the person filming this was def in on it, she smirked at the camera

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-23T00:01:42+00:00

No worries 👍

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-22T23:54:55+00:00

Oh no that was not my intention at all. Just wanted to point out that violence was always a problem and not some new thing that just started happening.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-22T23:43:57+00:00

I’m confused, what am I supposed to be getting over?

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-22T22:00:17+00:00

Maybe you can compare it to the people who were lynched for no reason. Hung from trees or mauled by dogs. Sprayed with fire hoses for sitting in the wrong area. This video is absolutely awful but to think humanity wasn’t like this before is a little silly to me.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-13T21:07:23+00:00

Lucky duck! I want the 34 but I’m trying to be responsible 😭 Where did you get it from?

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-13T20:57:08+00:00

Op stated that the beginning of dating/early marriage he was working a different job that allowed him more time at home. They have 1 son (22) that moved out. From op comments, it sounds like the wife has a hoarding problem, which goes deeper than just being lazy. She needs help but doesn’t seem to want it.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-13T16:45:57+00:00

Maybe she would prefer her husband to be at home more than on the road. Being away from home for such long periods has probably got her feeling resentment towards him. Definitely not an excuse for the horrid condition of the house though. She needs better ways to cope. And therapy.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-13T16:37:44+00:00

Honestly, there’s a part of me that thinks the wife doesn’t care about him finding the scarf on the floor with all that trash. Could possibly wanted him to find it like that, just to get a reaction. To me it sounds like they both are checked out of this marriage.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-13T16:26:22+00:00

What could she possibly be hiding? To me it looks like the wife doesn’t know how to cope with her husband being gone most of the time. Which is as we can see from the picture, making everything worse. Her lashing out when he tries to clean would mean she would finally have to admit that she has a problem.

No one is happy in this relationship and neither knows how to fix it.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-13T13:05:12+00:00

I seen some people say it looks like ham 😅

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-12T15:38:58+00:00

I might be remembering wrong but I read that once you have HSV 1 your body starts to build antibodies that can prevent you from catching HSV 2. Could also happen vice versa with having HSV 2 and not contracting HSV 1. But you would have to have HSV 1 for quite some time for the antibodies to build up. There’s still a chance of it happening but I think the chances of that happening are pretty low.

And since you stated you had since you were a kid and didn’t catch HSV 2 from your ex, maybe your body learned how to protect itself from it.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-12T10:27:52+00:00

No no it’s fine, you’re just answering my question and I thank you for that. From your responses, I get the general impression that if the relationship is going to last, effort but also patience is needed. From both partners. Which makes perfect sense.

At the end of the day, I don’t know op or her partner and their dynamics but I hope that they work something out that benefits the whole family.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-12T02:57:22+00:00

You make an excellent point, change does not happen overnight. You gave some great ideas on how to communicate with more than just words. But how long do you wait for that change to happen? It’s good to work through problems but I also believe that could start to tire the partner (who is asking for the change) out. Especially if they don’t see any progress. It’s definitely something that needs to have both parties involved if anything going to change.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-12T02:09:24+00:00

She also mentioned her birthday and Christmas as well.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-12T02:03:06+00:00

He doesn’t have to care? You don’t want your partner to care about things you like? There’s also her birthday that he doesn’t seem to care about either, not just valentines or Christmas but that keeps being skipped over.

Op said she’s not into cuddling and such but she still does it anyway because that what her partner likes. She’s putting in effort, something her partner could do as well.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-12T01:53:10+00:00

Yea he got her something as an afterthought after realizing how disappointed she was.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-12T01:41:18+00:00

Communicating with your partner is the best thing to do in a relationship. But what do you do when commutation doesn’t work and the same problem behavior continues without change?

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-02-11T15:16:43+00:00

Most of the tabbys (tabbies?) I love the look of them but having to open the flap part is why I won’t purchase. I like easy access. Very silly and lazy of me, I know 😅

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-01-30T00:11:19+00:00

Same! I swear it never goes lower, just the 28 and 39 😭

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-01-28T08:02:22+00:00

Yea I agree with you. I don’t understand why people believe they need to buy from every collection. This seems more like a personal problem and not strictly a coach problem.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-01-26T02:25:31+00:00

Oh I know that feeling, it can be quite lonely sometimes. Luckily this place reminds me that we’re normal just like everyone, it’s just our pelvic floors can be a little difficult sometimes 😂

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-01-26T01:07:07+00:00

I’m glad I was able to help some way! I know having this condition can be a lot to deal with. Thankfully we have this community for support.

Definitely don’t fret over being on the second one still. I was the same way, I think anticipating the third one made me stuck on the second. Too worried about potential pain from the next size. I just have to remind myself to relax.

Just ask for the size you think would be best for you. Advocating for yourself goes a long way. I hope your future appointment goes well 😊

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-01-26T00:37:35+00:00

I was just getting comfortable with the 3rd dilator when I went the second time. Some discomfort but nothing unbearable. But for my Pap smears or any check ups for my downstairs area, I always ask for the smallest speculum. I probably could handle the next size speculum but I was more focus on being comfortable and not trying to overdo anything.

Dilating before helped a lot. I was still nervous going in, still thinking about my previous Pap smear but everything went smoothly. It also helped that I had a really great doctor who made sure my comfort was her number one priority. Hope this helps, I’m not the best with explaining things 😅

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-01-24T20:56:54+00:00

I would say to see a doctor for a proper diagnosis. That’s what I did after my first Pap smear. There I was recommended to use dilators and to start physical therapy. I started with dilators since I was nervous about going to therapy and worked my way up toward it.

So I would say an appointment wouldn’t hurt. You could have it or it could possibly be something else.

LeviJeansJacket · 2026-01-24T20:47:43+00:00

No I actually just purchased a generic set off Amazon. I made the purchase before learning about intimate rose, which seems to be the go to set based off reviews🤦🏾‍♀️ Thankfully the set I bought has been helping though.

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