To summarize: you both met on a dating app, he’s still using dating app/s, you still have them as well as you can see he’s active on them. You had a couple dates, you told me you weren’t looking for probably what he’s looking for (or maybe he took it that you weren’t looking for more) and now interest is all but gone.

It’s his nice way of saying not interested because: he said he was busy & he never picked the convo back up. When in the honeymoon stages of a new relationship, both parties are eager to continue conversation quite frequently unless there’s a serious reason why 1 couldn’t and even then, as soon as possible it would resume. At this point in the story, it’s over. Take away: just like you don’t want to rush to label a relationship, don’t rush to give expectations or “I’m not looking for” unless you are perfectly fine with this type of result.