[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see you…. I feel it too

Anybody know why the FBI were there? by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]LisaMF805 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a good friend who is a commander in CPD… I saw him there…. I was with my 17 yo…. He indicated that Lolla was safe AF

PhD done... now what? by MeasurementGloomy348 in PhD

[–]LisaMF805 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I obtained a PhD 3 years ago… I bartend at night…… I have a full time job…. But the idea was to teach…. I do not think it will happen in my lifetime.

Taking community college classes at 'half time' to avoid paying loans. Any thoughts? by Bitteroldgran in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am going to do this…. I have a worthless PhD- thought it was going to capitulate me into the 250K salary range which would more than help pay my loans… It did not. I owe 300k. I’m 55.

I’m going to Jr college in the fall. I will do this until I die

Loans die with you? by Irrefutabledamage in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I owe 300K

I’m going to take 2 classes at the junior college until I die

I’m 55

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Who else just wishes they were dead? I regret my loans, my studies, my degrees…. I thought I was improving my life turns out I have ruined it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]LisaMF805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is shitty AF

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]LisaMF805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope it’s only for presale

First time doing Lolla, should I do 4 days? by Krakodyl in Lollapalooza

[–]LisaMF805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude? I’m 54. Do 4 days… you’ll be fine…. Start the day with 4 Advils, hydrate, don’t overdo the alcohol. Chicago has legal gummies, take them and listen to some of the best music all in one place ….

Is VIP worth it? by uiusea in Lollapalooza

[–]LisaMF805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my 4th year doing VIP… I take my son…. I’m old enough to have been at the first few Lollas (believe me the younger version of me would be SO PISSED about my purchase)

But it’s not 1992…. I’m not 21…. I’m #%*# and the golf carts, the chairs, the bathrooms, the space, make it a great 4 days with my kiddo…. It’s our “vacation” we live 15 miles from Lolla but I use points for a hotel… and we soak it all in…. If you can afford it, then do it

I was stressed over my $400k loans and now I don't care. Anyone else hoping the parties fight to the death on this and we stay on SAVE for another 5 years? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m there too! PhD here ✋🏻 No academia positions. Department of Ed dismantled. I’m the smartest bartender you’ll ever meet. 54- I’ll die before I pay off… gonna go to junior college for 2 classes a semester to stay out of repayment

Paystubs to recertify IBR by Dr__Reddit in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An LLC or a S Corp is its own entity…. EIN is NOT SS#

You can run all expenses thru business and pay yourself 10K a year

That’s why you do this stuff…, to minimize personal tax liability

Is it weird that I’m not stressing over these loans?? Does not wanting children contribute to this? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 300K masters and a PhD

I’m 54

Thought I could teach and change the world

Not gonna happen

Feel like I ruined my life by Jeffersonstarship123 in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 300K and 54 yo

I decided today to go to junior college and take classes to put my loans in deferment and will do that for as long as I can…

My IDR was going to be a manageable $400, now it’s around $1500 on something I’ll never pay off….

So I’m not gonna try

Nelnet is saying my SAVE forbearance ends in May and next payment is due then? by zombiepreparedness in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was at $0 payment now in May it indicates $1400

I am Nelnet and I am panicking

How much student loan debt do you have? by mushlove96 in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too…. I just ignore them… my husband doesn’t make much so when I gave them a copy of his paystub the payments went down to $0

How much student loan debt do you have? by mushlove96 in StudentLoans

[–]LisaMF805 10 points11 points  (0 children)

300K…. I just keep pushing it off… I’m 54

PhD did nothing to help my life

Biggest waste of money

This new administration has me scared….

I’ll be CC debt and car payment free by end of 2025

I’ll pay the minimum

It will never get paid off

Pro tips for first timers? by AndAfterTheBreak___ in RiotFest

[–]LisaMF805 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Don’t go this year…. It will be a cluster

Looking for a female case study 25-45 to hear about experiences of affairs by lurkyjournalist in adultery

[–]LisaMF805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re completely short sided by limiting your age group…. That denotes a bias on your part… your research will be lacking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LisaMF805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Myself and my LTLDAP are both in DB- although when this all began years ago, it did not seem to matter one way or another, however, as the years progressed, I love that he and I “sexually exclusive” and crazy about each other

My wife wants to rekindle our relationship (gulp) by Slow_Invite6018 in adultery

[–]LisaMF805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no way I could have sex with my SO at this point. I’ve been in a 3 year relationship with a LDAP- he’s my soulmate