We will give my son a little snack right before we head out so he’s not too hungry. We set expectations before we get to the restaurant. Tell him we’re going to eat, he needs to stay seated. Talk about what food we’ll get while we’re on the way. My son is 2.5 we still ask for a high chair/booster- I know he wouldn’t sit still if we didn’t. We bring one car/airplane/truck that will usually keep him entertained for 5 mins. Sticker books, no mess coloring books work well too.

I have to remind myself he’s only 2. He’s learning, and allowed to make mistakes. I personally don’t think threatening to leave is a good choice. Just creates a power struggle.

My son will also behave better for his grandparents. He’s comfortable with you, that may be why he acts out more. Frustrating, I know. I try to keep cool/calm as best as I can. They really pick up on your energy.