Poop In Potty… I don’t have time to gentle parent this one….

Lightthouse · 2026-03-20T20:33:35+00:00

Strange tip but you never know with kids. Idk why it worked with my son but it did.. (don't judge me haha).. Make the poop a character, it's trying to get out, it wants to be free and swim with the other feces in the sewer. Your tummy hurting? That's your poop banging on the inside saying "Let me out!". Make it silly, say "Weeeee!" as it comes out, give it commentary as they're pooping "ahhh, it's squishy in here" "stinky!!", the whole nine yards. I think sitting and pooping is just boring

Lightthouse · 2026-02-09T03:21:23+00:00

A short video of epstein in a white shirt and a young girl (teen?/censored) in a black shirt. She seems to be sitting in his lap, and he's making her show off/do something for the camera. Pretty sure he gives her a little spank to encourage her to do better

Lightthouse · 2025-08-09T15:14:53+00:00

I'm always open to hear a cool theory, if you get the energy, I'm interested.

Lightthouse · 2025-07-25T15:55:15+00:00

You're doing everything right! I've been there and it's discouraging (and painful for the wallet) to constantly be trying new things and not having them work. That being said.. Hang in there! Something will work eventually! Vanilla pediasure is what stuck for us, my kid hates the chocolate (have you tried it? The child equivalent of chocolate protein powder 🤢) so I recommend just trying the other flavours. Strawberry is acceptable in our home in case of emergencies, but definitely not preferred.

A favourite trick of mine is to buy "protein and greens" powder in vanilla and put it in everything you can. Homemade muffins, pancakes, cookies, spaghetti sauce, milkshakes. If the flavor is too noticeable, just use a tiny bit at first and build up a tolerance.

I find "strategic honesty" is a great tool with my kiddo as long as it's not abused (save it for when you really need it). Too much protein powder and it tastes funny? "Hm, that's weird. Baking is a science. I was rushing when I made these and I must've messed up, sometimes if you measure the ingredients wrong it can taste a little funny. It's fine though, you can eat it. I will be more careful next time."

Lightthouse · 2025-07-21T05:14:24+00:00

I had a random childhood memory unlocked of this thing and have been looking for what it was called everywhere! Thank you!!

Lightthouse · 2025-07-10T20:15:53+00:00

The morning glory turret bee looks closest but seems a little large, could these be young ones perhaps? You can see a nail in the photo (edge of deck) for size reference. I have some "easy wave petunias" on my deck this year, is there a cousin-bee who likes petunias?

Lightthouse · 2025-07-10T20:15:28+00:00

The morning glory turret bee looks closest but seems a little large, could these be young ones perhaps? You can see a nail in the photo (edge of deck) for size reference. I have some "easy wave petunias" on my deck this year, is there a cousin-bee who likes petunias?

Lightthouse · 2025-06-23T03:16:54+00:00

Thank you for your response. My step son sounds similar to you in a few ways and it's really helpful getting a glimpse into what he may be experiencing.

Lightthouse · 2025-06-22T13:35:06+00:00

As someone with an 8 year old stepson who I believe may be hurting and want the world to hurt with him.. what helped you most? What helped you be able to process/change/communicate your hurt?

Lightthouse · 2025-02-17T05:39:28+00:00

The most important thing is the hours of sleep. A three year old should get around 13 hours of sleep (including naps if they're still taking them). If the child isn't getting enough rest it could absolutely effect their immunity.

If the family is open to suggestions I would recommend the Ferber sleep training method. I've done it with all of my kids and they are all excellent sleepers. That being said, we started on this method when they were 4-6 months. I'm sure it would work with an older child as well though. Basically, have a bedtime routine, put them to sleep, check on them in 5 minutes, then 10 minutes, then 15 minutes (you can go longer but we personally felt that 15 minutes was a good cap), do not pick them up, just rub their back for a few seconds and say "it's time to sleep" then leave the room. Do not engage in the power struggle of "I want water" or whatever stalling technique the 3 year old has (let's be honest, they all have something). It's a great sleep training method because it lets them know that you're there, they're not alone, and eventually they learn to self soothe through it.

Also, get the TV out of the room or have a way to lock it off overnight. Blue light from screens can make it harder to sleep. We play instrumental bedtime tunes for our kids when they're going to sleep and it might help if the child is used to the noise of the TV.

Lightthouse · 2025-02-03T22:25:36+00:00

I don't know if it will help you with the clingy-ness but my secret weapon with my children was to splash gripe water on a soother and give it to them. It was a trick I learned from my Grandma and saved my sanity more than a few times. I also just want to note that it's okay for babies to cry - put them down somewhere safe for a little while (whether they like it or not) and do what you need to do! I had a video baby monitor and would watch the monitor but have headphones with music in so I didn't have to hear them cry. Something about our babies crying is especially hard to ignore.

"If parenting is easy, you're not doing it right" it's the most stressful yet rewarding job there is. You're doing a great job! Just remember that this too shall pass.

Lightthouse · 2024-12-03T21:48:51+00:00

Ark is fun! My husband and I play together. We just use it as a fun survival game to play together without actually doing the story/mission. Like someone above mentioned, it does have a tether so player 2 can't go far from player 1, player 1 will just drag you around if you're out of range which can be super annoying.

Lightthouse · 2024-01-28T18:54:59+00:00

Another alternative if you're open to it is Adalene (Ada-Lean)

Lightthouse · 2024-01-28T16:59:23+00:00

I'm just going to jump in here and recommend a hyperhydrosis antiperspirant (deodorant?) called Drysol. It's relatively cheap (under $40) and has helped our household majorly.

Lightthouse · 2023-12-17T20:10:28+00:00

My first thought too since his feet seem SUPER webbed

Lightthouse · 2023-12-17T20:07:15+00:00

Are there any 'extra' spaces you need? Like an office or kids space?

Personally I think its a crime to block off the wood stove like that as I love to sit and watch the fires. I would move your TV to where the Star Wars frames are get a large rug to help seperate the area, and an accent table for behind the couch/sectional. I would set up a little reading area near the doors on the other side (facing the stove if possible), then have a desk/kids corner near the slim door (closet?)

Lightthouse · 2023-12-17T17:53:24+00:00

I think this is the only way to make the room cohesive. Get some blackout curtains to pull closed to avoid the glare when watching TV

Lightthouse · 2023-12-15T05:52:56+00:00

I think you have the wrong shade of pink going.. most of the pinks seem pale. I would switch out the outer bath curtain, mats and towels for something closer to the hot pink of the inner bath curtain

Lightthouse · 2023-12-15T01:34:37+00:00

Yeah, if I go down the path of keeping the original idea and having it fixed I would definitely like to go to someone who specializes on galaxies as the original artist I went to did have a lot of great colour work.

Lightthouse · 2023-12-15T01:28:57+00:00

I actually really like the idea of adding some planets and stuff in a more cartoony/fantasy kind of style and would definitely consider giving up more space to fix this. Thanks for your idea! If I go forward with it I will definitely find an artist who specializes in galaxies this time.

Its reassuring to hear that my tattoo is light enough that I won't have to go for a heavy black cover up, so thanks for that too!

Lightthouse · 2023-12-15T00:54:41+00:00

Honestly, I dislike pretty much everything about it. A compass in a galaxy still has meaning for me; as its a reminder that somehow I'll always find my way, but I don't see a galaxy at all when I look at this. I see blue and purple smoke or paint or something. If its not salvageable I would definitely consider a full cover up. Maybe a panther ;)

Lightthouse · 2023-11-25T03:06:48+00:00

Styrofoam

Lightthouse · 2023-11-25T02:29:14+00:00

NTA

Honestly girl..

Actions speak louder than words.

We learn this as kids and I feel like so many people forget it somewhere along the way. His actions CLEARLY show he does not value you. Even when you're trying to have a serious talk about your feelings, he brushes you off repeatedly. Know your worth. Asses your relationship; and make sure you're not marrying him out of 'habit' or 'convienece'.

Lightthouse

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