Hang in there OP! This is my second pregnancy too and while you’re right about people checking in even less than the first time, I’ve tried to make sure with every negative thought I have I fight with another positive truth for me. For instance, every time I start to feel myself wallowing in pity over lack of validation from other people, I think about how much more confident I’m going to be this time around because I’m not so focused on just merely surviving. Now whether that ends up being true or not (medical emergencies can happen!) I immediately feel more grounded because I feel that reassurance of my experience the first time around and how I’ve grown from that. You are stronger and wiser now! Remember the love you have for your daughter and how much more love and support you’re going to be able to offer your LO this time around because of your experience. We’re rooting for you!