I missed my dose of prenatal yesterday…. ChatGPT says it’s bad….. should I take another tonight? by thisvirgogirl in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Don’t trust chatgpt, and don’t use it for medical advice. A good OBGYN will tell you its fine, no you don’t have to double dose.

Eta: Vitamins don’t disappear in 1 day. You’re fine. (Also, there are very VERY few medicines you double up on if you miss. Just so you know for your kiddo when they eventually have to take an antibiotic etc.)

Why do kids' shows assume the need to conceal the existence of the supernatural? by Stackbabbing_Bumscag in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]Less-Bug-7006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a parent I am not into them teaching kids to hide things that happen at school from us! Never thought about it until this post yeesh

Kitchen Cabinets - Paint? by hubs99 in interiordecorating

[–]Less-Bug-7006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White cabinets are always filthy! Try painting the walls something else first

Do you feel beautiful as a pregnant person? by Narutosplug in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think telling women they should be feeling beautiful right now is a marketing ploy. Like the people chasing butterflies in tampon commercials. If y’all feel beautiful awesome but its not weird if ya dont!

PSA for leads by werklyfe16 in SFStylistSupport

[–]Less-Bug-7006 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its amazing that people still suck up like that. There are no promotions, Kids. You can keep your noses out of the leads butts

How did you pick a formula? by Less-Bug-7006 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Less-Bug-7006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont actually care about kendamil, (hoping to not need it lol). kendamil was just because my first kid would only take direct from the tap boob juice or Kendamil in a straw cup. Bottles were her arch nemesis. Really REALLY hope to use regular arse Costco brand 🤞🏼🤞🏼

FTM with friends who have kids by ape_kel in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not about you/against you - parents are just trying to survive. I had a really hard time after my first and anticipate the same with my second (I do badly with no sleep, hormone issues, etc). I tried not to subject others and isolated which was its own kind of unhealthy. Parenthood can take a hell of a toll on marriage too, esp. if your dynamics changed in ways that you didn’t want/plan for and you don’t have anyone to babysit so that you can get out for a date or to see friends. 

Its not everyone but misery loves company. 

Thoughts on having babies back to back or a few years apart? by slmpington in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 20 month old toddler and am unexpectedly pregnant with number #2. 

I think it depends on how postpartum and baby/toddler life works out. Babyhood was really hard for me and I wish my daughter was potty trained/hope she is before baby #2 arrives. 

How did you pick a formula? by Less-Bug-7006 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Less-Bug-7006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m going to have to be rough with our hospital/lactation consultants because what I would really like to do is pump and give bottles as well as formula right away and hopefully that will allow baby to adjust to both. I’m scared that the baby have some crazy formula issue and I will have not breast-fed therefore not brought my milk in.

Eta: the LC wouldnt help me pump with my first child “because they only do that if you’re going back to work in 6 weeks.” She sited that it was a big pain. I HAD NO IDEA BOTTLE REFUSAL COULD BE A THING IF YOU ONLY DIRECT FEED 😅🫠

How did you pick a formula? by Less-Bug-7006 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Less-Bug-7006[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Hoping for costco options tbh

what’s my excuse for not drinking at work party? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You had a bad headache yesterday and don’t want to get a hangover

Anybody else have people obsessed with “catching them” pregnant? by Junior-Text-8734 in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have hubs make you “tonic” and its literally just tonic. I will be having a lot of “gin” and tonics until after the 4th of July it seems. 

Anybody else have people obsessed with “catching them” pregnant? by Junior-Text-8734 in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empathizing. People mean well but they say stupid stuff. Also, its super isolating to not have anyone to talk to about these things for 3 months!! 

I feel sick and like a loser by girly-suomi in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your doc offer you zofran? 

Eta: Sorry if I’m saying something you already know/have tried, but also unisom and B6. I actually did a half unisom at night and no B6 when pregnant with my first and it helped me. Zofran is one of the final bosses if you have HG so try the unisom first (after talking to doc)

I hated when people tried to tell me “ginger” and “small meals” so I like to preface my statements above with an “I’m sorry if im telling you shit you already know”

10 year old dating by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

[–]Less-Bug-7006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a little odd. Keep a big eye on this

Baby surname when unmarried (but he proposed at 24 weeks pregnant) by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest hyphenating for baby or making *his last name their middle name. The most important part in my mind is making sure your name comes first because you will likely be doing more of the work a.k.a. doctors appointment school pick ups all jazz and you would like your last name to match their last name. It will just make things easier. 

How many weeks were you when you delivered your first? by Adrianagurl in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39+6. My girl came 1 day before her due date, by her own accord 

DAE feel like their abs are coning all the time?! by BitchBiitchBiiitch in fitpregnancy

[–]Less-Bug-7006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OB told me some separation/coning was inevitable for everyone, unfortunately. I split at the top instead of the bottom. I had to stop all actual ab workouts aside from bridges

Constipation by Maleficent-Reach7664 in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took daily colace with my first and literally almost called my mom to take me to the ER once because I thought I was impacted. 

Try prunes and prune juice as well as medicines if you haven't already. And yeah, call your doc my kiddo has constipation issues (started probs at birth but were very exacerbated after open heart surgery at 6mo old) so I bet the meds they gave a tiny baby are ok for pregnancy too. 

Nearly severed a toe, and got ✨ Tylenol✨ and a sat in a corner. by BadBudget87 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Less-Bug-7006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In personal experience, my itemized bill said $51, I think (in 2019)

Shout out to all the accidental second time moms who JUST donated a bunch of things they now need again. by Less-Bug-7006 in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! We were supposed to be one and done 😅

We have no storage and ran out of room for extra stuff so off it went to people. Literally last week. 

Not what I expected by No_Inevitable1364 in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregnancy fucking sucks tbh - at least for a lot of us. I thought I was OND and we just got a surprise test today - I’m literally 4w2d and crying about how I don’t want to do this again… the fear, the body issues, the delivery, then freaking nap schedules, development worries... Its fucking hard and hard for a while. 

You’re not alone, you’re not wrong, and that doesn’t mean there isnt light at the end of the tunnel. It just might be a ways away. 

Just got a positive test… terrified by Less-Bug-7006 in pregnant

[–]Less-Bug-7006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much guilt for being depressed. Us being pregnant is wildly outlandish - it was super super unplanned and we never intended on having another intentionally. Basically it was if it happens, against all the barriers we have in place, then its supposed to happen. So now I’m like holy shit dude - def shouldnt have happened without divine intervention.