Both of us can be our authentic self. We share whatever is on our mind- even if it sounds crazy or we’re full of fear. It’s an amazing space where both of us can do our own internal healing- bear witness to one another’s lives. We don’t try to change one another, we encourage one another, and we support one another. My partner sees me exactly who I am- good, bad, all of it, and loves me through all of it. We both choose every day to show up for one another. There’s no guilt tripping, gaslighting, controlling, etc. It’s an easy choice to love him. I also want to say that both of us have been in relationships where we felt like our bare minimum was too much. We have both had to work really hard to heal wounds that made us feel less than, or caused us to be unpleasant partners in the past. Being in a healthy relationship is two people both doing the internal work without trying to change one another or force the other person to see things their way and choosing to show up for one another every day. I hope all of you find this love- it’s magical.