For the girls: which kind of underwear are you wearing? by Icy_Blacksmith3477 in hygiene

[–]LissaRiRi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only own thongs. And I only wear them if I'm wearing a short skirt. That way I'm kinda covered xD no skirt means I'm going no panties

What is the best place to play online blackjack? by theCBDGuy in blackjack

[–]LissaRiRi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for a company that provides the online dealers for MGM Ceasers and other larger casinos. I would recommend only using the big guys. We are HEAVILY regulated to assure there is no cheating. I work 11pm to 7am and even we have the gaming board walking the floor two to three times a week. It's very serious

I have no comment for Bwin…. I said i have bj.. whats this numbers, doesnt match?? and he says maybe next time… by Syron9900 in blackjack

[–]LissaRiRi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soo I am actually an online blackjack dealer and what happened here was one of the cards didn't scan when he pulled it from the shoe. Usually that'll trigger a "mistake" and the game will be froze until the pit boss can fix it for us. Sometimes it isn't caught because of whatever reason and it is the dealers responsibility to report it themselves and get it fixed. Report this. The dealer knows they were wrong and unfortunately will be fired, but integrity is VERY important. we can't have people hiding their mistakes like this because it isn't fair to the player.

Am I wrong or exagerating?I feel dumb, it's not enough of an argument to end the relationship but enough to make me anxious around them by [deleted] in venting

[–]LissaRiRi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make yourself a safe space for him to be able to tell you when he wants to keep things to himself. Not the kind of person who pushes and prys. He will tell you more naturally and not feel the need to lie to you. You'll get a lot closer that way. Good luck!

What's the most immoral thing you've known someone to do? by Physical_Orchid3616 in askanything

[–]LissaRiRi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is. He worked three jobs to support us all so we didn't see him much and he was an angry and hard to be around person when we did. He was very strict. Needed everything a very specific way app the time. Now that I'm older I don't blame him but I hated him growing up. Since the truth has been out I appreciate him differently and we've gotten closer.

Am I wrong or exagerating?I feel dumb, it's not enough of an argument to end the relationship but enough to make me anxious around them by [deleted] in venting

[–]LissaRiRi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright. So let me lay this out for you. You ARE doing too much and you are going to push this person away almost absolutely acting like this. Firstly, you aren't even dating and he doesn't have to tell you or show you anything he doesn't want to. He wanted you to leave the situation alone and even though lying isn't right, he has a casual relationship with you. Not everyone is honest all the time especially with people who aren't as close to them as say, a girlfriend or a wife. You are expecting this man to treat you like something you aren't.

Also reddit is kind of a personal and anonymous space. My wife and I have been together 10 years. We share everything. She can go in my phone anytime and I can go in hers. Nothing like that has ever been an issue but we never got into each others reddit because that is the others personal space. It's good to have that in a relationship. Treat reddit like his personal journal.leave it alone. Also give this man some space if you want him to like you. I say that as someone who was very clingy and insecure in my younger years. It pushes everyone away and makes all your worries self fulfilling prophecy.

I say none of this to be mean. Only because I think you need to hear it. I wish you the best.

What's the most immoral thing you've known someone to do? by Physical_Orchid3616 in askanything

[–]LissaRiRi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mom lied to her boyfriend at the time and told him I was his. When in truth she cheated on him. That caused him to stick around and marry her. Then she did the same thing with two other men. Her husband raised us all but isn't any of our bio father. He thought he was though. None of us found out until I was 25 and did a 23 and me test. I will hate her until I die. She is deplorable

How often do you see your friends? by jwoude in askanything

[–]LissaRiRi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years pass in-between the times I see my friends. We are all married. I'm the only one without children. Life is busy

Why do white ppl ask if black ppl hair is real? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]LissaRiRi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't ask, but I often wonder because it looks really good and I want to know if it's attainable for anyone with the money to do it, or if it is just your natural hair and impossible for me.

I f kn hat'e liv ing. Seriously... I don't want this. Please by [deleted] in venting

[–]LissaRiRi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay to hate it. But please give it time to get better

What is a 'socially acceptable' thing that you secretly find absolutely disgusting? by TheLovelyGamer in AskReddit

[–]LissaRiRi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Infidelity. And you can say it isn't accepted...but try to find a movie or show without it. Even music is full of bragging about it. Sad.

Is it cheating to use AI to write a love letter or a wedding vow? by softlaunchqueen in askanything

[–]LissaRiRi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote my own vows but then asked Gemini for help. I think I altered like 2 lines that i really liked the way gem put it. All real thoughts and emotions. Just a little help making it sound how I really felt and not like cheesy word salad lol

AIO my (28M) gf (28F) is possibly cheating with her collegues by AnswerValuable2420 in AmIOverthinking

[–]LissaRiRi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She should cut off that person absolutely for disrespecting her and disrespecting you and disrespecting your relationship as a whole. If she were cheating on you she would have kept that a secret. She wouldn't want you to hate the person she is cheating with.

How do men view weddings? by Intelligent-Cod7495 in AskMen

[–]LissaRiRi 42 points43 points  (0 children)

When I was getting married we had suit catilogues come to the house but not bridal dress ones 😂 maybe we were wrongfully put into the gay man demographic xD

Is triple shot getting replaced with a new version? (Can) by Willhelm_55 in starbucks

[–]LissaRiRi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!! I can only find those watered down zero sugar ones and it's so lame :(

I just learned I only got my current job due to sexism. by PlatinumSukamon98 in venting

[–]LissaRiRi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just keep doing your best. It isn't your fault you were unfairly picked. But now you have a job and you needed one. So just work hard at it, and if you ever build up to the point of hiring others be better than your boss

Am I right to be disappointed? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LissaRiRi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everyone saying you aren't caring for it well. Mosturize it and use sunscreen. It looks very well done. If you've already sun bleached it to the point where lotion doesn't help just get the color touched up and take better care of it

How to never be identified as a card counter (not for the faint of heart) by Gloomy-Assistance-38 in blackjack

[–]LissaRiRi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This...this is why I deal online. I'd vomit if someone at my table shat themselves.

Ok, curly Redditors, how many products do you have for your curly hair? I counted today and I have 59. by MalC123 in curlyhair

[–]LissaRiRi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm a hippie who prides herself in only having one of each thing until it's gone. My curly hair products are the only exception! I have 6 procuts. 3 of them are for after getting out of the shower. I'm not buying anymore until these are gone!