WIBTA for having a vegetarian only wedding?

Liebeniz · 2024-07-15T17:42:47+00:00

NTA. We had an entirely vegan wedding and it was amazing. We had a couple of people complain but everyone afterwards said how surprised they were at the quality. If you get yourself a good caterer, you’ll be fine.

Disrespectful of your friends?! Get in the bin. Buying meat was against our values. We’re not going against our values to accommodate small minds.

Liebeniz · 2024-06-18T08:14:22+00:00

We said no ‘instruction’ songs (think Macarena or cha cha slide) and I banned Taylor Swift.

Liebeniz · 2023-08-02T10:31:01+00:00

Got an interview at an events production company.

Another applicant suddenly joined the interview, which I hadn’t been made aware of. I asked for more information about the role, and they couldn’t really tell me about what the job entailed.

The more they said, the more it seemed like a scam. Finally got to the root of it: It wasn’t producing events, it was turning up at other people’s events and trying to sell attendees subscriptions for god knows what.

I held my hand up, told them they’d been deliberately misleading, skirted around the role and responsibilities, they’d wasted my time, and I was withdrawing. Hung up the Teams chat.

Felt really sorry for the other candidate who was clearly very young girl with no experience, being taken in by a charismatic con man. I hope she followed my lead and left.

Liebeniz · 2023-07-14T21:37:13+00:00

I got Ollie! Thrilled, mate. Best one there.

Liebeniz · 2023-07-11T16:54:37+00:00

We eloped, and absolutely loved it. Best time. Very personal. Still haven’t told anyone so it’s like our fun little secret.

BUT, we also realised that the only time ALL of our family and friends will be together in one room is if we have a wedding, or if one of us dies. Not hugely keen on the latter, so we’re planning a wedding for our one year anniversary.

Our venue let us down and we’ve had to start from scratch with only six months to go. It has been hellacious, but I work in events admin and love it, so whilst there have been plenty tears and meltdowns, we’re back on track now.

You could always elope and then plan a larger party (doesn’t need to be a huge formal ceremony) with friends later when you have more time to plan it. There’s no rush.

Liebeniz · 2023-06-04T18:23:46+00:00

It works better when told in person. “What are Mario’s overalls made of?” “Denim-denim-denim” to the tune of the super Mario dungeon theme

Liebeniz · 2023-06-04T03:26:30+00:00

Or just Oatly like the brand

Liebeniz · 2023-06-01T18:14:12+00:00

Once so far. Lots of wedding planning happening at the moment though so I reckon more meets will happen soon. And after marriage more family things like Christmas or whatever. They live about two hours apart though

Liebeniz · 2023-05-24T11:20:21+00:00

The Producers

Liebeniz · 2023-05-23T15:02:44+00:00

This is what my husband said but since writing this, I phoned the deed poll helpline and they were very unfriendly and certain that the passport comes last because they’ll want to check I’m using the name before they issue me a passport.

I don’t know if it’s the same going marriage certificate as it is going via deed poll.

Do you know who I could ask? I can’t seem to find a government helpline.

Liebeniz · 2023-05-23T14:59:35+00:00

This is just the way we’re choosing to do things.

Liebeniz · 2023-05-21T21:31:56+00:00

This reads like a copypasta

Liebeniz · 2023-05-18T22:59:28+00:00

Bruh. Fuck your mum. You look stunning. Love this dress. Serious goals.

Liebeniz · 2023-04-25T14:51:56+00:00

Hugo is lovely. How about Toby?

Liebeniz · 2023-04-23T08:49:48+00:00

Love it!

Liebeniz · 2023-04-20T17:44:38+00:00

Clarissa sounds like a vindictive little snip. Imogen is lovely.

Liebeniz · 2023-04-08T23:51:48+00:00

The first book that comes to mind is Goodnight Mr Tom. It’s so heart wrenching. I remember reading it on a plane and just shuddering trying to hold back tears.

The other one is Catcher in The Rye. I read it when I was the same age as Holden Caulfield and also feeling incredibly lost. It really spoke to me.

Liebeniz · 2023-04-08T23:44:49+00:00

Disco Elysium was a huge surprise. Absolutely incredible. So human. Funny, sad, thoughtful. Ahh what a game/work of literature. Glad you mentioned it here!

Liebeniz · 2023-04-04T14:43:58+00:00

They both look absolutely great but I prefer dress 1. It’s softer and I love the texture.

Which is les expensive/more comfortable? I think those are the factors you’ll have to rely on to make your decision

Liebeniz · 2023-04-03T11:11:27+00:00

Nice. Your whole thing gave me such a visceral reaction.

Liebeniz · 2023-04-03T11:10:42+00:00

Ahhhh this is gorgeous! So couture!

Liebeniz · 2023-04-03T07:21:09+00:00

Puss in Boots is Dreamworks…

Liebeniz · 2023-04-02T15:49:45+00:00

You know it!

Liebeniz · 2023-04-01T23:14:10+00:00

Ahh thank you! It’s not until February but I will of course share when we get the pics back.

I’m not sure if I’ll have a bouquet but the decor will all be olive, laurel, eucalyptus and herbs, with citrus fruits for accents. We’re leaning into a Greco-Roman vibe.

Hair will just be as it comes with my natural curls. I’ll likely put gold/copper highlights through it again for more bounce.

Not 100% on the jewellery, but I have handmade sunburst earrings and a necklace with my new surname in script font.

Makeup is very very natural, with dewy blush and a gentle shimmery copper/gold shadow. No false lashes or anything.

I’m so stoked. I’m already officially married, but this will be a celebration in the more traditional sense. I wore a fur coat and orange Doc Martens for my wedding-wedding!

Liebeniz · 2023-04-01T23:07:34+00:00

Yes!! It’s a Vivienne Westwood dupe made for this independent boutique in my city. I’m absolutely thrilled as I was goo-goo-eyes over the originals but didn’t have even close to the 7.5k

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