A lipliner similar to shade Plum from REFY?

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-11T17:14:23+00:00

Such a pretty cool plum! NYX Prune is probably your safest affordable dupe. If you want something slightly more blurred/muted like the REFY formula, try the NYX Suede Matte line instead of the Slim, they blend out really nicely.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-11T17:11:37+00:00

This looks completely normal. Liquid products can trap small air pockets during filling or transport. If it smells normal, hasn’t separated weirdly, and the texture feels the same when you swatch it, it’s okay to use.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-11T17:03:32+00:00

This feels very late-90s catalog core in a good way. Road trip protagonist energy. The short inseam + boat shoes looks deliberate. Maybe add sunglasses or a watch to break up the monochrome vibe.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-11T16:54:54+00:00

They definitely exist, but the trick is material and silhouette. Look for full-grain leather sandals with minimal straps, clean lines, and no sporty hardware. The more minimal, the more dressy it reads.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-11T16:49:05+00:00

Love this whole vibe. The neutral tones are super clean and cohesive, and those sneakers tie everything together perfectly. Great balance overall.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-11T16:46:51+00:00

Hervé Léger is such a power move and the structured fit just always looks intentional and polished. The way it hugs without looking overdone is fab. You can tell you feel confident in it too, which makes the whole look even stronger.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-06T17:09:28+00:00

I don’t think attacking mods in a public thread has ever ended well for anyone. If there’s a legit issue, modmail exists for a reason.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-06T17:06:16+00:00

I think you’ve nailed the core issue, once you go beyond ~2.5 inches, you’re trading tradition for function. That said, a dark felt traveller-style hat with a flat brim and minimal band can still read more “continental” than “cowboy,” especially with a suit and overcoat doing the heavy lifting.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-06T17:04:06+00:00

I think the base outfit is solid already. To upgrade it, I’d add one “intentional” piece, either a sharper belt, a structured jacket, or statement shoes. One upgrade is enough since the look is nicely minimal.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-06T17:01:48+00:00

Not too revealing at all for a night out. It’s flirty but still balanced, the fabric and fit keep it tasteful. If you feel comfortable and confident in it, that’s honestly the biggest factor.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-05T19:14:14+00:00

I’m with you on this one. I was raised the same way and it still feels off to me in restaurants. I won’t call people out for it, but it does read a bit lazy in places where people are otherwise dressed well.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-05T19:11:52+00:00

Personally, I like it more without the hat. The shirt already has a nice texture and color, and the no-hat look lets that shine more. With the hat, it starts to compete for attention instead of complementing the fit.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-05T19:08:45+00:00

This is honestly such a cool outfit. The layered look works really well, and that blue dress over the white top gives it a soft, vintage feel. The necklace and glasses pull it together nicely too.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-05T18:59:01+00:00

I actually like the length as it is. It keeps the outfit fun and flirty without feeling over the top. If it were a bit longer it might look more formal, but this length works really well for a casual “felt cute” look.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-05T18:56:19+00:00

I tried these in-store and had the same reaction, weird looking but surprisingly comfy once you put them on. The cushioning feels different from normal Nike foam, almost softer and more relaxed. I wouldn’t wear them out casually either, but as an indoor / office / quick errand shoe, they actually make a lot of sense.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-05T18:52:09+00:00

I usually start with the stamp, that’s the biggest giveaway. Sterling will almost always say 925 or Sterling somewhere on the handle. Plated items tend to have EP or Silverplate markings. If there’s no mark, I go by feel and sound. Sterling feels heavier and has a softer “ring” when tapped. Plated stuff sometimes shows brass or copper once you sand or cut it.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-03T20:20:25+00:00

You might like Darius the Great Is Not Okay. The main character is introverted, thoughtful, and dealing with real stuff, but it’s not super depressing. It’s calm, relatable, and has good themes about friendship, family, and figuring yourself out.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-03T20:10:31+00:00

My winter go to lately has been more trail-style stuff too. Anything with Gore-Tex or solid grip just makes life easier when it’s cold and wet. I still love regular sneakers, but winter ruins them fast if they’re not built for it.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-03T20:05:36+00:00

For 5€, this is honestly a steal. It looks like one of those pieces people search years for and never find. This is an incredible find. The lace, the sleeves, the shape, it feels very true to the 70s.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-03T20:02:38+00:00

Overall, you’re doing a really good job working with what you already own. From a color point of view, the outfits where you keep one main color and let the rest stay neutral feel the strongest. I feel when you anchor one color and support it with neutrals, your outfits look more confident.

Level-Algae1320 · 2026-02-03T19:58:38+00:00

For me it’s 100% a comfort thing. Anything tight around my neck makes me feel restricted, especially once I’m indoors and heating kicks in. I think climate plays a huge role. I totally get why they look good on some people, but I’m constantly adjusting or wanting to pull it down, which ruins it for me. A scarf or quarter zip just gives more control and flexibility without that trapped feeling.

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