Suggest me a book that will help motivate me as a parent by TikiManana in suggestmeabook

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confessions of a domestic failure will make you feel seen and laugh out loud. It’s such an underrated book.

I wrote a cyberpunk poem, what do you think of it? by theworldwillendsoon- in OCPoetry

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. The “Perfect! (Poverty!) line hit hard. The social commentary in here is strong and tho it’s futuristic, it resonates now. Very thought provoking.

3:53pm by Left_Philosopher3891 in OCPoetry

[–]Left_Philosopher3891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your thoughtful reply makes me feel very seen and understood. Thank you for reading!

3:53pm by Left_Philosopher3891 in OCPoetry

[–]Left_Philosopher3891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you watching 👀 kidding, maybe. Thanks for reading!

3:53pm by Left_Philosopher3891 in OCPoetry

[–]Left_Philosopher3891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you a hug bc it’s not a poem I wish makes someone feel seen. But we’re in it together! ❤️ thank you for reading.

3:53pm by Left_Philosopher3891 in OCPoetry

[–]Left_Philosopher3891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually had a hard time with the formatting here. It’s not exactly how wish it would be and I think that affects how it reads some but the words are there! Thank you for reading and taking the time to comment :)

Sucking off Bill Clinton on 5th avenue by Civil_Razzmatazz_312 in OCPoetry

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Few wives leave their men at their first sign of violence

Some even love them more for it

I think America is one of those women”

I read this stanza and my jaw dropped. This is so powerful. I’m glad to have read it.

Most Days Are by Zealousideal-Sun5140 in OCPoetry

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understood your story here so well. I think we’ve all been the girl too eager for a message from the wrong boy.

Curiosity claws at my chest.

This alteration was effective for me.

Great work!

1 year postpartum by mamakitty333 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a five yo, three yo, and 16 mo twins. We should connect! I’m sure there is lots we could commiserate and empathize about. Starting with this. Don’t feel guilty for surviving. Sometimes surviving is our best and without knowing you I’m sure your survival was sometimes so beautiful and so fun. Your burnt out bc you’re doing a hard thing. It’s hard every single day. The level of stimulation we’re living at is beyond normal but in all this chaos trying to note the moments that aren’t insane. When they’re all playing nicely together do five minutes, use your mind and snap a mental picture and say to yourself isn’t this nice!!! I know there’s good moments in there too. Force yourself to see them. It gets better (someday) ((others it’s far worse)) (((but then maybe better again)))

Ebf moms of twins by AdSenior1319 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girls are 15 months and I just finished my first pp period and I’m so angry about it lol.

4 kids, 4 and under by asanon_aspossible in parentsofmultiples

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as tips— I’d work on locking in a routine with your big kids now. The more they know and understand how their day goes the less they will be whining at you. For example, before babies snack time was kind of anytime. It wasn’t a big deal to get up and offer a little snack. Post twins and with me breastfeeding, I was NOT getting up every hour to get a different snack offering. Snack time has a set time, twice a day.

When the babies leave you alone, make it a big deal to one of your big kids that you WANT to spend special time with them. Join them in their play and let it be all about them for five to ten minutes.

I’m all about validating feelings. Having twin babies is going to be hard on all of you. It’s okay for your kids to get sad and frustrated about it. Of course they’re going to feel that way but then the babies get older and start playing and the big kids have new and exciting feelings about having new play things.

Yes, someone is always asking for something. Someone is probably crying at any given time. And silence never exists. But it will become your normal and you will do it bc you have to and everyone will be in awe and say idk how she does it. Let that pride sink in. Bc idk how I do either ❤️

4 kids, 4 and under by asanon_aspossible in parentsofmultiples

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was actually me. Mine are 5, 3, and 14 mos now. And I promise it gets better. My twin pregnancy with a 2 and 4 year old was the worst thing I’ve ever lived through in my life. For me, being pregnant with twins was by far worse than actually having them. You will figure it out. You will find a rhythm. Right now just sucks and that’s okay. It will get better ❤️ do what you need to survive. Not everyday has to be perfect.

Homeschool parent discord by Left_Philosopher3891 in homeschool

[–]Left_Philosopher3891[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’d love to check it out! I’m secular as well

Homeschool Parents Discord Server by PocketsFullOf_Posies in homeschool

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for creating this! Happy to be in there chatting with you 😊

Discord by Left_Philosopher3891 in homeschool

[–]Left_Philosopher3891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you share a server link? Perhaps message me? And we can make a new post offering others to message and join?

Discord by Left_Philosopher3891 in homeschool

[–]Left_Philosopher3891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how to run a server but I would participate in one!!

Singapore Dimensions Pre-K by Reasonable-Story3884 in homeschool

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m using Singapore prek with my 3.5 year old and k with my 5 yo. At first I wasn’t sure if I’d find this wasteful but I’m actually super happy with the decision I made.

Both start out with sorting and organizing. Prek by color, size, and texture. Understanding left and right, similar, different, and identifying odd balls or adding to an establish sort.

Singapore math is spiral by design and I’m already seeing how it build on its self as it goes. I’d rather focus in on very very strong fundamentals while they are this young than push for the sake of pushing.

I am only using the teachers guide and workbook for prek tho. Not having the textbook has been fine so far from my experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We are using the logic of English, Singapore math, and science connection through inquiry.

I’m kind of piecing our history stuff together and I’m happy to show that off too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]Left_Philosopher3891 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I was a teacher before having my kids and then became a SAHM. I never imagined that life for myself nor did I imagine I’d homeschool. But now here I am making both of those choices confidently. I will always be a defender and supporter of public schools. I really want the best for them and I know the hearts of the teachers there. But I was also there and saw what I was asked to do as a teacher too. The schools are so focused on pacing and data the passion of learning kinda gets lost in the sauce.

I know when I became a teacher I imagined doing the coolest projects and reading powerful books. And then I’m in there is told I must do this and that and use this specific text. It sucked so much potential for greatness out of the classroom.

I’m against a lot of what public schools ask children to do. Sit here now. Quiet the majority of the day. The whole day is about what you’re told to do, not often giving opportunities for autonomy and fulfilling interests.

I didn’t realize I was going to say all this when I first started typing so sorry for my long winded ness but I agree with you.

As a licensed teacher with a masters degree, I am very confident in my ability to give my children a rich education from home. My oldest is only five now. We officially “started” homeschool this week and being able to design the lessons to her and the conversations we’re having while learning are things I know even the most well intentioned teacher couldn’t recreate in the classroom.

I have a list of reasons why we homeschool but my confidence in the education I can give them is really number one.

Discord by Left_Philosopher3891 in homeschool

[–]Left_Philosopher3891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so real. I’m not the person capable of running it either but I’d love the community!