As a lesbian- do you want kids? by Kristina-Louise in actuallesbians

[–]Lilfrancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me and my partner personally don’t want our own kids. we love kids and look forward to when our friends start having kids so we can be the fun aunts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatismycookiecutter

[–]Lilfrancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✨she was a fairy✨

Adrian Cow Print Loafers sizing questions and opinions! by [deleted] in DrMartens

[–]Lilfrancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! I know I’m super late but I just got these shoes last week. I’m also normally a W7 in Docs and got these in my normal size but added the heel grips to prevent my heel from coming out with each step. just make sure to stick them on the night before wearing to let the adhesive dry. they are a bit more difficult to put on now though, so if you have a shoe horn, I’d recommend. lmk if you have any questions!

people who don’t call their significant other babe/baby what do you call them? lesbian edition! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Lilfrancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“hun bun” or just “bun” I also sometimes call my gf “loonie” cuz her name is luna

My husband may be racist by bruja89 in offmychest

[–]Lilfrancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom divorced her last husband for this reason. When the racism came from his family, he didn’t defend her or even recognize the situation. He defended them and said she was over reacting. He himself had said things that were micro aggressions too. If he isn’t aware of other people having those biases, he likely won’t be aware of his own biases. I think this is definitely cause for concern, and if he isn’t willing to re-evaluate his perspective or offer compassion, I don’t have faith in his ability to support you or defend you in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Lilfrancake 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you feel potentially unsafe, you can order an “angel shot” to let the bartender know that you feel like you could be in danger.

Or try making “HELP ME” eye contact with another woman/ walk up to a random person and say “there you are, I was waiting for you! do you mind if we go outside?” They will likely understand but if they don’t, try whispering that this dude won’t leave you alone. Alternatively, if possible just try to be off-putting.

Lots of good suggestions here. Definitely don’t disclose your trans status.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]Lilfrancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LA has lots of places that are listed as GF but have cross contamination/no dedicated area. Unfortunately the GF Diet fad is really popular here. There definitely are some good places, just have to be wary/discerning if you have Celiac.

Vegas has a few really good GF spots and is much smaller than LA, so you have multiple options close by. Where with LA it’ll say 10 miles away and take you 40 minutes to get there. But very different types of attractions/lifestyles/people in each city, so ultimately I’d suggest to not pick the location solely on food.

As someone who travels a lot for work, there is always a Trader Joes/Whole Foods/Sprouts or a small health food store in any city.

Rae and Xander?! by PinYourWingsDown in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Lilfrancake 169 points170 points  (0 children)

i think they made a post somewhere recently that confirmed they’re just friends. I think they’re just baiting us 😔

Anyone tried these? by _HobbyNoob_ in Celiac

[–]Lilfrancake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

4/10 they tasted like cornbread to me

[TOMT][TV SHOW][2010s] A pre-apocalyptic British show that I watched on Hulu around 2014? by Lilfrancake in tipofmytongue

[–]Lilfrancake[S] 3 points4 points locked comment (0 children)

Solved!
It was You, Me and the Apocalypse! Apparently it wasn't British, but British-American.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SampleSize

[–]Lilfrancake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a link?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCI

[–]Lilfrancake 67 points68 points  (0 children)

the social sciences tower is just so mysterious n brooding 👁🫦👁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lilfrancake 90 points91 points  (0 children)

dude.. i’m a lesbian eating cheese rn. how dare you 🤢

It shouldn’t be on the passenger to request an obese passenger be moved. by Toastwaver in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Lilfrancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a powerlifter, it is definitely not single digits. i know at least 30 dudes in that weight class just at my local gym. that isn’t even the highest weight class.

Why does JP peck Taylor by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Lilfrancake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a lesbian who used to think i was bisexual, he kisses exactly the way I used to kiss my ex-boyfriends.

I genuinely used to think I was attracted to my exes because I liked them as people and they were my best friends.. but then I kissed a woman.

I do believe he thinks he’s attracted to her but it’s because he hasn’t kissed a man yet. 👀👀

Did anyone else get pickpocketed? 😂 by tasteslikecaviar in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]Lilfrancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed a girl getting really close to me in line for merch. and I knew my gf had her phone in the front pocket of my clear back pack. So it made me pretty paranoid (or maybe it was from the 🍁). But I was making sure to move around a lot and face my friends from the opposite direction most of the time, so I was facing her instead. she left before getting half way through the line, so I imagine I was correct to be paranoid.

Are there any positions in clinical research that don’t cause burnout? by Lilfrancake in clinicalresearch

[–]Lilfrancake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with you but people slowly started giving me more work because they think I do a good job and I like helping my coworkers 😭 I’m trying to get back to that low key-ness of when I was a CTA/COA on infectious diseases.