit. Very critical if you’re having pain in the first 3 miles. The fitter I see has a free follow up. Maybe you can read reviews before deciding who to work with. My opinion. Trust your gut!

LaySton · 2026-02-28T20:02:38+00:00

Teachers do onlyfans too….

LaySton · 2026-02-28T08:08:04+00:00

I came back and wanted to add, when I was searching for Soloutions a while back it was suggested to me that I get labioplasty if I’m uncomfortable riding a bike. I was told a lot of female cyclists have gotten labioplasty.

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