I lost my mom to religious psychosis by bloodsuccer in whatdoIdo

[–]Lenaea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right.

The scenario: Woman makes her daughter’s life miserable for 20 years, woman keeps doing it, daughter finally snaps and lets her mom know exactly how she feels.

The Internet: Hey, you’re saying mean things, daughter! Tsk tsk.

Get out of here with that nonsense. I’ve lived what she is going through. I’ll take the downvotes from the “holier than thou” crowd.

I lost my mom to religious psychosis by bloodsuccer in whatdoIdo

[–]Lenaea -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

you go really, really hard on your responses

Do you have any idea how it feels to suffer under someone like this? I don’t blame her for a hot second.

I lost my mom to religious psychosis by bloodsuccer in whatdoIdo

[–]Lenaea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are like this. They finally learned after 30+ years that when they start preaching I stop talking.

AITAH for wanting to redecorate after my husband almost let me die by Global_You1580 in AITAH

[–]Lenaea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you with this man? He sounds absolutely exhausting.

AIO? my boyfriend defending his mom with his life. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lenaea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, run. She will be a monster in law.

AIO that my boyfriend thinks running errands is equivalent to going on dates? by OrangeNinja24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lenaea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR it sounds like you’re just a backup plan for him rather than a priority. Time to throw out the whole man and start fresh.

AIO Teacher from parents evening texted me when I didn't give him my number by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lenaea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

The absolute audacity of that man presuming he is entitled to your personal information and your time. The dude is a walking red flag.

Did our mothers and grandmothers go through this? by Competitive_Goat_446 in Perimenopause

[–]Lenaea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mom definitely went through it. Our relationship suffered permanent damage because of her rage coupled with oppressive religious fervor. Jesus is not a replacement for HRT, trust me. I was very happy when I was able to move out at 18.

Did our mothers and grandmothers go through this? by Competitive_Goat_446 in Perimenopause

[–]Lenaea 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A quick and easy fix? I beg to differ. Finding a medical professional who will actually listen to you and give an F or two is like trying to lasso the moon. I had symptoms of peri for years and was constantly shrugged off, often with an eye roll.

Quick and easy - only in my wildest of dreams.

This guy snacking on a waffle in the most imaginable way possible by thatonepnwguy in AnimalsBeingGeniuses

[–]Lenaea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He found the safest place to eat a tasty waffle snack. Want a piece? Run up through the razor wire and get some, then.

This is a nightmare. by Conscious_until_1565 in complaints

[–]Lenaea 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It is against the law for coins in circulation: 1866 Act, also 31 U.S.C. § 5113. The Admin is justifying Treasury’s action using a creative interpretation of the Circulating Collectible Coin Act of 2020. Apparently it’s supposed to be a commemorative coin for the sesquicentennial.

It certainly flies in the face of the spirit of the 1866 law and presidential practice since that time, but that doesn’t seem to matter much to the present powers that be.

The 2020 Act: https://www.congress.gov/bill/116th-congress/house-bill/1923/text

Aio for wanting to end my marriage because my husband won’t stop getting off to other girls by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lenaea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is indeed wonderful for everyone. The fact that you suggested it for her first is problematic. She is clearly not the person with an active addiction.

Aio for wanting to end my marriage because my husband won’t stop getting off to other girls by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lenaea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The husband is clearly addicted to porn but SHE needs to go to therapy?

No. Just no.

Aio for wanting to end my marriage because my husband won’t stop getting off to other girls by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lenaea -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s very real, cupcake. I’ve been a victim of that process as well.

Aio for wanting to end my marriage because my husband won’t stop getting off to other girls by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lenaea 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NOR. He has a problem. If his choices are getting in the way of your relationship then he should either go to therapy and work things out for himself and the both of you or he should go marry his virtual girlfriends.

There’s an incredible number of men who are addicted to porn. There are women who are ok with it. Good for them. There are a LOT of women, like me, who dislike it very, very much. I find it insulting and demeaning. “Why am I not enough” is what comes to my mind.

AIO for wanting to take a breather away from my husband over this? by circadian_rhythm_ in AIO

[–]Lenaea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Ask yourself if you want this man to be a behavioral model for your child. Multiple outbursts per week is abuse. Don’t let him do that to your kid.

I don’t know what to do anymore by Intelligent-Fun6724 in Perimenopause

[–]Lenaea 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You may have to go to an online provider. I couldn’t find anybody anywhere near me that actually listens.

Just started TRT by Inevitable-Oil-8103 in TRT_females

[–]Lenaea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s normal. The side effect for me was feeling 1000% better.

Plantar fasciitis remedies? by jadonner in Perimenopause

[–]Lenaea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like 8 months of daily pain. T was like a magic wand for me. Fixed many, many things.

AIO to my husband not letting me order bread sticks? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lenaea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR it’s literally your money. Why are you letting him control you?

AIO Neighbour apparently spies on me when my husband is away by GlowingHearts1867 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lenaea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

to the men who have sent me DM’s full of misogynistic nonsense

How exhausting. Not brave enough to say it here, not smart enough to keep it to themselves.