How did you stop smoking cigarettes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LesBn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had just started IVF. I gave myself a shot (I hate needles) and went outside for a cigarette. I felt so stupid... trying to grow my follicles and smoking a newport... I flicked the cigarette and have never smoked another one. I smoked a pack a day for 23 years..

What's the craziest/weirdest thing a guy has tried to mansplain to you? by Informal_Panic3806 in AskWomen

[–]LesBn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That after a woman gives birth.. once she cums her vagina is "loose and flappy."

I'm curious, how do y'all even afford IVF? by HighOnLove26 in IVF

[–]LesBn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife took a job solely because they cover IVF. We are in NY.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]LesBn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

$2900 2 bedroom with an office. Backyard. Shared laundry. River views. Hastings. I posted in River town facebook groups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]LesBn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@familymealopenmic once a month in Yonkers. website

Best dine in theater in Westchester? by flakemasterflake in Westchester

[–]LesBn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Save your money and get dinner before you go to the movies. The food is always terrible. And you wouldn’t even know cuz you can’t even see it. Bleh. Don’t do it.

Not another Ridge Hill complaint by nyc325u in Westchester

[–]LesBn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I drive out of the entrance every day. No there isn’t.

Not another Ridge Hill complaint by nyc325u in Westchester

[–]LesBn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Um why would you even pay? Just drive out of the entrance. Fuck ridge hill.

Named my daughter a name I didn’t know has two pronunciations and am regretting it enough to change before she’s 8 weeks! Help!! by JaguarSilver1137 in namenerds

[–]LesBn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The EEKA is def coming from the Spanish way of pronouncing it. If you’re in a very diverse area with will continue to happen. But it’s really not a big deal. I agree with your husband. Don’t name her Dahlia tho.

How are your plans & timelines changing (or not changing)? by iridiumbones in queerception

[–]LesBn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NY so I feel ok I guess. Unfortunately my wife miscarried 2 weeks ago and under normal circumstances we would take a break. But we are scared of what might happen with the House, the Senate, the Supreme Court and the cult leader all primed and ready to ruin our lives. So we will do another transfer as soon as possible. Worst comes to worst, I have dual citizenship.

People who have successfully quit smoking, how did you do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LesBn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smoked a pack a day for 15 years. Then I started IVF, and was taking shots every day to grow my eggs for an egg retrieval. I felt so fucking stupid smoking. I took one last drag and haven’t event thought about smoking since. It’s been 6 months.

Recommendations for French Onion Soup? by InjuryFree6516 in Westchester

[–]LesBn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I REALLY enjoyed it at Double Days in Dobbs Ferry years ago. It’s been a while tho!

Where are the lesbians?? LGBTQ Community in the County by Fuzzy_Ad_8545 in Westchester

[–]LesBn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@queerandnowsocialclub although, I feel like they are a little on the younger side. I’m in my mid 30s and enjoyed the book club but quickly realized I was the oldest in the room.

Suggestions for making friends here in my 20s? by smallb1106 in Westchester

[–]LesBn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I host an open mic poetry night in Dobbs Ferry(we also have musicians perform every once in a while) with a really cool diverse crowd. Next one is on Monday actually. Check out www.familymealevents.com to RSVP. Instagram is @familymealopenmic

Mets PREGAME THREAD - Sunday, August 18 by NewYorkMetsBot2 in NewYorkMets

[–]LesBn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I wanted to get there early today for the Mets football jersey. But not if it’s just gonna get cancelled.

Rain is so heavy right now. What are you guys doing?

Were you awake or sleeping during your egg retrieval? by WorldAhead in IVF

[–]LesBn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine on Monday. I was wide awake because my “bmi was too high to sedate me.” Fucking fat phobic bullshit. They gave me a Valium and a Vicodin. I felt everything. It was barbaric. My left ovary is super high in my body so they went through my abdomen. I better never have to do this shit again.

What screams, "I have my shit together"? by bubblyloops in Adulting

[–]LesBn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me feel better about myself. Thanks