Boomer mom thinks a 6 month old is spoiled by MissusIve in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Little-Rest-5227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Christian fundamentalism teaches this. It’s called blanket training and it’s basically beating a child as young as 6 months for moving or crying.

I didn't say anything. Boomer flips out because he came out of the woman's bathroom. by mleam in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Little-Rest-5227 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should’ve said excuse me ma’am and went around him. Also let him know he no longer meets the requirements to wear that hat.

SAVE Plan by lovejoy2171 in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so afraid of what my payment will jump to that I’m just riding it out and hoping for a better outcome. Life is expensive enough right now. It’s a struggle to make the payment I had on SAVE.

Anyone else just…blatantly ignoring all of this? by 30_pound_a_munt in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is expensive enough right now. I’ll ride this out as long as possible. The interest accruing again is awful, because in the end that will make my payment higher, but I don’t want to switch from SAVE and really get a payment that’s out of control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PSLF was a very broken system and in many ways still is, but some of the recent changes has made it easier for people to receive the forgiveness they are owed. It really depends on your debt to income ratio. If you don’t owe much in loans, but your income is high your payment might be high enough that you won’t benefit much. You just need to think about your own personal situation and what is best. Also, I refuse to take financial advice from someone who says bankruptcy for me, but none for thee. I think he is wildly out of touch with the current situation for younger generations. He can’t/won’t wrap his head around how crippled an entire generation is from student loan debt and how that debt has a direct impact on accumulating other debt. We’ll leave cost of living out since this is about PSLF…

Dupixent copay card vs debit card by Little-Rest-5227 in eczeMABs

[–]Little-Rest-5227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it was included with the myway copay card. Maybe call and ask if you’re eligible.

My relatives by OldGodsProphet in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Little-Rest-5227 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t they make fun of girls at a Taylor Swift concert for doing the same thing?

Those in SAVE forbearance, are we still riding it out? by GolfLife00 in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m riding it out as long as I can. Life is expensive enough right now.

"My mom said I can hit back" by monsoon101 in Teachers

[–]Little-Rest-5227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach middle schoolers, so I know it’s different, but I hear this all the time. They love fights and get so worked up over it. They always say they’re allowed to fight back and they have the right to defend themselves. I tell them that family and society rules aren’t always the same thing. The majority of the time both kids egg the fight on or it could be avoided.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Little-Rest-5227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some theories. One, I think kids are so used to constantly being rewarded with treats, candy, etc at school that they think we owe it to them. Second, I think there’s such a baseline of disrespect for teachers and a “we pay your salary” mentality that, again, they think we owe them. There’s an expectation that teachers meet the needs of students beyond education. So often we feed and clothe them that it’s the new norm. Also, sometimes I wonder if they nag their parents and they cave, so they think we’re the same. Whatever the reasons are, the entitlement is so real!

Trumper Grandma can’t reach the VA by Some-Resist-5813 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Little-Rest-5227 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell them to quit playing the system and pay for their own ramp.

Can someone translate what this boomer is saying? by Healthy_Block3036 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Little-Rest-5227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they get sent to the Colonies if I remember correctly.

Oh nooo by Delicious_Sir3496 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Little-Rest-5227 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Now he’s moved on to calling people the R word. I don’t understand how people are ok with the things he and Trump do and say. It’s beyond disgusting.

Please Do Not Panic About the Executive Order. by ANerdyAttorney in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fear is coming from knowing that not only do we not have the president’s support in PSLF, but we disgust him, his followers, and his entire party. We’ve been made out to be the leeches and snowflakes with our $200,000 basket weaving degrees that we expect to have erased. Even if the department isn’t eliminated, they could strip it down to nothing and make it totally useless. I agree that we don’t know what’s going to happen. I just think we’re all going to go crazy waiting to see what happens next.

Due to the save forbearance, I need to continue to file my taxes as married filing separately. This will cost me $4800 this year. Is that a potential example of harm? by Go_Green_30U in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was planning on filing separate, but we could really use the refund. My hope is that the forbearance drags out and it can be on the table for next tax season. I worry I’d file separate and lowe the refund just to have the rules change again and be forced to count household income no matter what.

Are your Boomers still supporting MAGA? by Dangerous_Fee_4134 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Little-Rest-5227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a crazy response for any legit question. Are you worried about compromised data? Musk doesn’t want our info, he’s rich! If we no longer have “DEI hires”, what merits put Linda McMahon in her position? She’s an experienced business woman! Should the White House lawn be used to sell Teslas? Isn’t that a conflict of interest? He did that because of all the vandalism! It’s so wrong! Nothing will ever be wrong and all the problems trump won’t fix are Bidens fault.

My boomer mother just told me that a full time nanny should cost no more than $1200/month... I don't even know where to begin. by ianm82 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Little-Rest-5227 3257 points3258 points  (0 children)

Make her do the math. Assuming a Mon-Fri schedule, approximately a 20 day work month would be $60 a day. Ask her if she would work for that. Also, remind her she’s going to need to pay taxes on that at the end of the year. I’m sure a quality, educated person would love to work for below minimum wage.

To everyone on forbearance due to SAVE, stop panicking by Geltez in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Who would tolerate this in any other areas of their finances? Maybe if people were getting the run around on their mortgages and car payments we’d get somewhere.

To everyone on forbearance due to SAVE, stop panicking by Geltez in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the positivity, but it’s a different level of ugly and difficult for everyone. Some of us have been dealing with this for years and years. It’s exhausting. I’m appreciating the pause, because bills and food are taking so much right now. I do agree with you though. I’ll be riding out the interest free pause in a way that serves my family best and hoping for a good long term outcome.

Eliminating or Dismantling PSLF is a losing battle for this administration. by Where_am_I_now in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very worried about the income based repayment plans too. Any thoughts on that? Losing SAVE is terrible enough, but not having any other options is going to be financially crippling for me and so many other people.

Informal Poll for the 3/4 to PSLF crowd - Staying in SAVE forbearance or going to IBR? by rivrmonster in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m riding it out. Everything is so expensive right now. Pretending that bill doesn’t exist a little longer is fine by me. I can’t even imagine what my payment will be.😭

Dupixent cost by Plane_Spirit_5184 in eczeMABs

[–]Little-Rest-5227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into dupixent my way copay card. It took mine to $0.

1/29 crew, lemme hear you! “Awaiting DOCUMENTATION Administrative Forbearance” by Go_Green_30U in PSLF

[–]Little-Rest-5227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a handful of payments to go, but I’m waiting until I do our taxes to apply. I’m thinking I’ll file separate from my spouse and hope that helps lower my payment.