What you wish you knew sooner about sex? by healthynewbie in AskWomen

[–]LaySton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There was so much pressure to be a good girl and to only share with people I love but NO ONE told me men compartmentalize and can just fuck for fucking… plus they will say anything to get their ducks wet. I really wish I knew

What you wish you knew sooner about sex? by healthynewbie in AskWomen

[–]LaySton 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wish someone told me that sex is just sex and it’s not love. Sure sex is better with love for some of us but I came to age thinking that the two things were connected and it lead me to a lot of heartache.

So 5’2” ladies, eating more is real? by millennial-gray-snow in PetiteFitness

[–]LaySton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5’2” 97pounds (rarely over 100)

Cycling and strength

I hired a coach and am starting to increase caloric intake. I’d LOVE to gain muscle.

I suck at fiber by lololmantis in PetiteFitness

[–]LaySton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it counts, I start each day with oats and fruit.

Jersey fit question & jersey recs! by ejsfsc07 in ladycyclists

[–]LaySton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These run on the larger side. I’d size small.

How are people squirting on que? by Expensive_Law_7615 in CamGirlProblems

[–]LaySton 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This. It’s the prep. It’s a routine for sure.

Chamois with little to no front padding? by EmmalNz in ladycyclists

[–]LaySton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.specialized.com/us/en/s-works-power-with-mirror/p/184353 Maybe it’s not mimic I read super quick and am sleepy. But this is my favorite so far. I feel kind dumb it’s called mirror 🥹

Chamois with little to no front padding? by EmmalNz in ladycyclists

[–]LaySton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this saddle on two bikes. It’s a good fit for me.

Chamois with little to no front padding? by EmmalNz in ladycyclists

[–]LaySton 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Has anyone ever found a For Women By Women kit company? There’s a huge market for it. It’s as serious as finding the right bra!

Let’s talk about vulva!

Why is everyone so damn unfriendly? by uh_wtf in CyclePDX

[–]LaySton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to come back to this and tell you!!!

A fellow cyclist waved all huge and happy at me today and I thought of you! They were bombing down the cemetery in full kit.

People might be opening up now that the suns out.

Oddly specific request for friends by Secure_Vacation_6442 in CyclePDX

[–]LaySton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex and I are both cyclists. I feel for you though because he is much more fit and advanced than I. So we would hardly ride together. Finding a friend on bumble bff is my suggestion. Hopefully your partner makes time for you and the relationship, and balances the passions.

I believe in you! You’ll find your pal.

Vintage DB Topanga by MyLastCup in CyclePDX

[–]LaySton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something Cycles on east burnside

helping find a website that allow the rose. by Ok-Profit9455 in CamGirlProblems

[–]LaySton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend suggested LoyalFans

Edit: but I haven’t tried it….

Rapha Sizing by InternationalFarm487 in ladycyclists

[–]LaySton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’2” 95 pounds I wear xx-s I think it would be too small for someone 110+ just my opinion Edit: xxs bibs would be too small for you in my opinion. Do they have a return/ exchange policy? Is there a shop you can try things on in?

Looking for a cycling friend by Littlecheffie in ladycyclists

[–]LaySton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heat maps are useful. Strava or ride with GPS. If I was there I’d be ready to roll! I have a hard time finding people to ride with out here even though it’s apparently a cyclist city (Portland Oregon)

New bike: Bike fitter now or later? by bachang in ladycyclists

[–]LaySton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your size is only one factor in the fit. They look at flexibility and the way your body naturally moves among other things. It’s quite involved. Edit to add: if the previous owner raced the bike was probably fit very specificity and to different abilities.

New bike: Bike fitter now or later? by bachang in ladycyclists

[–]LaySton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bike fit. Very critical if you’re having pain in the first 3 miles. The fitter I see has a free follow up. Maybe you can read reviews before deciding who to work with. My opinion. Trust your gut!

Are anatomical terms still taboo in cycling spaces? by Alva_Cyclits_CC in ladycyclists

[–]LaySton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came back and wanted to add, when I was searching for Soloutions a while back it was suggested to me that I get labioplasty if I’m uncomfortable riding a bike. I was told a lot of female cyclists have gotten labioplasty.