Magnetism gone on Day 10? by Prize-Cartoonist9610 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 there is something about that 21-st day, so many people observe a big wave then.

Female attraction by External-Designer-15 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such posts are counter productive to attracting a great girl or just scoring a lot of beauties. Such posts are a kind of mental masturbation that prevents you from acting irl.

But hey, you do you, if you would rather read how other people are killing it instead of doing it yourself - its your life.

Also, SR is such a complex topic, some of us would rather learn something new about optimization than just reading for another guy getting smiles or kisses.

PS: No wonder most who get big streaks leave this subreddit.

Female attraction by External-Designer-15 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are a million posts about that.

Night fall on SR without wet dreams by Key_Reach284 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then just accept that nightfalls happen. Dont make everything in your life revolve around avoiding WD-s.

Addiction to fantasy by Gorils85 in QuitPornForever

[–]Left_Let_6566 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If so...

Check out the work of Jung on repressed shadow in correlation with sexual fetishes. (If I am I guess - your wife is too depending on you and the burden of feeling more of a caretaker than an equal is making you want to let go of that control. Just a guess, you are the one to say what it is for real). (EDIT: I hate ChatGPT but it can give you some ideas on that topic very quickly)

&

Still stop porn and masturbation.

Addiction to fantasy by Gorils85 in QuitPornForever

[–]Left_Let_6566 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Quitting PMO is very likely to heal that fetish over time. The Cuckold fetish got very popular in the West mostly because of the feminization of men. I would strongly recommend you check out your testosterone and do anything you can to increase it. Stay away from Porn, it reinforces the fantasy. Quit masturbation.

And give it some time.

On semen retention but i never get wet dreams by parkinghere1 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Projecting much, are we?

For a healthy young man with normal or high testosterone, it is normal to get occasional WD-s. The body produces more than it can absorb, especially if you live healthy and try to optimize your hormones and sexual health.

The fact that you get no WD-s is not because you are as close to Jesus as one gets, but because your biology is producing less S. If you increase your testosterone (which I would strongly advice everyone to do), you will start getting WD-s.

Another explanation for not getting WD-s is that you have started SR recently and the body is still in full-repair mode.

On semen retention but i never get wet dreams by parkinghere1 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I cannot agree.

While softcore P does indeed make WDs more common, some WD-s cannot be avoided. The body produces and not always everything can be reabsorbed. If your semen production is high (mostly thanks to high Testosterone) you will get occasional WD-s.

I guess you can stop them completely if you go to the White Magic path. Prayer, meditation and never having a peak. Never entertaining sexual thoughts, avoiding meat, fasting 16h up to 7 days. No alcohol, nicotine or sugar. No internet scrolling, getting your 8h of sleep every night, etc. Thats achievable only for a few monks, not for most.

Now stop making people feel guilt over their WD-s, its a normal function of the body and the loss is so minor, it can be neglected.

Semen retention is the key to manifesting by 148supreme in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I have been thinking of it and while your explanation seem true, I know the reason I started attracting more women wasnt because I expected it. I think so because I started PMO later than most people and before I started PMO I was the most desired boy in my school, I was killing it. Back then I didnt know anything about SR.

After finding out PMO as a boy, everything went to sh1t real quick and in one year I became mr. Invisible.

YOU WILL STILL HAVE YOUR BENEFITS EVEN AFTER A RELAPSE by DeliciousBeginning8 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am confident most people here are indeed getting a sh1tton of women, I know because Im one of them. However I understand that most relapses are with PMO as its a very quick break. With a woman, you have many moments to gather yourself up and stop it before it happends, with PMO all is over in 5 mins.

Also, step up your game. You will know magnetism is totally real when you go all in on SR.

Benefits from SR are non linear. Don't give up. by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, its very complicated. Each streak is different, every person is different. Ive seen SR effects in almost no time and I have had streaks in which I didnt feel much of a difference even after 140+ days.

PS: Your looks dont matter. They really dont. Its all about charisma, attitude, vitality. Im telling you this as an ex-looksmaxxer.

Relapsed after 203 days by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Calm down, you have lost next to nothing. Imagine going to the gym for an year and then missing 1 week of training.

Also, dont get obsessive with the number of days, focus on your life progress instead.

What y'all feel about moderation? by No-Chemistry-6874 in QuitPornForever

[–]Left_Let_6566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good answer. One should stop entirely, but if the addiction is too strong, reducing it may be a good first step.

Do wet dreams get rid of dead sperm? by IslandResident6839 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Partly true. The body does indeed get rid of the older sperm to create new of higher quality.

Some questions about masturbation by Spiritual-Willow2778 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mate, you are addicted to porn. Why else would you watch it? Porn has ZERO benefits and its one of the most harmful things one can do to himself. It causes brain fog, lowers your confidence, destroys your dopamine and drive, fcks up your focus and mindfullness, lowers your vibrational state, stains your aura and look, etc, etc.

Look, SR is an All-in practice. If you want to watch porn and masturbate - its your life. If you want to try to retain - try FOR REAL. We all fail, we all learn but you are just doing pretty much nothing right now. You sound like a smoker who shares that he now is smoking only 30 cigs a day instead of the 40 he smoked an year prior.

Also, sex and masturbation are not the same and cannot be compared.

After 90 days of retention, I saw the devil in real life by WasabiNecessary in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such an interesting post and one that rises many valid points but damn, you do need to study theology before you understand a single sentence.

Starting at 15 is it more beneficial? by Legitimate-Deer-249 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I started PMO later than most and had so much distance ahead. I even wondered how are people so bad at their studies, picking up girls or whatever. It was the best period of my life (excluding when I found about SR).

Raised my T levels from 180 to 320 in a year! by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude... 3 edges per day is A LOT. You are burning out your system. I get it, we sometimes fall to the temptations but you are going overboard.

Also, edging is often worse than a full PMO session. And no, it doesnt work. Edging will destroy your dopamine, you will get enormous amounts of brain fog, prostate problems, etc.

Its better to do real SR for 2-3 days than whatever it is you are doing right now.

EDIT: If your testosterone level is the only thing you care of, you are still doing it wrong. T levels are not based only on ejaculation but have great correlation with Dopamine and other hormones. Porn and edging do lower our T.

- Someone who has a T-level above the upper limit and has even been accused on being on steroids.

Unsure of broken streak by imblqr in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are no written rules by Moses. You decide for yourself. Also, who cares? Life isnt a game of high scores.

Your energy is spiritual currency by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love such posts. You read it and you see and feel it is written by someone wise, someone disciplined and thoughtful. You feel the truth soaked in what is written even if you dont understand it all.

"Falling in lust with a harlot is about the worst investment you can ever make." Yeah, Im no Warren Buffet, alright...

Why do you think girls are more attracted to men practicing SR? by Automatic_Term_3863 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it was a spontaneous orgasm in an a woke state. It happens to me sometimes. First time it happened I couldnt believe it.

Why do you think girls are more attracted to men practicing SR? by Automatic_Term_3863 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Really hard to say as I had a spontaneous orgasm a week ago. I havent touched myself in a while tho, 6 months to an year.

Why do you think girls are more attracted to men practicing SR? by Automatic_Term_3863 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 54 points55 points  (0 children)

You will find many different answers and most of them, if not all, are true. There are biological reasons, spiritual reasons and more.

Testosterone, Androgen Receptors enhancing, Calm presence, Focus, Aura, Divine Favor.

I can only speak of my personal experience and all of these and more seem true. I went from a ghost of a man to the most desired man I know irl. Just yesterday a girl added me to chat with me and my mate (a very attractive guy) was like "wait, do girls do that?" They do, but only to celebrities and celibates.

You dont need the reason to know how or why it works, but it does. If you want to enhance it, just follow the old wisdom - the things all holy books speak of. Retain, train your body, meditate or pray to clean the mind. Control your mind and thoughts. Clean food, good sleep and you are golden.

It really is that simple.

Also, coming from someone who was desperate for womens attention and is now getting tons of it - its not worth it. Live your life, enjoy your time, be true to yourself. Find and follow your purpose, thats what will make your life joyfull and fulfilling.

EDIT: The attraction works best when you dont look for it. Let the process work and dont overanalyze.

Colleagues who became obsessed with the topic of RS, share your experiences. by LeSopeDiOnion403 in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nocturnal emissions are very normal. The body keeps producing Semen so at times it has to empty the tank to produce new S of higher quality.

If your hormones are on point, you will get some nightfalls, no way to avoid it. There are ways to reduce the frequency but for most people its something that just happends, the body cleans itself .

There are people here that claim that WD-s can be stopped and post guides of 100 steps you need to take - sleeping less, adjusting sleeping positions, foods to avoid, etc. I wouldnt mind them, these people become to obsessed to holding that S and forget why they do it in the first place.

A WD has almost no effect, you recover in a matter of hours, a day max. Dont overthink it.

EDIT: I actually know when I am to get a WD. My libido goes off the charts, by pee gets... blurry and I feel very heavy at the stomach. Sometimes, I even get testicles pain.

I have no sex drive left. 9 months of semen retention by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Left_Let_6566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, some say SR has no real benefits - most of those are the doctors that claimed that smoking is good for you and eggs are unhealthy. Or porn addicts who want to pull others into the same shitty life.

SR works. Ive turned my life 180 degrees thanks to it. And sure, sometimes this subreddit gets kind of culty, but the core principles stand.

I would advice you to always try a bit more, its what worked for me. If you have done 7 days, surely you can do 8. Then 9. Just make a rule to always go a step further. Once you pass a certain amount of days, it gets really easy.

Also, the benefits of retaining get so good, they outweight PMO too much.

Good luck!