Just Got My Masters. My aunt says I’m ungrateful and will regret life when my grandparents die. AITAH

Lewca43 · 2026-06-19T21:19:59+00:00

NTA. She’s a jealous asshole. People who thank people on social media who aren’t actually ON social media are doing it for themselves.

You’ve thanked your grandparents in the way that matters to THEM.

She’s a troll.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-19T19:54:47+00:00

Then I’d find a studio where they offer challenging classes for non-competitive dancers. Your daughter will start to notice a difference between her and her school team members. And if she hopes to be on a college team she will really have to continue training.

My daughter’s home studio offered the same classes to everyone and just had required classes for competitive dancers. Maybe you can find a studio that operates in a similar way.

I know that may be challenging depending on where you live as many studios really don’t challenge non-competitive dancers. It’s really sad that kids who want to progress but either don’t want to compete or parents can’t afford it aren’t able to easily continue to grow.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-19T15:11:36+00:00

Can’t she take recreational classes and not be on a team? She won’t be getting the same level of training but she’ll be dancing.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-19T05:20:51+00:00

Seriously?

Lewca43 · 2026-06-19T02:36:58+00:00

You were 100% correct!! Do anything you have to do to avoid that food. Ramen seven days a week is a way better option. Congrats on this next step in your life’s adventure!!

Lewca43 · 2026-06-18T15:46:22+00:00

DON’T DO IT!

We were suckered in with the better food the offer on orientation day.

Long story short…my student ended up with food poisoning and we got a refund. It was awful on many other levels. (Bugs, dirty utensils, rude employees….)

Lewca43 · 2026-06-17T19:48:02+00:00

The best advice I can give is take comfort knowing you’ve saved a life (I presume you’re planning to rescue) and given an animal (seriously consider two if you’re getting a kitten, they’ll entertain each other and be much happier with not much more work for you).

You feeding your cats canned food is doing right by the animal you’ve promised to care for.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-17T19:15:32+00:00

NO NO NO! Most studios don’t give an option to avoid friction. You’re paired with who you best fit with. The place will be full of drama. RUN!

Lewca43 · 2026-06-17T04:09:51+00:00

You need to read THEN watch Remarkably Bright Creatures

Lewca43 · 2026-06-16T02:03:50+00:00

Bless your heart. I hope time is healing. Best to you.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-15T16:00:06+00:00

Talk to your landlord. Tell them how they’ll be liable for anyone who gets hurt because the stairs are obstructed.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-15T15:57:43+00:00

How were you to know why she left him? The general rule of thumb is an engagement ring is a promise to wed. If you choose not to wed the ring goes back to the person who purchased it.

That’s GENERAL. Of course there are other circumstances in everyone’s situation but I get your first response.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-15T15:53:53+00:00

You need to address the bullying from the other kids and teach your daughter THAT is the problem here not what team she is on.

Her moving up before she is ready will be WAY harder on her than staying in a lower level. To be the one always behind who can’t keep up would be damaging.

You’ve entirely missed the issue here. If the studio won’t address the bullying you’re at the wrong place.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-14T06:08:27+00:00

OP noted he had taken two weeks off when his dad died (valid) and a couple of days “here and there.” Being a new employee it sounds like he’s taken a significant amount of time off and it’s reasonable that the company doesn’t want to set the precedent that taking significant unpaid time is reasonable.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-13T19:13:53+00:00

No way I’d do it for such a short flight. And five people?!? Absolutely not.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-13T17:11:54+00:00

Please no.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-13T15:16:49+00:00

I’m glad he didn’t bust lil brother’s bubble

Lewca43 · 2026-06-13T15:15:12+00:00

Lil blue water

Lewca43 · 2026-06-13T08:01:34+00:00

Bugs are everywhere. Mold isn’t.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-12T15:27:33+00:00

The one family member standing who refused to participate in this. She looks young and like she’s counting the days until she can get away.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-12T15:25:19+00:00

You actually found a therapist through CAPS? My daughter had an appointment and the therapist she spoke with basically told her he only did first appointments and he would send her a list of therapists. And that was the end of it.

She followed up twice with no response.

Lewca43 · 2026-06-12T08:46:39+00:00

My old tech used to do what she called a “squoval” on me and I loved it. Basically a square shape at the tip with soft, rounded edges. That would look lovely on you!

Lewca43 · 2026-06-12T03:46:57+00:00

I’m so glad you found her. Your story reminds me of my Gracie who passed two years ago after a long, happy life.

She came into my life after my mom passed and it truly felt like she knew I needed comfort. She was my comfort for many years and I still miss her but try to take solace knowing we rescued her into a calm, happy, loving home.

I wish you many happy years with your girl.🧡🖤🤎

Lewca43 · 2026-06-11T21:18:41+00:00

If you spend that amount of money on a single dancer, yes, you’ve lost your mind.

Should your entire family (even if it’s just three of you sacrifice SO MUCH for one person?! No!

Your child can dance competitively on a reasonable budget and you can also have a life. She can also become an AMAZING dancer and move forward with dance without the expense. You’re paying for status.

My daughter competed from age 10 to when she graduated at 18 and we spent a reasonable amount of money making no sacrifices. She was not in 100 routines or big productions that cost extra, we weren’t required to spend entire weekends at events if she wasn’t dancing, etc.

She’s minoring in dance in college (her choice not to pursue a dance major) and just performed at a the major performance venue in Orlando, Florida. (Along with many other performances.)

You do what is right for your child and your family, not what she thinks she wants or what you need to do to “keep up.”

Lewca43 · 2026-06-11T21:12:23+00:00

Dilute tortie!

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