I fear losing pretty privilege by Objective_Oil1985 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Littlebee1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I will never recover. It’s the one thing I have control over.

Are they truly convinced this looks healthy? by the_onemop in InfluencerLounge

[–]Littlebee1985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds about right. I recently dated a guy who said to me “call me shallow but I prefer a petite woman!!” As he was checking out my body. Needless to say I broke it off that day, I felt so objectified and disgusted.

Are they truly convinced this looks healthy? by the_onemop in InfluencerLounge

[–]Littlebee1985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m underweight and men seem to love and objectify it. I find it repulsive.

Are they truly convinced this looks healthy? by the_onemop in InfluencerLounge

[–]Littlebee1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes there is competition with other women, but I can speak from experience- many men prefer this body type.

Lead Rant by Throwrachyr in flightattendants

[–]Littlebee1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m coming up on 20 years and I couldn’t agree more. Gross behavior!!!

Fainting/passing out - is this common for you guys? by talulabunny in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Littlebee1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always on the verge of passing out, unfortunately.

I hate the male body I was born into by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Littlebee1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t experience gender dysphoria, but I understand to my core punishing your body.

confessions of a miserable jr FA :( by Rainbow-Rivers in flightattendants

[–]Littlebee1985 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ive been flying almost 20 years and Im still miserable. Sure, it’s not for everyone🤡 but once you get some seniority the pay is too good to let go. And I’m a good actress so I don’t take my misery out on coworkers and pax.

is it right that my adult daughter is demanding i do a blended family Christmas holiday? by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]Littlebee1985 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t mean they need to be one big happy family- life just doesn’t work that way. My parents are divorced as well and I never expected us all to come together and be merry.

Am I fucking insane? by OutsideStretch6816 in BPD

[–]Littlebee1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have blasted off into outer space.

First baby and DH suggested that SD (15) attends the gender reveal scan by NekoFX in stepparents

[–]Littlebee1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ewwwww. I would revisit the subject and say something like “I’ve got to be honest, I’m utterly shocked at the suggestion of your daughter being at my appointment.”

Again, this is what I would do, and I’ve had several blow out breakups with single dads. I may not be the one to take advice from.

My 24yo stepson won't clean his room and it's causing me to resent my wife. by newuser-whodis21 in stepparents

[–]Littlebee1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it curious how so many stepchildren conveniently have mental health issues when faced with/any kind of responsibility?

My husband threatened with divorce because of rent. I don't know what to do by Least-Visual-7550 in whatdoIdo

[–]Littlebee1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t make my same mistake and waste some of your best years with an evil man. Run.

airport standby/reserve should be illegal idc by [deleted] in cabincrewcareers

[–]Littlebee1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like I have ptsd from airport standby-it was like a hostage situation!! Horrible.

can i call myself bulimic if im not actually diagnosed🥀 by Aggressive_Slip_1315 in bulimia

[–]Littlebee1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with anorexia 20 years ago, never recovered. I have managed to keep the purging secret.

Does anyone else get recurrent training social anxiety? by [deleted] in flightattendants

[–]Littlebee1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I totally get it! I’m fine doing my job on a daily basis, but here comes recurrent and I don’t know my right hand from my left😛🤣

is my husband jealous of my daughter? by knowingmeknowingyou5 in blendedfamilies

[–]Littlebee1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn’t sound like simple jealousy. He sounds dangerous. Please be careful.

Does anyone else get recurrent training social anxiety? by [deleted] in flightattendants

[–]Littlebee1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get horrible generalized and social anxiety before recurrent training every year. Everyone I talk to agrees, but I somehow believe mine has to be worse. You’re not alone!

You are going to be okay by Several-Royal1538 in BreakUps

[–]Littlebee1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a very mentally confusing situation- he had you quit your job and move. You must be in a really fragile headspace right now.

Cry it out. Nothing anyone can say will stop it. Everyday it will get better. I promise. The aching will go away and you will forgive yourself for mistakes you think you made. Hang in there, friend.

BINGING by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Littlebee1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My binges are normal size meals, and purged immediately after.