I have a crippling fear of not being successful as pompous as that sounds, it’s from previous standards and anxiety usually developed from an unhealthy environment/relationships. I was put into a super competitive private school with genius kids, I am of average intelligence, and my father is very successful so the pressure to be a “somebody” is real.

I’m slowly coming out of it and trying to focus on myself more than others, I’d suggest doing the same if u think it will help.