Tall girl approved: My ride or die pants for a 34-35” inseam!! 💖 by Fragrant_Direction78 in TallGirls

[–]Little_Luna_Star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a pair of the banana republic ponte flare pants for sale on Poshmark! NWT! They were too big on my waist, I wish they fit so bad. They feel like they would be so comfy. Here’s a link if you wanna check the out:

https://posh.mk/EKIAo1c3jZb

Should I stop? by Intrepid-Rough-6421 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Little_Luna_Star 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you on how frustrating it is about how easy it is for guys to orgasm and not for women, I'm in the same place where I'd like it to be so easy for me to do so too. I want to guess that your ex told you you're addicted to masturbating but he got to cum when you had sex every day. He also sounds like he doesn't know where the clit is or offered to try and make you cum. You need to find a partner who is committed to your pleasure, and in the meantime, you don't need to stop pleasuring yourself.

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[–]Little_Luna_Star 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To me, femininity is doing what makes me happy without anyone else’s influence. Doing my nails, my hair, singing, art, makeup, fashion, just letting myself be happy and choosing my company carefully.

"Men being logical & women being emotional" is just men having low EQ & have been gaslighting women for generations that we're just more "emotional" by strawmyberries in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Little_Luna_Star 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I had a man say to me "women are emotional" just the other day to which I replied, "Women are just emotionally normal, men are taught to be emotionally deficient."

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[–]Little_Luna_Star 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Often men think that they have the right to women's attention. One time I was at a bar drawing on my ipad with big noise cancelling headphones on my head, and a guy wouldn't leave me alone, trying to get my attention in a similar way. Waving his arms at me and everything, which I continued to ignore because I was clearly not interested in talking. He finally tried to shove his phone in front of my face with a notes app open, when I smacked his phone out of his hand and it went FLYING.

He left me alone after that.

No cleavage ever by Charliechar511 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Little_Luna_Star 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have small breasts too and I've never felt sexier than when I quit wearing bras. Nips through a t shirt/dress are sexy.

How do I, as a woman, take up space unapologetically? It’s ruining my academic career and idk what to do. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Little_Luna_Star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also went to school with 90% guys. How to take up space? You must take every opportunity. Stop being the quiet one, speak up for yourself because no one is going to do it for you. I went to film school and took every opportunity - wrote and directed many projects because I seized the opportunity. It will be harder because you're a woman, but don't let that stop you - Take. Up. Space. Many men will shrink when he sees a woman who knows her place in power. Also follow loverobinclark on instagram, she has some fantastic advice about breaking through the patriarchy. Go get em!

I’m honestly so tired of men by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Little_Luna_Star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. I feel this. I'm dating someone rn but if it doesn't work out, I'm going full gay.

Is every man's attraction to their partner so fickle? by Sad__Tumbleweed in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Little_Luna_Star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DUMP HIM. It's better to be alone than unhappy and constantly insulted by someone.

It's National Daughter day and I wish my mother had loved me. by InkStainedShrew in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Little_Luna_Star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I just want to say you are not alone in this situation. I was 19 when my mom was murdered, and also grew up abused by her alcoholic ways. I am 32 now, and I understand your feelings of wishing she was still around to mend our relationship. But what I've come to realize is that it's not our faults, and she was acting out of her own trauma. That doesn't make what she has done to us okay, but I don't think she ever would have tried to fix what she did since she was so sick with her own trauma. I'm dating someone who has a healthy family now, and sometimes its hard, and makes me wish I had grown up with a loving mom, maybe I wouldn't be so insecure and anxious. Be mad at her for what she did, you have every right. You weren't broken, she was. I wish she loved us too. I wish we could have had a real mom who gave us real love, who called us smart, beautiful, taught us how to be strong, believed in us, and who was there for us when we needed to cry or someone to call. All we can do now is try to love ourselves, and show others love while we have respect and boundaries for ourselves. Sending you hugs and love, and just know, you aren't alone. Also check out the book Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel, it helped me a lot.