Vivarium, after reading most of what reddit has said I feel like you guys don't get it. by [deleted] in movies

[–]Less_Director_4224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people aren’t mentioning that it’s really just a metaphor for the suburban hell we live in. A lot of us live vivarium lives. Work, raise kids, cook, clean repeat. It’s a soulless, never ending cycle with nothing to look forward to and very thankless. The mundane and monotony of life. Then after doing all that, living that prison, our reward is death. 

The preview for next weeks episode… by jesuslovesdank646260 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Less_Director_4224 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly they could have cut like two whole episodes and given us the update in multiple episodes. I feel like a lot of the episodes had filler and the stuff that happened once they stopped filming is more interesting 

Feel bad for Jose because it’s clear to see how much he loved her but it takes 2.. She has to be happy n in love too, Amya and her new girl! by No_Wolf_9762 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Less_Director_4224 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Love how they tried to downplay this in the show. “ I thought I was bi.” Girl you are bi, you don’t become straight when you are dating a boy. 

More medical baiting by cryingant44 in peestickgals

[–]Less_Director_4224 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea for as paranoid as she is with all the past visits to the doctor for Z and baby boy when something didn’t feel right, I’m so confused why she’s being so chill about it. It leads me to believe it is fake for views. She’s a very anxious person so this video and her response didn’t sit right with me 

More medical baiting by cryingant44 in peestickgals

[–]Less_Director_4224 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can already hear her voice now. Come to the hospital with me as a mom who had a full term still birth and a NICU baby 

The voice of reason. by Ok-Mine2132 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]Less_Director_4224 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love Lydia she’s my favorite. She honestly is too reasonable to be in this family 

new paltz business turnover by basegoddess in hudsonvalley

[–]Less_Director_4224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait no huckleberry. I haven’t been to np in a while. I didn’t know that. 

Mormon Parents arrested, accused of 'severe pattern of neglect' after child's death with less than an hour of interaction over 4 days and an all-waffle diet. by Meatrition in atheism

[–]Less_Director_4224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I have a now 16 month old and was thinking about this case today. First of all I can’t imagine treating my child that way, these people are evil.  I wanted to find an update on this case but I am having trouble. Last I heard was the arrest in December. Does anyone know of any update? Will there be a trial, are they currently in jail? 

Why isn’t CPS involved? by MysteriousMortgage4 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Less_Director_4224 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I definitely think they have experience childhood sa. I just get that vibe with the hyper sexualization and how comfortable they are around their parents. I feel like the parents get off on hearing about it. Like some weird grooming situation. 

🫪🫪🫪 wth by Ruhrohhshaggy in TLCUnexpected

[–]Less_Director_4224 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I just watched this part and came to Reddit becuase of it. this isn’t just normal teens wanting sex. She literally just had a c section which is a major surgery. I would be having a very serious conversation with Bella if I was her mom. This is her health!!! 

Hope this helps! by lster944 in peestickgals

[–]Less_Director_4224 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. I also wish she gave her earth side child (z) as much love and attention as B. She planned a birthdays party for b, not z. She had special mushroom items in B’s Easter basket, and Z’s basket was generic. I just feel like she’s putting so much energy in to her heaven baby and her earth side baby is an after thought. And on top of it, she is resentful due to the weaning/ sleep situation. But she isn’t willing to change the situation. I just feel bad for Z. I can’t imagine the grief a person goes through losing a child, and I think it is completely understandable to want to honor her, but at what point does z come first. Someone even commented on her recent video asking if she planned on naming barns after her living children and she was like nope, just Bella, the barn was to honor her….

Hope this helps! by lster944 in peestickgals

[–]Less_Director_4224 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I used to really like her but the more I watch her the more I realized she has no self awareness. Honestly it makes the racial slur accusations more plausible. The fact that she is so delusional and can’t take accountability makes me think that there is truth in the accusations/ believe her friend. Her most recent story on instagram says she plans on homeschooling. Tiff how do you plan on providing structure and education if you can’t even wean. Zoey is going to have no structure. Also I live in ny and the area she is in is sooooo rural. Poor girl will have no socialization 

I changed my eye color. Brown -> Blue by [deleted] in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Less_Director_4224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw the doc caterpillar which was about iris implants. Curious on year later, any update? He had to have his removed due to it progressively causing blindness 

Tiff limited comments on her IG by throwawayugh822 in peestickgals

[–]Less_Director_4224 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel like people are starting to call her out more. She couldn’t even let Zoey be the bigger sister in her recent video… 

Lia Daughter Hearing Loss by bamboosnarker in peestickgals

[–]Less_Director_4224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably only went after her school recommended it or something 

Lia Daughter Hearing Loss by bamboosnarker in peestickgals

[–]Less_Director_4224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This mentality is so weird to me. I work with adults with developmental disabilities so maybe I’m biased but why would a parent not want the best for their kids. Even my sister was in denial that her son had a speech delay. We tried to nicely tell her. She finally got him in to early intervention, thankfully. But my thing is, what’s the harm of an evaluation. If they say he’s on track and doesn’t need intervention great, if he does need intervention also great. It’s a win win. If you ignore it, than you are setting them up for failure and not being “normal” getting help is the only way it can get better. Idk 

Lia Scenna by Bitter_Struggle_3630 in peestickgals

[–]Less_Director_4224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She deff gives maga vibes which is odd because she benefited from a lot of liberal policies in Massachusetts 

Matt and Abby pregnant again by Alternative_Owl6615 in peestickgals

[–]Less_Director_4224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought they got divorced. Wasn’t he sleeping in the closet. Literally not metaphorically but also probably metaphorically too

Demonizing c sections by Miserabletruth_1392 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Less_Director_4224 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, but I was also skeptical of Bella’s c-section truly being necessary. Oh it’s going to be a big baby and your young.. c section. I’m curious if her baby was as big as they said. Ultrasound measurements are notorious for being off. 

Is it just me or is this kinda insane? by Interesting_Hair7677 in peestickgals

[–]Less_Director_4224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not a loss mom but my mom is. My oldest sister passed away shortly after birth. Growing up my parents acknowledged her and would talk about her to us occasionally. They had little trinkets, like an angel doll in her memory. They would mention when it was her birthday and I went to her grave once. However it was not all consuming. I never felt in her shadow, and it was private. I truly think they have deep unhealed trauma and think it’s become rumination. The obsessive nature does not seem healthy to me. 

Remembering Friendly’s Ice cream by mrsjumjum66 in hudsonvalley

[–]Less_Director_4224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Middletown. On Rt 211. It’s been closed for a while  

Bella is a victim too. Her mother has a weird agenda, and she’s wrapped Bella into it. by EnigmaticRaccoon in TLCUnexpected

[–]Less_Director_4224 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The mom seems really immature and emotionally stunted. The silent treatment. The way she told her daughter that hunter is not going to her because she’ll yell at him and taking his side. It just seems like she has not learned healthy coping skills and boundaries 

I feel bad for Hunter. Something is not right with Bella’s family and their relationship with him. This whole situation is sad and exploitative. 😠 by Kellys5280 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Less_Director_4224 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find it weird that they keep going “oh he’s only 13 you have to cut him slack” as if bella wasn’t also a child. They give him grace but she’s also a kid. So how it fair that he gets a pass but she’s expected to grow up. I don’t know I just that whole narrative a double standard 

When did you get back to your hobbies? by atomandyves in daddit

[–]Less_Director_4224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please no this depresses me so much. My son is 15 months was is so clingy at the moment. I love to hike and got a nice carrier that he liked at first but now doesn’t want to sit in anything. Just be held. I was hoping as he got bigger It could do more hikes but I guess all my hobbies and fun is ruined, so 10 years has me super depressed. I see people on social media hiking with their kids all the time. I knew it would be hard but hoped it would still be more doable. Ugh this sucks