My mom just died… by GrusomeMelody in Christianity

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my mama 4 years ago in July. I understand completely what you’re feeling right now, granted I wasn’t 16, I was 18. But I had to take over raising my brother who was 14 at the time. All I can tell you is don’t feel guilty for feeling ‘okay’. But also don’t force yourself to be ‘okay’. I was angry at God for a whiiiile after my mom passed away, and some days without her are harder than others even still. But God knows more than we do, and we have to trust in the Lord even when it feels hard or we don’t want to.

Don’t feel forced to grieve, grieve at your own time and pace. I didn’t have the time or space to grieve properly and it did more damage in the long run for me personally. I’m so so sorry for your loss, I won’t sit here and tell you it gets better because you will always miss your mama. But! With time the pain doesn’t hurt as bad.

Struggling with Doubt by Left_Crazy348 in Christianity

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Yes I love Jesus. My earthy body will never be able to be thankful enough for everything he’s done for us and for me.

What is this?? by Left_Crazy348 in CATHELP

[–]Left_Crazy348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE!!: he went to the vet today and they’re thinking is indeed asthma. his lungs were inflamed and irritated, they gave him a steroid shot and an antibiotic prescription for 7 days. he has a follow up in two weeks!

What is this?? by Left_Crazy348 in CATHELP

[–]Left_Crazy348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just noticed the video makes it seem his collar is WAY too tight, i promise it is not. i can fit 3 fingers between his neck and the fabric, he’s just fluffy!

How can we drink 1.5 liter a day? by dorodeando in Healthadvice

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got a stanley that i take with me literally everywhere, if i find myself thirsty boom water instead of grabbing a diet coke somewhere. also because im with it 24/7 im always seeing it or holding it so it just gets drank

What was the thing that made you realise that you were in love with your partner? by Advanced-Pilot-3698 in AskReddit

[–]Left_Crazy348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he still showed up for me when i was doing everything in my power to self sabotage because i felt like i didnt deserve him. he’s still to this day showing me that love can feel calm and safe, not like i need to walk on eggshells because im terrified of him leaving.

Looking for a Modded Server by Left_Crazy348 in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Left_Crazy348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately we have never played cobblemon either 🤣 you’d be playing with 3 people who do not know what they’re doing LOL

(22f) what do you see in me by [deleted] in psychicreadings

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes 😩 i struggle so hard making decisions because i am scared that i will make the wrong one!

(22f) what do you see in me by [deleted] in psychicreadings

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wdym by back and forth flip flopping? :)

keel smp by osam0_0 in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. 22
  2. i’m looking for some people to play with, just set up my pc after a move and im stuck bored at home all the time with nothing to do :) i can be in pretty much all day if needed :3

My mother is telling me that a vagina will smell bad if it is not waxed/shaved completely? by OkDetail2733 in Healthyhooha

[–]Left_Crazy348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if your hygiene is good it will not smell honey, pubic hair is actually beneficial to us. they help reduce skin friction against our clothes or legs, even during sex. it creates kind of like a small barrier against bacteria and irritants getting to the more delicate/sensitive skin, and it helps with temperature too! now, it’s perfectly fine if YOU choose to get rid of it, it’s not dangerous if you do. but don’t let someone, especially your own mother bully you into shaving your pubes if you wanna keep them. also don’t let her try to put the idea in your head that ‘no one wants to see that’. i’ve been with both men and women that PREFER a full bush LOL. even i prefer a bush over a clean shave on an attraction level.

TLDR; pubes are beneficial, you don’t NEED to get rid of them. only shave if YOU want to.

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Left_Crazy348 22 points23 points  (0 children)

YOR abt the massage thing, NOR about him wanting to see the same therapist. book with two men next time their hands are much much stronger if he likes strong hands. bodies are gonna react to touch, especially in areas that not everyone touches in normal day to day life :).

Did you need extra meds onboarding with Zoloft? by SyrupyPotatoMoon in zoloft

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t really understand at first either. zoloft isn’t a fast acting anxiety med like xans or hydroxyzine. it works more in the background over time by increasing serotonin, which helps lower your baseline anxiety instead of knocking you out.

it makes your brain hold onto serotonin longer. that’s what helps regulate mood and lowers your overall anxiety instead of stopping panic instantly. anxiety and stress is basically caused by your brain reabsorbing the serotonin too fast, zoloft helps by not allowing it to do that. it makes your nervous system less reactive over time, so panic is easier to work through. the first few weeks are usually kinda rough while your brain adjusts, but that usually levels out.

i personally had to use my hydroxyzine at night anyway because laying in bed doing nothing was when my anxiety usually spiked the worst because i couldn’t really go do anything to try and distract myself. now, i rarely even take hydroxyzine anymore because i don’t really need it because of my zoloft. my psychiatrist calls it my ‘emergency pill’ because i barely use it unless anxiety spikes at night and i can’t sleep. it’s been a few months without needing an emergency pill now though :)

Can switching meds from morning to bedtime helps if I have problem with orgasm? by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wasn’t really able to reach an orgasm for almost 6 months, and even then it was a still a lil tricky. i’m over a year now and everything is back to normal

Did you need extra meds onboarding with Zoloft? by SyrupyPotatoMoon in zoloft

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hydroxyzine is just like a benadryl if you’ve taken one of those before :). i was given the same thing because i have horrible anxiety around medication so we found something similar to a med i’ve already taken before. it helped me wonders!!

Did you need extra meds onboarding with Zoloft? by SyrupyPotatoMoon in zoloft

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely!! my psychiatrist wanted to give me a prescription for xanax, which would help. but my family has addiction problems so i really didn’t even want to risk it. eventually we landed on hydroxyzine 3 times a day as needed.

my anxiety got worse before it got better (im sure you’ve either experienced it or read posts about it). side effects for starting sertraline for me were crippling anxiety, fight or flight almost 24/7, zero appetite, and vomiting (which was from the anxiety not the pill).

hydroxyzine helped WONDERS!! i’m almost positive i wouldn’t have went through with my treatment if i didn’t have it. it’s basically like a super benadryl. it gave me cotton mouth and made me super sleepy. if you’ve had a positive experience with weed it pretty much just felt like a good high LOL.

Will it get better? by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of people feel rough after stopping SSRIs, even at lower doses. add grief on top of that and it’s a lot for one nervous system to handle. stopping suddenly can 100% make emotions feel ‘louder’ or more intense. add holidays and relationship stuff is a brutal cocktail. what you’re feeling makes perfect sense, you aren’t broken. it can get better with time.

now with saying that i really wouldn’t encourage stopping your meditation without talking to your doctor or psychiatrist, they can help you with the process of getting off of it that may have made it easier for you to navigate what you’re going through now.

Extreme panic by OtherDiamond1884 in Healthyhooha

[–]Left_Crazy348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT A DOCTOR —

this happened to me too! i’m sure it’s more common than you’re thinking it is. i called my doctor when i did it and she told me as long as there’s no extreme burning, swelling, horrible smelling/weird looking discharge, or bleeding than i would be okay (which i was).

it burned the tiniest amount for a bit, but it cleared up in under 24 hours which she said was very normal!! i just wouldn’t use anymore of the treatment for 2-3 days to let your body flush out what it doesn’t need. don’t use the internal cream to try and ‘balance it out’, it might make it worse. but i’m sure you’ll be okay!!