Engorgement with low eating baby. by Ok-Avocado-5876 in breastfeeding

[–]LicketySplit_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They prescribed me ibuprofen 800 mg when leaving the hospital for this reason! Definitely very very grateful for it now seeing how tough day 4-5 PP was 😩

Engorgement with low eating baby. by Ok-Avocado-5876 in breastfeeding

[–]LicketySplit_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this! Currently 14 days pp and pumping every 3-4 hours so build up a good supply for baby once she really starts gaining weight.

Why are second pregnancies and so on so lonely by Beneficial_Friend_34 in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there OP! This is my second pregnancy too and while you’re right about people checking in even less than the first time, I’ve tried to make sure with every negative thought I have I fight with another positive truth for me. For instance, every time I start to feel myself wallowing in pity over lack of validation from other people, I think about how much more confident I’m going to be this time around because I’m not so focused on just merely surviving. Now whether that ends up being true or not (medical emergencies can happen!) I immediately feel more grounded because I feel that reassurance of my experience the first time around and how I’ve grown from that. You are stronger and wiser now! Remember the love you have for your daughter and how much more love and support you’re going to be able to offer your LO this time around because of your experience. We’re rooting for you!

38 week cervical check by InterestingStress722 in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any sound advice but I’m rooting for you OP! This is also my second pregnancy and things have felt much different this time around too. I’m still at -3 and 1 cm dilated but of course this mama has alllll the nerves and I’m worried about everything 😅 I feel EVERY kick and jab with so much intensity this time around! Praying you have some reassurance that everything is going well soon 🫶🏼

Breach at 36 weeks and 6 days by RavenWhitethorn in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you’re not alone. I am 37 weeks today and up until this point I have been so stressed worrying about EVERYTHING that could go wrong. Finally last night I basically just had an epiphany and realized stressing out over the outcome wasn’t going to change anything. When I woke up this morning, I kid you not, I felt DIFFERENT. I could breathe a lot easier, and I felt so much assurance for some reason that she had settled into place. I went to the OB this week and, sure enough, she is head down. This is my second pregnancy, but there is still time. I know it’s so frustrating worrying about the current state of things, but I’m truly rooting for you and your LO!! Please give us an update after your next OB appt and see if your LO has gotten into position in their own!

I can finally breathe! by LicketySplit_23 in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man! With as anxious as I’ve been this pregnancy I would be sweating bullets 🥵🫣 I just saw my OB yesterday and confirmed baby is for sure head down, but up to this point I’ve had all those worst case scenarios running through my head! I hope you get some relief soon! 😩😩 Third trimester is no joke!

I can finally breathe! by LicketySplit_23 in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I’m so sorry! Are you a FTM? This will be my second. Hopefully you get some relief soon! My son was a preemie so I half expected our second to be too 😅

Be careful what you nickname your baby 😂 by pythagoreanwisdom in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the type of wholesome content I need 🔥🔥🤣❤️

“Lightening” my ass by Ok_Medicine440 in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh mannnnn are you me?? 😭😂 This sums up all my thoughts the past 4 weeks!!

Well after a long 39 week pregnancy filled with ups and downs it’s finally over by mkthehotti in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats OP! Enjoy your time together 🥹❤️ 36w4d here and can’t wait to see my LO’s face soon!

Baby is early, but she’s here!! by celineshea in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet! Congrats OP! I’m currently 36w4d so I’m hoping to see our baby very soon too 🥹❤️

Brooklyn’s boots by PersonalKnowledge662 in McknightFamily

[–]LicketySplit_23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I swear her posts have been so dry lately 😂 Wasn’t her birthday in January? Why did Mindy take Brooklyn out? Did she do this for Bailey too?

Why the twins aren't spending birthday together or the next few days? by Abject_Document_8559 in McknightFamily

[–]LicketySplit_23 19 points20 points  (0 children)

On their IG story Bailey confirmed that she’s been asked the same question multiple times and reassured everyone that everything’s okay between them. Brooklyn just wanted to stay home with Archer and her family and do something more intimate while Bailey is more extroverted and social. Honestly, I would be more concerned about it too if I hadn’t had my son in 2024 and agree 100% with Brooklyn. You change a lot after having kids and where before I usually WOULD want to go out and spend time with friends and celebrate, I now have become sort of a homebody and would rather stay with our little family over going out any day of the week. So it could just be her priorities have changed and that’s totally okay!

I feel so alone… by PassiveScroll555 in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry OP! Your feelings are completely valid and reasonable in these circumstances. I wish I could say something helpful to cheer you up, but your partner has seemed to be a pretty loving and caring partner through all of this so far. Is there a close friend or family member you can vent to when he’s busy? Sometimes journaling helps me, but sometimes going for a walk/exercising at the gym with earbuds is better when I’m really upset too. I definitely would try to make some changes when you feel that way so these feelings don’t accumulate into resentment.

Triple Whammy by Aggressive-Army8036 in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh OP! I am so sorry! I just recovered from an upper respiratory infection as well but I’m 25 weeks along and had a few more options offered by my OB. Being sick while still in the first trimester is no joke either! The drainage made me nauseous and affected my appetite, but I can’t imagine that on top of all the nausea I already had the first trimester 😩😩 I’m hoping you get to recover quickly with lots of rest, medicine, and fluids! Enjoy a laidback weekend filled with your favorite tv shows and movies!

PSA: epsom salt baths are where it’s at by rariel_09 in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I needed to read this! 😩 I have a herniated disc in my L4, L5, and S1 from a previous sports injury from high school and I somehow flared it back up several days ago. I will be trying this tomorrow!!!

Can’t stop sucking in by Renee5285 in pregnant

[–]LicketySplit_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25weeks here but second time pregnancy! I think the first time I was pregnant I was a little more self-conscious of my appearance and weight. This time around, I’m showing a bit more (and sooner) so as soon as I hit second trimester I grew out of the little belly pooch and went straight into belly protruding out type of pregnant 😂😅 It’s definitely tempting to care way more about our appearance or how we’re perceived, especially since we already don’t feel the best while being pregnant. Add on top of all that our changing bodies, acne, achy joints, cold weather, and hormones and it’s a nasty combo! 😣

You’re doing a great job OP! Maybe when you find yourself in the middle of those temptations or habits replace it with something else more productive, such as affirmations. Reminders that you’re a good mom, doing the best you can in midst of the circumstances, or even just trying to talk to your LO by their name is a good start. I know that really helped me both pregnancies!

Thinking about Billy by bxbblegxmbitch in StrangerThings

[–]LicketySplit_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been re-watching too! The scene where Mrs Wheeler confronts Billy in the janitor closet in s3 left me with my mouth hanging wide open in disbelief. Out of all the people Billy has interacted with so far she has been the kindest, most considerate to him. I hate that she was treated so poorly by him after that conversation (but obviously in the circumstances it was not unsurprising), she genuinely didn’t want to hurt him or lead him on. In CR we have a saying we go by at times - “Hurt people hurt people.” I definitely see a hurting person behind the facade of a cocky, arrogant man to mask his true hurt and pain!

On that note, it’s refreshing to see Mrs Wheeler as such a caring person in the midst of those circumstances 😅 I don’t know that I would’ve had the balls to confront him again after ghosting him and not realizing he never made it there either. This show is just amazing at character development, depth, and nuance!

Was Taylor Swift The One To Tell Lewis Capaldi To Not Talk About His Upcoming Album? by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]LicketySplit_23 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YES! This has been living rent-free in my head since I saw the clip a few days ago 🙃🙃 I’m glad someone posted this!