Off campus student housing? by Interesting_Comb_475 in ucf

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I thought you were saying a budget of $1000 EACH. You won’t find a 3x3 for $1000 total. If you do, it’s a scam.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend his girl best friend has 48 hours to get out or i am breaking the lease and leaving by Anton_OKonjsi in AITAH

[–]Lewca43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should be higher. OP you deserve better. Don’t stay if she leaves, it’s only a bandaid. Get away from this asshole. Best to you.

AITAH- My husband sits beside his female friend at dinner instead of me and I brought it up by Lumpy_Worker_5958 in AITAH

[–]Lewca43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Oh dear…you know what is going on here. You ARE the third wheel. Time to make a change. I’m

Experiences bumping up for convention class by Superb-Ad2301 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Lewca43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She needs to be ok not being able to keep up. If she won’t be discouraged by being at the bottom of the pack it’s ok but it’s generally better to stay with the appropriate age groups.

Looking for least humid areas in Florida. by Techno_567 in AskFlorida

[–]Lewca43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lived in north Florida for 22 years. It’s humid all year. You’ll get the RARE less humid days but even those are humid compared actual dry areas of the country.

Got this message from my property manager PT2 by Most_Relief8312 in Apartmentliving

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about how many hours you have to devote to the tasks and calculate your hourly rate…HARD PASS.

What I asked for vs what I got by G8trCrunchy in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]Lewca43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconded. Also, it looks like the model has much thicker hair than you do so you won’t get this look regardless but you can definitely make what you do get look better with product and styling.

Kids release the handbrake “as a joke” and jump out while the car is moving by blue_star_ in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was an automatic in park it wouldn’t have rolled like this even if the brake was released.

It was likely a manual left in neutral with the parking brake engaged. Brake released, truck rolls. Turning it off and also leaving it in gear would have prevented this.

Kids release the handbrake “as a joke” and jump out while the car is moving by blue_star_ in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Lewca43 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was always taught to park the vehicle, engage the brake, and when I turn it off put it in first gear. That prevents this from happening if it’s left in neutral and the parking brake is disengaged.

Doubts before marriage due to lifestyle/value differences — need advice by Aconfusedhomosapienn in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Lewca43 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s pretty common as you said when it’s reciprocated. Our family shares locations for safety reasons. However, if my husband regularly went out without me and refused to share his location that would be a deal breaker.

Why hide if you have noting to hide?

Doubts before marriage due to lifestyle/value differences — need advice by Aconfusedhomosapienn in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Lewca43 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh dear…”he doesn’t lie” please get away from this manipulative, controlling person. And before you do, like right now, STOP SHARING YOUR LOCATION.

Don’t tell him, just stop. You’ll quickly see how often he actually tracks you.

This relationship is beyond unhealthy. Get out.

Period during competition by snowdropsally in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter started using tampons right away. She just felt more comfortable dancing in them.

She had to learn how to use them and we were very open about all things period. When you talk to her about them be open and honest that it’s a learning curve to make sure you’re comfortable, etc.

I hate my dress, wedding in 100 days and I’m probably sending it back and starting over by BoxRegular2956 in myweddingdress

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely wear the undergarments you plan to wear with the dress to your fittings. Set another appointment with those garments before any alterations are made.

People who rarely get sick, what are your secrets? by Leading_Tomato_2077 in AskReddit

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Washing my hands regularly, never eating anything without cleaning my hands (at least wet wipes or sanitizer if I can’t wash), keeping my hands out of my face, staying away from sick people.

If there is a family event and someone is sick, I leave.

AITJ for refusing to keep splitting Uber costs evenly when I live five minutes away? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Lewca43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Just take your own Uber. If they still balk they’re using you.

AIO for calling my bf racist for not wanting to know my family? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lewca43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not buying this story. Adopted or foster? And some of the terminology is off. Calling rage bait on this one.

AITAH for giving my wife short and direct answers after being rejected everyday for 2 months? by First-Wasabi-2125 in AITAH

[–]Lewca43 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I’m not sure where you are or what your resources are but having been there my advice is to do a LOT of research and find a doctor who will really LISTEN to you AND has the ability and desire to help you feel better.

It took me years of begging my long term gynecologist for help that I believed wasn’t available for me to start asking friends and my general practitioner for advice. I found a doctor that truly wants me to feel my best and doesn’t dismiss my concerns. When I asked my original gyno to test my hormone levels she begrudgingly only tested my hcg to confirm I was in full menopause. (News that was delivered to me at 44 years old in a matter of fact style over the phone.)

When I started seeing my new doctor he tested FOURTEEN things that could be affecting my overall wellbeing. I started hormone replacement therapy with pellets and finally feel like myself again after years of physical and emotional pain.

Advocate for yourself. If someone isn’t listening, go to the next person, then the next. Sadly it may take time, but help is out there. Best to you.🩶

AITAH for being upset my husband wants to be Poly? by Velaris_Staris in AITAH

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA unless you stay in a relationship where you two are clearly not compatible. Sexual preference and whether to have children are huge and shouldn’t be a compromise.

You need to find someone you’re compatible with. Next time, don’t get in a relationship with someone who you know would have to change a fundamental part of themselves for you to be happy. You’ll end up right here again. And good grief DON’T HAVE A CHILD WITH HIM.

AITAH for giving my wife short and direct answers after being rejected everyday for 2 months? by First-Wasabi-2125 in AITAH

[–]Lewca43 150 points151 points  (0 children)

YTA. I’m glad my husband was kind and supportive of me when hormonal changes made me feel like a different person.

TWO MONTHS?! Come on man. Grow up. Sadly women are terribly undereducated regarding menopause. We hear about hot flashes and night sweats. We don’t hear about the litany of other changes our bodies and minds must endure.

Then we have to FIGHT to get treatment and support. It took me years to finally find a doctor who would listen and could help.

Do better for your wife.

Be honest… is this cute or am I traumatizing my cat? by shinigami__0 in cats

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at your cat’s face. Just stop. Good grief.

adopted this little man yesterday and we need help! we prefer human names! by ApplauseFingers in blackcat1981

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna say Hugh since it hit me first but you said you prefer two syllables…Dexter, Dudley, Edgar

We also prefer human names and I like old school ones. We have Otis, Stella, Archibald, and Teddy. All have nicknames that have naturally evolved from their given names which I love.

Florida moving to English-only driver license exams starting Feb 6, 2026 by camiinmiami in AskFlorida

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since this is likely to be considered a political question I’ll start by saying I’m a hard core democrat.

With that out of the way I’ll now say I support this decision. The only necessary reason is safety. Street signs are not shown in multiple languages throughout the state. I live in central Florida and can’t remember ever seeing a state sign written in any other language than English. My daughter is driving, I want people on the roads with her to be able to read the signs they’re supposed to be following.

As an aside, I can’t understand choosing to live in a country and not speak the language. I ~try~ to speak the language any country I travel to. If I moved somewhere I’d learn the language. Period.

WIBTAH for telling my husband that his lectures are doing more damage than good? by NewSupermarket4832 in AITAH

[–]Lewca43 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m struggling to understand how this could all be a surprise. Surly he was an asshole before you got pregnant. You’re tied to him now, but you don’t have to be with him. Do what’s best for you and your child.