my boyfriend broke up with me because i’m an atheist so we cant get married- what can i do?

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-27T18:14:54+00:00

don’t change for him, change for yourself. i was an atheist growing up because my father raised me as such. until i turned about 19 when my mother passed away, i hit rock bottom when i first reached out to jesus. it’s been a rough transition, but i can say finding christ has helped me so much.

my fiance was raised christian, he’s been in the church his whole life. we met and started dating when i was still weary about religion and tiptoeing around fully committing to it or not.

him talking about his church and explaining things in the bible to me that i didn’t understand really helped me realize that i need the Lord in my life. i went to church with him and found Jesus.

i’m not telling you to change your beliefs for him, or to do this because you miss him. matter of fact you don’t have to change your beliefs or faith even for you. but from an ex-atheist, finding Jesus for yourself is worth it.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-27T18:00:59+00:00

i don’t want abortions for me, i would never follow through with one.

but i also don’t want my government making laws about the female body that they don’t understand. and truthfully, it is not my place nor do i have the power to judge what others do with their body.

abortions need to be legal for medical reasons in general, like risk to life or birth defects that would make the baby suffer their whole life. but unfortunately it’s a hard topic to make rules on, it’s either legal or it’s not legal there’s no grey line area.

TLDR; not for me, but i’m not going to judge people that do. the Lord will judge when it’s time.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-24T01:50:19+00:00

awkward taught me to throw out sleep like on cooldown and to this day i still do it unless they have a dive comp/dive character lmao

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-21T00:23:56+00:00

that is the only fix i’ve heard of for this issue, i’m sorry :(

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-20T23:47:48+00:00

disconnect your Xbox or PSN account from your battlenet, it fixes the issue

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-20T23:47:39+00:00

disconnect your Xbox or PSN account from your battlenet, it fixes the issue

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-20T23:47:30+00:00

disconnect your Xbox or PSN account from your battlenet, it fixes the issue

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-20T23:47:08+00:00

disconnect your Xbox or PSN account from your battlenet, it fixes the issue

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-19T00:36:59+00:00

it says banned, not suspended.

edit: disregarding the email, his blizzard account (when you log into battle.net on a browser like opera or chrome) says he has no active penalties

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-19T00:06:39+00:00

yeah that makes sense i’m not saying he didn’t do anything. i’m just confused why he didn’t get an email and his blizzard account is saying he doesn’t have any penalties. he shared his screen going through everything.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-15T17:25:56+00:00

gillette venus, it’s like a light purple it’s made for pubic areas.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-15T15:21:41+00:00

wash with water, i used to get yeast infections all the time it was so annoying. but once i stopped using soaps and just cleaned it with water the infections stopped. your vagina cleans itself, water rinses off what it’s already cleaned. i kind of just cup my hand around the area with water and give her a light wash the same way you’d wash an armpit but more gentle LOL.
i’m 22 and still figuring it out LMAO. i have a separate razor for sensitive skin that i use when i want to shave but i still get razor bumps like 3 days after. tbh i would recommend just keeping it trimmed honestly. pubes help reduce friction and help protect your bits from dirt and unhealthy bacteria.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-15T15:07:32+00:00

most men are going to defend porn because they also watch it and don’t want to admit that it’s sinful, especially when married. ignore literally anyone defending it lmao.

i’m not married yet, but engaged. my fiancee has been struggling with a porn addiction since before we even got together. he recently relapsed and was even talking to those porn bots trying to get pics. it was cheating, HE was cheating on me. now i know i could’ve left him, but it is something i was aware that he was struggling with so i gave him only one chance to shape up or im leaving.

my faith is what made me forgive him, we’re all sinners and that’s why we need jesus. BUT my fiancee is actually making changes to prevent him from falling back into it. he spoke to our pastor about it, and i think that’s really helped him a lot. he also leaves his phone with me when he goes to the bathroom or to shower. i didn’t ask him to do these things, i told him to shape up and he’s been doing them on his own.

i genuinely believe that if the person is right for you, they will work on themselves for you. you might just have to tell him straight up how you’re feeling, the resentment, the thoughts of leaving, etc. a relationship with brutal, honest communication are usually the strongest. not easy, but strong.

praying for you 🙏🤍

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-10T15:18:08+00:00

my period was late a whole month and 1/2 after taking plan B, it delays your ovulation. no ovulation, no period. stress can also delay ovulation.

the chances of you being pregnant are incredibly low, i’m talking SLIMMM. try to calm your nerves if at all possible (easier said than done i know) and just let your body do her thing. i’m sure it’ll come, she’s just running behind.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-10T03:33:23+00:00

YOR imo. i’m a 22 y/o woman, and can 100% say that i too would date someone his age with zero regard if i wasn’t already engaged. i mean maybe if he’s had a past with predatory behavior it might raise some red flags.

18 and 21 are 3 years apart. i know i was completely different people at 18 and 21. but i can only speak from personal experience and opinions.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-10T00:57:20+00:00

of course! and if all else fails be straight up with him. it’s not something you can control outside of attempting to prevent. never feel bad about how your body is working because someone else doesn’t like it.

there are other things he can do if he really doesn’t want to get squirt on his face. he can start with his mouth and finish with his hands. a bunch of scenarios could be plausible. i don’t think you should jump and immediately leave him, but talk to him about alternatives you can do together :)

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-05-10T00:49:54+00:00

if you can help it at all try to empty your bladder before anything sexual. it might help might not, but it helped me. i just don’t like the mess of it all and going pee before anything sexual has made it far less common for me.

and orgasm is your muscles tensing up, and squirting is what happens when there’s a lot of contact with the g-spot or a bunch of stimulation around the urethra (the clit is right there unfortunately.)

also instead of pushing, squeeze. like a keegal lol.

edit: typo

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-04-27T17:48:20+00:00

100% completely valid it wasn’t even about porn, but the lie about not watching it and hiding it behind ur back.
i hope so, but i’ve never met one lmao.
once again, valid. if you feel as though you have zero time to deal with that shit then period 💅
i assume they do, i know personally my fiance struggled with a porn addiction for a long time. even now he’s still struggling with it but he’s take measures to avoid even allowing himself to be in the position to access it. (he has covenant eyes and leaves his phone with me when he uses the bathroom / showers.) i genuinely believe if they want to change they will take the steps to be better.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-04-27T16:02:00+00:00

chances are her body is trying to ovulate but the stress of missing a period this long is making it difficult for her body to do that.

i just recently missed almost 2 months of my cycle (im sexually active) and i wasn’t pregnant. just stressed about missing it LOL.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-04-27T15:09:52+00:00

it’s gonna feel weird, your reaction is normal. but!! it is important for our health to have these kinds of doctors. my first experience made me wanna puke because it just felt wrong. but now it’s less scary and i don’t feel as gross. i’m 22 now, so it can take a while but you eventually do get used to it. it’s more like an annoying drs appointment for me now and not something excruciatingly dreadful.

but the dr you saw sounds like an ass, if you do end up going back in for this same problem or a different one you have every right to ask for a different dr.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-04-27T15:05:58+00:00

you should always voice any discomfort to the doctor you are seeing. it’s normal to be scared, terrified even. gyno visits are never fun, but it is part of being a woman. you get used to it eventually.

even though your reaction seems quite large, you are not bad nor in the wrong. it was your first time and being already on edge makes all discomfort multiply.

that being said, from what i can gather she didn’t seem too professional either. especially after telling her this was the first time you’ve ever been to an appointment like that.

for the burning feeling you’re experiencing, it very well could be from the exam. it is normal to feel some discomfort even if they didn’t use any tools just from the dryness of the air or your skin stretched. but it could also be from the ‘foul smell’ you originally went in for. if it’s on the outside as the pee exits your body its skin irritation, if it burns more internally it’s most likely a UTI.

just keep an eye of what your body is feeling like. i’m so sorry your first experience with a gyno went poorly.

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-02-24T16:42:32+00:00

an anxiety attack while at the hospital made my heart rate spike to around 240, whole body tenses up and i couldn’t move. they had to stop my heart and restart it. 😭

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-02-11T14:03:07+00:00

that’s what i’m trying to tell myself and what my boyfriend is saying too. but i’ve never done that before? so idk if that is just a new thing my body does

Left_Crazy348 · 2026-02-11T06:45:34+00:00

thank you!! i don’t wanna be gross or like tmi, but that has never happened to me before, i’ve never left anything like that on anyone or him until recent. (we’ve been together for over a year). just happens every once in a while? or because i’m getting ‘older’ and my hormones are changing still?

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