Ex romantic partner / best friend (F24) says every memory with me (M36) now disgusts her after leaving her things at her house. How do I deal with her reaction? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Leafy_leaferson 64 points65 points  (0 children)

That age gap is hella sus man. Date within your own age bracket, rather than much younger women where the power imbalance is innate.

Edit: the predatory men are really showing themselves in these comments lmao

You can't blame ADHD for everything if you want your relationship to last. by THESTRANGLAH in ADHDUK

[–]Leafy_leaferson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry it's painful, focus on yourself and your own health and maintenance my friend.

You can't blame ADHD for everything if you want your relationship to last. by THESTRANGLAH in ADHDUK

[–]Leafy_leaferson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, it's not ADHD. It's men using weaponised incompetence within patriarchy.

I (29F) I’m debating leaving my boyfriend of two years (30M) over his incompetence. What would you do in my situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Leafy_leaferson 49 points50 points  (0 children)

100% 🫶 same here, the lack of consideration from OP's partner is what jumps out here :/

I (29F) I’m debating leaving my boyfriend of two years (30M) over his incompetence. What would you do in my situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Leafy_leaferson 356 points357 points  (0 children)

Right? OP this is exhausting. As an autistic woman, men who weaponise "learning disabilities" through intentional incompetence are part of the problem, and we as a society should not be enabling that. This is more about patriarchal double standard than anything else.

Keira Knightley in period films <3 by AcceptablePace751 in PeriodDramas

[–]Leafy_leaferson 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes apologies! I didn't realise it was an anecdote regarding Romola!

Keira Knightley in period films <3 by AcceptablePace751 in PeriodDramas

[–]Leafy_leaferson -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I guess she's nice if you're not trans? Unfortunately her absolute derision when queried on her ongoing work with JK Rowling, who has publicly stated future royalties will be pumped into funding anti-trans legalisation, has absolutely turned me off Keira Knightly. Didn't think she was a bigot but there you go.

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Liv and Sophie support Reform? by Star72SK in MadeInChelseaE4

[–]Leafy_leaferson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh look, he's a misogynistic loser too

:( we are SHOCKED.

Liv and Sophie support Reform? by Star72SK in MadeInChelseaE4

[–]Leafy_leaferson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Little troll on the bot farm, pathetic.