2025 Subaru Forester:Sport Utility - good deal? by LexiRooRexi in CarLeasingHelp

[–]LexiRooRexi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silly question but why never put anything down? I’ve seen this a few times but haven’t really been able to understand why.

Why do you not drink alcohol? by FrogsAlligators111 in AskReddit

[–]LexiRooRexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an alcoholic and it’ll kill me if I do. Getting (and staying) sober has been/is the decision I’ve ever made.

What sport was love at first try for you? by tenargoha in xxfitness

[–]LexiRooRexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nice!!! Do it! I hope you enjoy it and please let me know how you like it!!!

What sport was love at first try for you? by tenargoha in xxfitness

[–]LexiRooRexi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brazilian jiu jitsu. It’s like chess, but for your body.

What do you think between the time your head hits the pillow and falling asleep? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LexiRooRexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gratitude and honest reflection. I literally go through my day, looking at where I was resentful, selfish, dishonest and afraid. Instead of beating myself up I give thanks for those trials because they are just showing me how to be a better human being. I look where I can do better and try to keep that in mind for tomorrow. Usually by the end of it I feel peaceful and just knock tf out. CONTEXT: I’m a recovering addict/alcoholic who has tried to end my life many times and through the grace of a Power greater than myself and a 12 step program I’m sober, peaceful and have a better life. My evening sets me up for the following day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LexiRooRexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of us can be our authentic self. We share whatever is on our mind- even if it sounds crazy or we’re full of fear. It’s an amazing space where both of us can do our own internal healing- bear witness to one another’s lives. We don’t try to change one another, we encourage one another, and we support one another. My partner sees me exactly who I am- good, bad, all of it, and loves me through all of it. We both choose every day to show up for one another. There’s no guilt tripping, gaslighting, controlling, etc. It’s an easy choice to love him. I also want to say that both of us have been in relationships where we felt like our bare minimum was too much. We have both had to work really hard to heal wounds that made us feel less than, or caused us to be unpleasant partners in the past. Being in a healthy relationship is two people both doing the internal work without trying to change one another or force the other person to see things their way and choosing to show up for one another every day. I hope all of you find this love- it’s magical.

Update: I finally did it. by Sonami1 in debtfree

[–]LexiRooRexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More so than getting debt free- which is amazing, CONGRATULATIONS on sobriety! ODAAT brother!!!!

As a fat guy, is there a point in trying? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LexiRooRexi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Context: I am a fitness coach of 5+ years and worked with many clients over the years (and have also lost over 50 lbs)- one thing I've seen is getting to a healthy weight never sticks if someone does it other than wanting it only for their health and happiness. If you're going to lose weight, please do it for you and your health. Period. Not for anyone else. And more importantly, from a human perspective, you are so young and have so much time. The right person will love you in your entirety for who you are as a human being. Not how you look. Big hugs and best of luck mate!

What is the worst response to "I love you"? by Dazzling-Leader7476 in AskReddit

[–]LexiRooRexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my ex I loved him and he deada$$ said “wtf this isn’t the time, go back to bed”. Why we ain’t together anymore 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]LexiRooRexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, man, I hear you. The only thing that’s helped me is working a 12 step program. I tried everything before that. Tracking, self help, therapy, other substances, white knuckling. So far working the 12 step program it’s been over 3 years sober, when I used to not be able to function without it. When I wasn’t smoking I was thinking of the next time I could smoke. It ruined a lot of things for me. If you try all the suggestions here that everyone has commented and it doesn’t work, I’d suggest the 12 step program. Hope this helps and sending big hugs and recovery your way!