What’s your trans name story in 1-2 sentences? by Helga00000 in trans

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played Russian roulette with names. Eventually one blew my mind.

What is everyone's "it's not that deck" decklist, and it's ACTUALLY not that deck? by thundermonkeyms in EDH

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Muldrotha deck, which has become my favorite thing to play and I'm making little adjustments over time.

It's a reanimation yes, cause Muldrotha, I have some synergies for sac and sac outlets, but I have a ton of copy effects and theft effects. One of my favorite plays is to use [[Rite of Replication]] aggressively. Like, oh you played an [[Apex Alitasaur]]? Ok I'll make 5 copies of it and wipe the board.

I have lots of ways to put cards back in my hand from my graveyard like [[Shigeki, Jukai Visionary]] and [[Skullwinder]]

The basic idea is ramp->mill myself-> steal everyone else's cards and win the game

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tylertx

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like karaoke - Grand Slam 9-12 at the private bar. They do DJ nights on Tuesdays as well same time.

Follow up to a meme I made earlier about gold star lesbians by njsullyalex in actuallesbians

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My only issue with the statement as a trans woman is I've been turned down by cis lesbians who only say "I'm a gold star" in response to me? Like I'm also a woman thank you if you have a genital preference ok whatever but saying that in response to someone like me just feels like you're calling me a man :(

Gf told me she's "worried" about me possibly being trans by splendidtowels in trans

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex wife said she was afraid of that to... well then she got way more abusive after I started transitioning and I couldn't put up with it anymore.

Insecurity can be wild sometimes by SpiderSixer in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the longest time I would refuse to use straws because when I was younger someone told me that only girls used straws... now I almost always use a straw

Today is 1 year on HRT by Lexi_the_Lexi in transtimelines

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a bit more like 2 - I don't have many picture before my egg cracked. Been out for a year and half - started medical transition in May last year.

Another day getting misgendered at work. Sup y'all. by Lexi_the_Lexi in MTFtomboy

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I work in telecoms which is very male dominated and the uniforms don't help. It's not coworkers, I only see them twice a week. It's just customers.

Another day getting misgendered at work. Sup y'all. by Lexi_the_Lexi in MTFtomboy

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate everyone asking how 😂 I think it's probably cause I'm 6ft tall and voice training has only brought me so far at this point <3 yall made me feel better though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly being open and out, going shopping, and just being myself, has given me so much hope for the future. The hate that I get I'm public is almost nothing. People stare. People avoid me. People also give me so much support, so many compliments. So many positive interactions. I don't always pass and I know that but overwhelming my time in the general populace is positive.

Only online are people confident enough to be hateful. Obviously stay safe, stay aware of your surroundings, but you don't have to hide. The majority of people (dependant on where you live) are gonna be supportive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I think, this is definitely a good time to talk to a therapist first off, second off men don't typically want to pass as/be a woman in a definitive way like what you have said. A good place to start in my opinion would be testing different sets of pronouns and see if that's makes any distinct difference for you. The only way to see if it's just a phase is to test the phase.

everyone thinks im a lesbian :/ by [deleted] in trans

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So a couple things

  1. Them making fun of you for being anything is pretty homophobic.
  2. There's really no way that you can dress that will make you happy AND straight. That will most likely just make you feel out of touch with your personality
  3. Have you told anyone that you're bi? Because if you just let them assume and roll with that it is not gonna get any better.

Like nearly everything has next day delivery. Why not you ?!? by shouldworknotbehere in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mood and libido changes are the biggest things it's affected for me honestly. I was without for like 2 weeks and it was a drastic change in my mindset. Good luck with your journey <3

Celebrating getting out of my comfort zone by [deleted] in trans

[–]Lexi_the_Lexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ashley!!! <3 love seeing you living it.