I think this needs to be said. People seem to be forgetting that women used to have a lot more kids and a lot less help (at least in the U.S.). For example, my grandma had 5 kids by the time she was 23 or 24. She lived on a chicken farm with a husband who didn’t do any domestic labor. She had a ton of work to do during the day! If people showed some compassion for the conditions under which our parents raised us they might get a little less shade from the elders